Imagine this: you’ve been best friends with someone since childhood. You’ve shared secrets, laughter, tears, and countless meals together. You’ve even gone to great lengths to accommodate her severe food allergies, altering your family traditions and even your own wedding menu to ensure her safety. But then, on the eve of her wedding, you discover a shocking truth: she’s not allergic at all, she just didn’t want to eat your food! This is the tale of a friendship pushed to the brink by a lie that lasted years.
Lifelong Friends and Wedding Plans

The ‘Deathly’ Allergy

Cultural Cuisine and the Allergy Dance

The Allergy Scare

Going Above and Beyond

My Wedding, Her Allergies ️

Family Drama and Cultural Cuisine

Her Wedding, My Concerns

The Shocking Revelation

The Lie Unveiled

Friendship on the Rocks

A Mother’s Advice

Is a Lie Worth Losing a Friendship Over?
So, there you have it – a friendship that stood the test of time, now on the brink of collapse due to a lie about a ‘deadly allergy’. Our protagonist is left feeling betrayed, hurt, and unsure of how to proceed. She’s been avoiding her friend’s calls and texts, and even her mom’s advice to let it go isn’t helping. The question remains: is this lie too big to forgive and forget? Or should she swallow her hurt and salvage the friendship? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Friend’s fake allergies cause wedding drama and betrayal

Friend claims allergies, ruins wedding. Power play or genuine concern?

“Your mom is wrong – you don’t actually have a friendship with this girl, you never did.” ♀️

“Avoiding Indian food” but faking a deathly allergy? NTA, she sucks

Curiosity about friend’s race sparks playful banter.

Lying about allergies is disrespectful and potentially dangerous
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Friend’s extreme food avoidance caused unnecessary worry and trouble. NTA!

NTA. Lying about allergies is despicable and dangerous for everyone

NTA suspects friend’s lies extend beyond allergy deception.
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Friendship on the rocks: NTA, she laughed when caught lying

A friendship shattered by lies and insults. Move on. NTA.

Racist vibes and micro aggressions? Time to rethink that friendship

Friend lied about allergy, ruined wedding. NTA for ending friendship.

Friend’s racism sparks heated debate about microaggressions.

NTA: Friend’s racism, lies, and fake allergies ruin friendships and trust.
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♀️ NTA: Friend lied for years, confronting her about immaturity

“NTA, she’s a piece of work! Your friendship wasn’t real.”

Friendship tested: NTA, she lied instead of declining politely

Friend lied about allergies, ruined wedding. NTA for being mad.

Spicy drama! NTA calls friend a dumb ass over Indian food

Shocked and hurt by a terrible friend’s racist deception. NTA

Surviving shellfish allergy: the struggle is real, and expensive
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Friend’s allergy skepticism causes wedding drama. OP is NTA.

Years of lying and betrayal in a so-called friendship

Friend’s fake allergies revealed her underlying racism. NTA!

Friend fakes allergy, ruins wedding and disrespects OP. NTA!

“Allergies aren’t a joke! You’re not the a**hole, great friend!”

Not the a**hole. Drama alert!
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NTA for changing wedding food to accommodate friend’s allergy

Cut ties with her . Fake allergies = major AH.

NTA- Ridiculous lie strains friendship. Drama unfolds.

NTA – Honesty is the best policy when it comes to food aversions

Friend’s deceitful actions ruin wedding meal, causing justified anger

Cut toxic friends out of your life!

Friendship strained over food preference. NTA for speaking up!

Lying about allergies? NTA! Perfectly acceptable and normal reaction.

NTA for accommodating allergies. Friend’s lying and disrespect is gross.

NTA. Dump this ‘friend’. Who doesn’t like Indian food?!

Friend faked allergy attack, never came clean. You deserve better.

Friendship betrayal: NTA for exposing her decade-long lies

Indian food lover outraged by disrespectful friend’s allergy excuse

Friendship strained by lies and unnecessary allergy drama

NTA. Creative excuses for avoiding spicy food without faking illness.

Bride accommodates friend’s food preferences at wedding, friend disrespects her. NTA!

Friend lies about Indian food, drop her as friend

Questioning trust: Is she taking advantage? Find better friends!

Insane and ungrateful friend gets called out. NTA

Wedding menu changed for ONE person?

Not the a**hole. What happened? Tell us more!

Friend fakes anaphylaxis to avoid food, sparks confrontation. Drama unfolds

Catered to her needs, but she’s been lying? Cut her off!
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NTA. Sacrificed a lot for a friend, but her selfishness ruined it.

NTA. She lied about allergies and was extremely racist. ️

Calling out a racist faker
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Manipulative friend ruins wedding plans, cut her out of life!

Friendship on the rocks: NTA, friend’s elaborate lie and immature handling.

Fake medical condition ruins wedding menu, betrayal feels. NTA.

Betrayal of trust and lies, time to cut ties. NTA

Accommodating for years, but she took it too far. Awful.

Wedding drama! Drop the friend and confront your mom

Shocking and Disgusting Racism: NTA Deserves Better

NTA. Friend fakes allergy, manipulates, and laughs. Wedding invite declined.
