We all have those days when we just can’t muster the strength to clean our homes. For some of us, these days are few and far between, but for others, it’s a constant struggle due to chronic illness or d********n. Imagine opening up to a friend about this struggle, only to find out they’ve aired your dirty laundry (quite literally) on Facebook for all to see. This is the story of one woman’s battle with her illness, her messy condo, and a well-meaning friend who may have crossed a line. ️
The Struggle Behind Closed Doors

The Unseen Battle

A Friend in the Picture

A Helping Hand or a Hidden Agenda?

The Unexpected Facebook Reveal

The Unwanted Spotlight

The Fallout

The Aftermath: Broken Bonds?

The Morning After: A Friendship on the Rocks?

The Unseen Struggle: A Plea for Understanding

The Clean-Up Catastrophe: A Tale of Friendship, Vulnerability, and Misunderstanding
A woman, battling a debilitating chronic illness and d********n, finds herself in a messy situation. She opens up to a friend about her struggle to maintain her condo. The friend, eager to help, cleans up the condo and posts the transformation on Facebook. However, this act, meant to be a good deed, turns into a public spectacle. The woman feels humiliated and asks her friend to remove the post. The aftermath? A friendship on shaky ground and a woman left questioning whether she was wrong to ask for privacy. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA – Friend’s performative act for social media is selfish and insincere

NTA—Personal space invaded. Friend seeks validation. Good riddance! ♂️

Friendship tested: When a good deed becomes a social media spectacle

“NTA: Friend violated privacy by broadcasting your mental health struggles. “

“Posting pics of someone’s home without permission? Not cool. “
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Man defends himself against online shaming for a good deed

Privacy breach! NTA’s cleaning service crossed the line.

NTA. ‘Look at what I did’ culture is a**hole-ish. Empathize.

“Cleaning for clout? You’re the a**hole! Remove it from socials!”

Moral cookies backfire! NTA exposes hypocritical ‘good person’ on social media

Friend takes advantage of vulnerability for social media clout.

Sharing struggles on social media? Trust shattered.

Friend’s ‘help’ feels like using pain for internet points. Cringey!

NTA. Respect privacy.

Friend’s ‘good deed’ on social media backfires. NTA, privacy invasion.

Cut off the attention-seeking friend, you deserve better!

NTA. Helping for the wrong reasons. You deserve better friends!
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NTA: Privacy matters!

Communal narcissism? Feeling violated? NTA. Red flags in friendship.

Friend’s good deed goes viral, causing unexpected vulnerability and humiliation

NTA for being upset about personal belongings being posted

Friendship or internet points? The true motive behind the ‘good deed’

Sharing private photos without permission? Not cool!

Doing good deeds silently speaks louder than shouting about them!

NTA: Friend’s viral post about you caused unnecessary pain

A simple answer sparks curiosity. What’s the context?

NTA. Betrayed trust, bragged, not ok. No decent person behaves like that.

NTA. Trust broken, friends siding with girl, cut her out.

Friend’s ‘good deed’ backfires, disregards feelings. NTA.

Last Updated on October 16, 2023 by Diply Social Team