Who doesn’t love a friendly debate among pals, especially when it takes an unexpected turn? Meet our protagonist, a 26-year-old single guy, and his friend Jenny, a vocal feminist. These two often find themselves on opposite sides of debates, sparking lively discussions. But what happens when a casual debate about friendships between men and women turns into a $100 bet? Well, let’s just say, things got heated, and the outcome was not what Jenny expected.
Setting the Stage: The Friendly Rivalry ♂️
Meet Jenny: The Feminist Firecracker
The Spark That Ignited the Debate
The Debate: Can Men and Women Be Just Friends?
The Heat Rises: The Bet is On!
The Results Are In: A Shocking Revelation
The Aftermath: Pay Up or Back Down?
The Fallout: A Group Divided ♀️ ♂️
The $100 Question: Who’s the Real Winner Here?
Our protagonist and Jenny’s friendly rivalry took an unexpected turn when a debate about friendships between men and women led to a daring $100 bet. Jenny was confident that her male friends wouldn’t take her up on a hookup offer, but the results left her shocked and upset. When our protagonist insisted she pay up, the group was divided. The men sided with him, while the women thought he was being unreasonable. It’s a classic tale of ‘be careful what you bet on.’ So, who’s right in this situation? Let’s see what the internet has to say…
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ESH for the exhausting debate on being friends with exes.
YTA for being insensitive and ignoring her feelings.
Soft YTA. Bet reveals friends’ ulterior motives, causing awful feeling.
A**holes arguing all the time, creating a toxic environment
ESH – Insensitive bet leads to lost friendships and hurt feelings
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Debate-turned-bet reveals unresolved feelings and broken promises. ♀️
NTA. Shut up and pay. Keep her head straight.
YTA for treating your friend like a potential hookup
NTA, but be cautious of making bets that hurt others.
NTA. Bet honor upheld.
Stupid bet exposes fake friends. Losing $100 or losing friends?
Secure the bag: Bet with friends, not random people.
A dumb bet ruins friendship and proves nothing about intentions. ESH.
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NTA: A bet’s a bet. She’s pissed about losing
ESH- Friends with benefits debate turns into pointless $100 bet
Lesson learned: Some things shouldn’t be bet on!
Pay up! She’s TA for being a baby about it.
Bet vs. friendship: ESH, but is it worth it?
Woman refuses to pay up after losing $100 bet. NTA!
Debate turns unhealthy with a $100 bet and gloating
A feminist’s $100 bet turns into a lesson on double standards.
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A friendly debate turned into a $100 bet. Who’s laughing now?
NTA- Hold her accountable but be the bigger person
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Gender dynamics and the consequences of playing games in relationships.
No obligation to stay friends. ♂️
A friendly debate turned into a $100 bet. Who’s laughing now?
Friendly bet turns sour, NTA throws it back in face
NTA: Debunking misconceptions about relationships can be eye-opening
NTA lol. Friends can’t be *just* friends? Girl should pay!
ESH for a bet that devalues friendship for sex.
Proving fake friends wrong. NTA. Girls calling you AH.
NTA: Friendzoning can have consequences. She played with fire
NTA. A bet is a bet.
NTA wins the bet, no mercy for sore losers!
NTA wins $100 bet, but she refuses to pay. Unfair!
Crushing a friend’s faith in friendships? Letting defeated foes retire.
NTA: Epic clapback after she started the debate and bet!
She bet on friends, lost, and now hides behind tears.
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NTA: She picked a fight and now regrets it. ♂️
Breaking gender stereotypes with a salty twist
Navigating the complexities of friendships with opposite genders
A point is a point and she’s a naive idiot.
Not the a**hole. Let’s hear the juicy details!
NTA: Bet consequences include broken egos and sudden realizations!
A bet gone wrong: Who should pay up? ESH.
NTA. Honesty hurts, but sticking to your word is important.
NTA: Bet poorly structured, but friendship and attraction aren’t exclusive
NTA. You were right and she was wrong.
Unapologetically liberal and standing by the bet. NTA!
“NTA – Your friend is a major AH. It’s one thing to be naive and put faith in your friends. It’s completely another to be willing to ‘test’ your supposed friends like that. What did she think would happen?? All 3 of them would say some noble BS like I don’t see you that way anymore? Then what, she says haha nevermind, I was just testing you? Either way, she’s pretty much gonna lose those friends. It’s really f**ked up for her to use them just to try to prove you wrong. And kind of unbelievable that not one person in your friend group (even you) spoke up and said – are you sure you wanna do that, it could backfire?
I mean I probably wouldn’t have asked her to pay up given how spectacularly this failed. But shame on her for being unwilling to pay AND f**king over her friends. No matter how confident you are, you don’t enter into a bet you aren’t willing to lose.
But I would agree with you, OP. If you dated someone and broke up with them, you can’t remain platonic friends 95% of the time. If you had sexual attraction to them, that doesn’t usually just go away. Especially for guys.”
No a-hole here. Confusion over a non-contentious issue.
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A bet is a bet! NTA for holding her accountable.
NTA. Jenny needs to pay up. A bet is a bet.
NTA: Dodged a bullet with this jerk!
NTA: Reality check leads to a $100 compromise for everyone
NTA. Easy money! XD Who’s laughing now?
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NTA. Epic karma for flawless f**k around and find out moment
Awkward crush texts turn into romcom plot with no happy ending
Engaging in a friendly debate with a confident outcome.
Bet lost, friendships tested, and a podcast idea sparked!
Debate on friendship, attraction, and feminism turns into a mess
NTA, lol! Stupid, but you’re definitely not the a**hole!
NTA for wanting the bet paid out, but your attitude…
Winning a stupid prize for playing a stupid game.
Lmfaoooo, the tables have turned! Pay up, fair and square!
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NTA – No a-hole here. Winning a friendly debate!
