Picture this: a beautiful backyard wedding, the happy couple exchanging vows, and then… BAM! A surprise proposal steals the spotlight! But when the original bride and groom express their frustration, they’re accused of being homophobic. Is this just a case of bad timing, or is there more to the story? Let’s dive into the drama!
The Backyard Wedding

A Surprise Guest

The Unexpected Proposal

Tension in the Air

Defending the Bride and Groom

The Romantic Moment Excuse

Accusations of Homophobia

Standing Up for Politeness ♀️

The Aftermath

Friends Split on the Issue ♂️

The Real Issue

Seeking Outside Perspective

The Great Wedding Proposal Debate
So, what’s the verdict here? Was the wedding guest just caught up in the romantic moment, or did he genuinely think his sexuality would give him a free pass to propose at someone else’s wedding? While some friends think mentioning their sexuality was unnecessary, others believe the real issue is the breach of wedding etiquette. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama…
NTA comments slam inconsiderate wedding proposer, reject homophobia accusations

NTA. Proposing at someone else’s wedding is extremely rude

NTA’s statement on proposal at wedding sparks agreement and discussion.

Proposing at a wedding without permission? NTA calls out selfishness

Proposing at a wedding is a no-go, NTA for speaking up

NTA comment calls out misuse of identity in defense.

Proposing at someone else’s wedding is a big no-no
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Proposing at someone else’s wedding is a cheap move

Proposal at wedding: NTA for calling out rudeness, not homophobic.

Defending NTA’s actions, calling out victim mentality.

Supportive comment defends against homophobic accusations in surprise proposal.

Wedding proposal faux pas: NTA comment explains the etiquette

Wedding proposal = TA, according to NTA comment. Agree?

NTA comment defends the bride and criticizes the proposal at wedding

B had every right to call out J’s BS
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Proposal at wedding leads to accusations of homophobia. NTA.

Weddings aren’t the time for surprises, NTA handled it well

Gay commenter defends OP against false homophobia accusations.

Shutting down homophobia with grace and class.
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Wedding proposal debate sparks accusations of homophobia.

Wedding proposal at someone else’s wedding sparks homophobic accusations.

Short and sweet, NTA says it all.
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Defending against false accusations of homophobia.

Proposing at a wedding is wrong, sexuality is not excuse

Commenter defends NTA and criticizes misuse of ‘homophobic’ label.

Proposing at a wedding is a dick move

Gay man defends calling out proposal hijacker, shuts down accusations.

Proposal at a wedding: YTA or NAH? Debate ensues.

Comment defends proposal backlash, calls for accountability and empathy.

Commenter calls out proposal as selfish and accuses proposer of deflecting

Wedding proposals at someone else’s wedding are incredibly inconsiderate

Wedding guest receives support for not causing a scene.

Don’t hijack someone’s celebration for your own proposal! NTA.

Gay commenter defends correct use of ‘homophobic’, calls for attention.

Proposal at wedding leads to accusations of homophobia. NTA.

Accusations of homophobia used to deflect from bad behavior.

NTA defends against homophobic accusations after wedding proposal hijack

Proposing at someone else’s event? No shame!

Agreeing with NTA comment on homophobic accusations at wedding proposal.

When the accuser becomes the accused.

Queer woman defends couple accused of homophobia. Love wins!

Defending a friend against false accusations of homophobia.

Support for couple calling out wedding proposal hijackers.

NTA shuts down homophobic proposal at wedding

Defending against homophobic accusations after surprise proposal at wedding. NTA

NTA defends against accusations of homophobia and shares insight.

Bi commenter criticizes LGBTQ+ community for using sexuality as defense. NTA

Queer commenter defends NTA’s decision to kick out proposer.

Proposing at someone else’s wedding? Not cool. NTA.

Proposing at a wedding: NTA or ESH? Homophobia accusations.
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NTA for calling out selfish proposal at friend’s wedding

Wedding proposal steals the show, commenters disapprove

Homophobic accusations fly in response to comment about proposal etiquette

Commenter defends against ‘homophobic’ accusations with sass
