Weddings are a celebration of love, but what happens when someone else’s love story tries to steal the limelight? Our tale begins with a bride and groom, happily preparing for their big day. But, just two weeks before the wedding, the bride’s best friend’s boyfriend drops a bombshell: he wants to propose at their wedding reception! The bride, flabbergasted and uncomfortable, says no. Little does she know, this decision would lead to an emotional roller coaster ride.
The Unexpected Proposal Plan!
A Bride’s Dilemma!
The Shocking Reaction!
The Unwanted Proposal Timing! ⏰
The Silent Treatment!
The Truth Revealed! ️♀️
The Awkward Apology!
A Tale of Love, Friendship, and a Ruined Proposal!
In a whirlwind of emotions, our bride finds herself caught in the crossfire of love and friendship. After denying her best friend’s boyfriend the chance to propose at her wedding, she is met with silence and resentment. The truth finally comes out at the after-party, leaving everyone in a state of shock and confusion. The bride is left grappling with guilt and regret, wondering if she was in the wrong. But, was she really the villain in this story, or just a woman trying to protect her special day? Let’s see what the world thinks of this tangled tale of love and friendship.
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“NTA: proposing at a wedding is messed up”
“Weddings are about celebrating love… between two SPECIFIC people”
NTA: He wanted a free proposal, not a genuine commitment.
“Proposing at someone else’s wedding is tacky and lazy”
365 days a year, but he chose her wedding day?! NTA
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NTA! Rule #2: No proposals at weddings! Get better friends
NTA. Proposal timing and friend’s reaction caused unnecessary drama.
NTA. Proposal on someone else’s special day? Disgusting attention-seeking!
NTA. Proposing at someone else’s wedding is tacky
NTA. Public proposals are f-ed up generally and wedding proposals add an extra layer of gross for making someone else’s day all about you. They’re lazy and selfish and if he can’t think of a better way to propose than parasitizing your wedding, he’s not a catch. MOH should be mad at him not you.
Did the boyfriend set her up to be the bad guy?
NTA. BF’s proposal plan ruined MOH’s surprise. He’s to blame!
“NTA. No pregnancy announcements or wedding proposals at someone else’s wedding. That’s the rule. We all know the rule. They are 11 years together? And he told your BF, ‘that she would’ve been engaged that night if I hadn’t ruined his plan?’ That is kind of disturbing. Red-flag disturbing. Any moment of any day (excluding the very few hours that are someone else’s wedding) can be a proposal moment. Either one of them can say, at any moment, yet haven’t, ‘I adore you, want every day with you, will you marry me?’ There may not be a happily ever after for them.”
“NTA and if he doesn’t have sufficient funds to plan a proposal on another day then maybe he should rethink getting married. He wanted all attention on them both on your special day. MOH and bf need to rethink their priorities if they NEED to steal the spotlight to express their love.”
Friend blames OP for ruining surprise proposal. Unbelievable!
“Seriously? In what world is it okay to do THAT?!”
Bride stands up for herself, calls out MOH’s boyfriend!
NTA. Weddings are about love, not hijacking someone else’s moment!
Bride says ‘No’ to surprise proposal plan! Wedding drama unfolds!
Public proposals can ruin your special day and friendships.
Friend and boyfriend are both selfish and classless. Drop them!
Lazy proposal plan? NTA! Zero effort, drunk sulking.
NTA. Proposal at someone else’s wedding is rude and selfish!
NTA. It’s your special day, not his surprise proposal moment!
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Choose friends who celebrate you, not make it about themselves!
NTA. Friend wants to blame others for her own desires. Hijacking events is not okay. Don’t feel awful.
Bride rejects surprise proposal at wedding, friend’s boyfriend blamed.
NTA- Clever proposal or cheap attempt to piggyback on wedding?
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A resolute ‘no’ and a determined ‘he ain’t going’
Bride stands her ground against surprise proposal, 11 years later…
NTA. Weddings are for celebrating love, not someone else’s proposal!
Wedding drama! NTA shuts down surprise proposal hijack.
Wedding day is about YOUR love, not their piggyback proposal!
Wedding drama! NTA, proposing at someone else’s wedding?
Bride rejects surprise proposal plan, suspecting ulterior motives
♀️ NTA: Drunk groom spills surprise proposal at wedding! ♂️
Bride rejects surprise proposal plan. Commenter thinks it’s messed up!
Creative proposal idea, but bride said ‘no’! NTA.
NTA. Guy manipulated situation to blame you for no proposal.
NTA: You didn’t ruin anything! Offer proposal ideas to skint guy
Bride shuts down surprise proposal plan! Drama unfolds!
Support your friend through her difficult breakup and offer understanding.
Bride blames OP for her own dissatisfaction with proposal plan!
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11 years together and he still hijacked her big day! NTA
NTA. Proposing at someone else’s wedding is rude and selfish!
Proposing at someone else’s wedding? That’s a big no-no!
“Future engagement ruined” – denied chance of happiness. NTA.
Relationship crumbles as bride blames him for everything.
NTA- BF’s proposal plan steals attention from wedding day. Bride’s reaction.
Impatiently waiting for the proposal… Will it ever happen?
11 years of dating and he proposed at your wedding? NTA
