We all love to share fashion tips and tricks with our friends, but what happens when it crosses the line into privacy invasion? Meet our protagonist, an 18-year-old girl who loves dressing up in a girly style, and her twin sister Kate, who has a more tomboyish fashion sense. Kate’s friend Jane, a transgender girl, is on a journey to embrace her femininity and starts seeking advice from our protagonist. But when Jane begins to mimic her style and invade her privacy, tensions rise between the sisters. Let’s dive into their story.
Jane’s Journey to Femininity
Opposite Styles: Tomboy vs Girly Girl
Jane Seeks Makeup Tips
YouTube to the Rescue
Copycat Fashion?
Seeing Double
Prom Dress Drama
Annoyance Turns to Anger
Privacy Invasion and Damage
Sarcasm and Sisterly Disagreements
Standing Her Ground
Fashion Faux Pas or Privacy Invasion? The Internet Weighs In ♀️
Our protagonist is caught in a whirlwind of emotions as her twin sister’s friend Jane mimics her style and invades her privacy. From sharing makeup tips to discovering her expensive clothes stretched out, she’s had enough. But is she being unreasonable for wanting to keep her fashion secrets and personal space to herself? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation, as we dive into the top responses from people who’ve been following this story.
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Sisters try on clothes without permission, ruin expensive items. NTA.
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Protect your privacy and clothes! Lock your closet. NTA
Sister invades wardrobe, refuses to pay back for damaged clothes. NTA.
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Setting boundaries with friends who violated sister code. NTA
Respectful sisterly advice or fashion faux pas invasion?
Setting boundaries with sister’s friend copying style, but showing empathy.
Respect privacy boundaries. Flattery doesn’t justify invasion
Sisterly admiration gone too far? NTA, but tread carefully
Respect privacy and property. NTA for standing up.
Sister’s friend invades privacy, ruins clothes. NTA for being upset.
NTA for setting boundaries, but sister’s actions were AH move.
Transgender sister takes clothes without permission, commenter says NTA.
Setting boundaries and respecting consent is important. NTA.
Trans twin disrespects boundaries, commenter says NTA
Twin sister’s friend invades privacy, NTA needs a lock
Sister’s friend invaded privacy, but helping her find style could help.
Setting boundaries with family can be tough. NTA for enforcing them
Respect boundaries and do your own research – NTA
Sister’s fashion mimicry crosses the line into creepy territory
Sister steals clothes and identity, but commenter says NTA
Sister and friend crossed boundaries by trying on clothes without permission
Sister copies your style and ruins clothes, NTA for reacting
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Setting boundaries with siblings and respecting personal property. NTA.
Setting boundaries with a twin sister who violated privacy
Respect privacy boundaries, being trans is irrelevant.
Set boundaries and protect your property. NTA
Copying your style is annoying, major AHs if they did.
Assertive response to invasive behavior. Set boundaries and demand compensation.
Sister invades privacy, ruins clothes. NTA for setting boundaries.
Fashion struggles for transgender twin sister lead to damaged clothes.
NTA for being upset about clothes and privacy. Text spam annoying. Pleasantly surprised by lack of transphobia
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NTA stands up against twin sister’s privacy invasion
NTA. Commenter shares a relatable laundry mishap story
Assertive response to fashion faux pas, NTA judgment.
Respect boundaries and privacy. Closet is off-limits.
Sister’s transition causes privacy invasion and fashion faux pas
Sister stretched out your clothes without permission? NTA, lock up!
Privacy invasion? Lock your closet and teach boundaries
Respect boundaries and shop in the women’s section, Jane
Don’t mess with someone’s clothes collection without permission. NTA.
Sibling drama and fashion faux pas – NTA but sister’s AH
Copying a friend’s dress is a no-no, ruining it is worse
Set boundaries and suggest stores for twin sister’s fashion inspiration
Fashion feud: Sister steals clothes, NTA suggests shopping solution.
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Respect boundaries and pay for damages. NTA.
Protect your privacy and invest in a lock
Privacy invasion and ruined clothes: NTA for being upset
Take that, twin! NTA sends bill and bans sister.
Sibling invasion of privacy leads to fashion disaster
Respect boundaries when it comes to borrowing clothes
Support system strained due to twin sister’s fashion faux pas.
Fashion faux pas or privacy invasion? NTA stands firm.
Setting boundaries and self-care is key. NTA
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Setting boundaries with a copycat twin sister
Sister’s friend destroys clothes, OP bans from room. NTA
Sister copies everything I do and even tried to marry my husband’s cousin #NTA
Sibling identity theft? NTA calls out lazy trans friend.
Empathize with Jane’s situation, but respect OP’s privacy boundaries.
Sisters invade privacy and stretch clothes? Definitely NTA
NTA demands payment from sister’s friend for ruined clothes
Respect personal style. Jane should find inspiration, not copy clothes.
Fashion thief alert! NTA stands up for her privacy.
Sister steals prom dress and clothes? Definitely not okay.
Setting boundaries with a copycat sibling
Respect privacy and boundaries, even when trying to help
Sister steals clothes, gets upset when not styled for free
Setting boundaries with siblings over clothes. NTA
Respect your privacy and boundaries, not obligated to help her.
Sibling invasion of privacy and property damage – NTA.
Sister tried on clothes without permission, NTA stands up
Friend violates boundaries by trying on clothes without permission. NTA.
Setting boundaries is important. Privacy invasion and ruined clothes unacceptable.
When your twin sister starts ‘single white female’ing you…
Coworker copies style after promotion, crosses line. Awkward and uncomfortable.
Copycat friend? Not cool. NTA for feeling unsettled.
Protect your boundaries and privacy, consider a lock
Sister snoops, ruins clothes, and gets off scot-free? #NTA
Setting boundaries with family members transitioning can be difficult.
Setting boundaries is key in twin sister fashion feud. ♀️
Sister’s friend crosses boundaries, NTA for setting limits.
NTA and offered helpful fashion ethics for girls.
Friendship turned obsession over fashion faux pas. NTA.
You own your clothes and have every right to decide who wears them
NTA. Sister’s friend invaded privacy, stretched expensive clothes. Double down rudeness.
Respectful boundaries are not gatekeeping. NTA
