Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a New Year’s Eve drama that’s sure to set off some sparks! Our leading lady and her son both struggle with PTSD, making sudden loud noises like fireworks a real nightmare. But her boyfriend seems to have missed the memo and decided to throw a fireworks-filled bash at their shared home! Will our heroine stand her ground or will she be forced to endure a night of terror? Let’s dive in and find out!
Trouble in Paradise: Boyfriend’s Fireworks Plan Sparks Conflict
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Like Mother, Like Son: Shared Sensitivity to Fireworks
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New Year’s Eve Party Plans: Boyfriend’s Surprise Guests
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Fireworks Fiasco: Boyfriend Ignores PTSD Concerns
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No Fireworks Allowed: Girlfriend Puts Her Foot Down ♀️
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Boyfriend’s Insensitive Suggestion: ‘Get Used to the Sound’
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Broken Promise: Boyfriend Sets Off ‘Tester’ Firework
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Escape Plan: Booking a Hotel for the Night ♀️
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Boyfriend’s Backlash: ‘You’re Being Selfish!’
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Heated Phone Call: ‘Go F–k Yourself!’
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Boyfriend’s ‘Solutions’: Earphones or Sleeping Through It
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Clapping Back: ‘F–k You Too, Babe!’
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Setting the Record Straight: Son’s PTSD Not Caused by Mom
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A Mother’s Wish: Removing Her Son’s Fear
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Powerless to Help: The Heartbreaking Reality
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New Year’s Eve Fireworks Fiasco: Boyfriend’s Insensitivity Sparks Explosive Conflict!
Well, well, well… looks like our boyfriend really put his foot in it this time! Despite knowing about his girlfriend and her son’s PTSD and fear of loud noises, he decided to throw a New Year’s Eve party complete with a fireworks extravaganza! Talk about insensitive! Our girl tried to put her foot down, but her boyfriend just wouldn’t listen. He even had the audacity to suggest that she and her son should just ‘get used to the sound’! When he broke his promise and set off a ‘tester’ firework, our heroine had enough and booked a hotel for the night. Cue the angry phone calls and expletive-filled texts! But our leading lady stood her ground and refused to come home. Now, let’s see what the internet has to say about this explosive situation…
Mom called ‘s****y’ for not buying unnecessary fireworks for son

Heartbreaking betrayal by boyfriend, NTA for leaving.

Boyfriend lacks basic empathy and respect for OP and child

Boyfriend’s selfishness is unbearable according to this comment.

Boyfriend’s dismissive behavior towards trauma trigger is not okay

NTA asserts that it is selfish for the boyfriend to prioritize his own amusement over his SO’s and her child’s PTSD, and that he’s an a**hole for lying and trying to downplay their trauma.

Partner disregards PTSD, lies, cusses out, and disrespects needs. NTA.

Pandemic partying? Not impressive, just plain irresponsible

Standing up against triggers and betrayal. You go, mom!

Can she legally kick out boyfriend after unbelievable betrayal?

Boyfriend disrespects boundaries and puts mom and son in danger
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Boyfriend triggers PTSD with fireworks on New Year’s? NTA.

Choose your child’s mental health over a self-centered boyfriend.

Tips for coping with fireworks anxiety.

Legitimate reasons for no fireworks ignored, NTA

Boyfriend disregarded PTSD & son’s aversion to fireworks. NTA.

Reassuring NTA comment with relatable parenting anecdote

Reconsider the relationship after unbelievable fireworks betrayal. NTA

Supportive comment with helpful advice. NTA, prioritize your mental health.

Boyfriend prioritizes his friends’ perception over his family’s well-being. NTA

Break up before it’s too late ⚠️ NTA

Boyfriend prioritized friends over traumatized girlfriend and son’s mental health

Thoughtful reply suggests learned behavior could be cause of fear

“Overreacting” = “Don’t like the consequences of my behavior”

NTA stood up for herself, he guilt-trips her after not listening

Fireworks trigger PTSD, NTA offers sympathy and solidarity

Partner disregards PTSD: NTA for feeling betrayed

Fireworks on New Year’s: A Celebration or a Nuisance?

Boyfriend lacks empathy for PTSD and children’s sensitivity to noise.

NTA stands up for herself and son against unsympathetic boyfriend

Mature move to hotel, but beware of fireworks

Suggests exposure therapy for loud noise panic with empathy
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Boyfriend disregards PTSD and sets off fireworks, calls mom selfish

Empathetic comment applauds celebrating new year without fireworks, questions boyfriend’s selfishness.

NTA for being accommodating, what a romantic boyfriend

NTA. Get son therapy. Your PTSD may be affecting him

NTA calls out gaslighting, selfish boyfriend in blunt terms

Suggestion to cope with fireworks trauma, but what about dogs?

Boyfriend lacks sensitivity, hotel night away is comforting
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Respect your partner’s boundaries , don’t betray their trust for show-off friends.

Dump him! Gaslighting, blame-shifting, and minimizing mental illness are red flags. #NTA

Betrayed mom’s frustration with men who see her as just mom

Who needs fireworks anyway? NTA got it right

Boyfriend prioritizes his needs over traumatized mom and son

Boyfriend’s fireworks betrayal sparks NTA comment

Partner’s disregard for health concerns shows toxic behavior. NTA.

Non-4th of July fireworks are disrespectful to PTSD sufferers. NTA

A heartwarming story of a family supporting their child’s fear ❤

NTA: Powerful comment against appearance-obsessed and selfish ex-boyfriend.

Veteran in comment supports OP’s decision to avoid fireworks

Respect matters. NTA for standing your ground

Fireworks feud: NTA goes to hotel, BF has problem?

Boyfriend’s insensitive behavior towards PTSD mom and son. NTA.
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Suffering from PTSD, commenter empathizes with traumatized mom’s pain

Partner’s disregard for PTSD trigger causes relationship fireworks

Boyfriend betrays fireworks agreement, commenter is NTA

Partner’s sneaky attempt to trigger PTSD – NTA for standing up.

Insensitive boyfriend disregards PTSD and pandemic. NTA.

Re-evaluate your relationship with a person who disregards your safety

Supportive comment empathizes with OP & recommends therapy for couple

Break up party time! NTA, he’s a selfish child.

Leave him! He triggered your PTSD intentionally. Protect yourself

Leaving the house was the calm option.

Partner reneged on commitment, blamed OP for his own immaturity

Find a new boyfriend who cares about you and your son

Dump him! He clearly lacks respect and consideration.

Boyfriend’s betrayal and NTA’s comment about allergies

Harsh reply to relationship comment.

NTA comment: Partner triggers PTSD with fireworks prank. Not okay.

Partner disregards mental health, potential red flag for future relationship

Selfish boyfriend betrays mom and son with terrifying fireworks prank

Selfish boyfriend ignores simple request, gets rightfully called out. NTA

Age doesn’t always equal maturity. NTA for setting boundaries.

Ex shares experience with similar boyfriend, advises to leave.

Boyfriend’s fireworks betrayal triggers PTSD in traumatized mom. NTA.

PTSD is difficult to comprehend, NTA for prioritizing safety ❤️

NTA respects sister’s fear of fireworks, friend disrespects boundary

Protect yourself and your son. Run from this selfish man.

Fireworks drama: NTA. Boyfriend needs to chill with demands

Last Updated on March 20, 2024 by Diply Social Team