Picture this: You’re newly engaged, excitedly planning your dream destination wedding in Mexico. You’ve found the perfect adults-only hotel, and you can already hear the waves crashing as you say ‘I do’. But then, you drop the bombshell on your family, and suddenly, your dream wedding has turned into a family feud! ️ This is the predicament one couple found themselves in, and it’s got the internet buzzing. Let’s dive into the story…
The Dream Wedding Plan
The Big Reveal
The Family Dilemma
Work Schedule Woes ⏰
The Kids Want In!
The Hang-Up
Second Thoughts?
The Big Question
The Hidden Motive? ️♀️
The Olive Branch ️
The Short-lived Conversation ️
A Wedding Dream or a Family Nightmare? The Verdict Is Out! ️
So, there you have it. A couple’s dream of a serene, adults-only wedding in Mexico has turned into a family feud, with accusations of inconsideration flying around. The couple tried to find a middle ground, but the sister-in-law wasn’t having it. Now, they’re left wondering if they’re in the wrong for sticking to their guns, even if it means some family members can’t attend. It’s a tricky situation, no doubt. But what do you think? Are they being unreasonable, or just practical? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this…
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“YTA – Don’t expect people to drop everything and attend”
“YTA. The shady comment about SIL is tacky as f**k❤️”
SIL’s valid reason for not attending adults-only wedding
Destination wedding drama: YTA for not accepting ‘no’ and pestering.
“YTA for prioritizing your family over your fiancè’s. “
Having a child-free, destination wedding? Some won’t come, it’s understandable!
YTA for expecting them to come, then choosing an adults-only hotel and thinking that just because you are giving them notice that they would be comfortable leaving their kids and finding someone to take care of them.
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OP’s destination wedding sparks family feud over child-free policy. YTA.
“YTA… You knew they had kids but still chose that hotel? ♂️”
“YTA. You didn’t consider your fiancé’s family’s needs. Massive YTA.”
“YTA, asking BIL to leave his family at home was rude! “
YTA’s snide comment sparks family feud
Excluding family from wedding venue? YTA. Find inclusive alternative.
NTA for having a kid-free destination wedding, but consider their concerns
“YTA. Your fiancée’s family includes children. You’re being selfish.”
“YTA. No means no. Stop pestering and respect boundaries!”
NAH defends couple’s choice, BIL opts out with valid reasons.
“YTA. Expecting people to leave their kids for an adult-only wedding? “
Destination wedding: the joy of not attending!
NAH. It’s their wedding, but she’s sad she can’t attend.
Destination wedding sparks debate on affordability and entitlement. YTA.
YTA for the last jab. Not really your SIL? You went there.
Respecting wedding rules: Child-free hotel sparks family feud!
YTA for excluding your future husband’s kids from the wedding!
NTA. Do your wedding your way! It’s all about you!
YTA. Kids at wedding? Send them to a boarding kennel?
“YTA. Don’t expect guests to attend your destination wedding. Deal with it.”
“YTA. Being all-inclusive means some can’t afford it. Guests.”
YTA: Family-friendly destination wedding turns into adult-only drama!
“YTA. Destination wedding without kids? Don’t complain when people decline.”
YTA for making it difficult for your future husband’s family
YTA for expecting guests to prioritize your wedding over everything
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Destination weddings can be expensive and cause family conflicts.
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YTA for implying she’s jealous of you. Child-free destination weddings are tough for planning.
Tacky and entitled AF! Choosing an expensive child-free destination wedding. YTA.
YTA for prioritizing convenience over family, SIL called out rudeness.
“YTA. Insensitive and dismissive of family’s concerns. Consider their perspective.”
“YTA. Destination wedding + child-free = difficult for guests “
“YTA. Family declines invite, defends adult-only wedding. Drama ensues!”
“YTA. Destination weddings are an AH move, but your reasons…”
Destination weddings can be a hassle for guests
Wedding drama: YTA for excluding your fiancé’s only sibling!
Destination wedding drama! A hotel hiccup causes family friction.
YTA for expecting others to compromise their lives for you.
“NTA, it’s your wedding, but consider your fiancee’s family too!”
Compromising on a child-free wedding: family over ‘childfree’ idea.
“YTA for having a destination wedding. Guests don’t want to leave their kids!”
YTA expects others to pay for adults-only destination wedding. Selfish!
“YTA. Moving wedding abroad, won’t accommodate fiancé’s family. Selfish as hell! “
YTA- Entitled couple ignores family’s concerns in weddingzilla fashion.
“YTA. Excluding kids from wedding can strain family relationships. “
YTA: Sparks fly as comment section ignites in fiery debate!
Destination wedding: Few attendees, high cost. Is it worth it?
Entitled SIL vs. Bridezilla: Destination Wedding Drama
SIL suggests leaving kids at home, calls OP YTA.
Expecting family with kids to come? YTA. Understand their reasons.
YTA for not dropping the issue when they declined
