Imagine growing up feeling like the black sheep of your family, the unwanted child. For one individual, this was a harsh reality. Their father believed they were the result of an affair, and their mother blamed them for the ensuing marital strife. The emotional abuse escalated when they came out as gay at 16, leading to a painful disownment. Fast forward to today, both parents have passed away, and the siblings are planning a memorial. But our protagonist, still nursing the wounds of the past, refuses to attend. What happens next? Let’s delve into this emotionally charged story.
The Unwanted Child: A Painful Childhood
A Mother’s Resentment
The Black Sheep: A Lonely Existence
The Drunken Tyrant
The Unsympathetic Mother
Coming Out and Getting Cast Out
The Vengeful Father
The Mother’s Unwavering Support… For the Wrong Side
The End of an Era
The Unforgiving Stance
The Shocking Revelation
The Sibling’s Rebuke
A Family Fractured Beyond Repair: The Emotional Fallout
Our protagonist’s story is a stark reminder of how deep family wounds can run. The painful childhood, the emotional abuse, the disownment, and the continued torment into adulthood have left scars that refuse to heal. Now, with the parents gone and a memorial looming, the siblings insist on honouring the very people who caused so much pain. But for our protagonist, the past is not something to be forgotten or forgiven so easily. They’ve made their stance clear, sparking a new wave of conflict with their siblings. But who’s in the right here? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Sibling support and understanding is crucial in this difficult situation.
NTA. You had a different relationship with your parents than your siblings and you are rightfully staying away from a celebration that you do not feel the same about.
NTA. Sibling understands the damage caused by abusive parents.
NTA. No obligation to attend. Healing and peace await you!
No love lost: Unforgiving child stands their ground against entitled parents
“NTA: He may have been your father, but not your daddy.”
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NTA: Express your emotions without repercussions. Pursue positive relationship tactfully.
The unloved child stands up against their deceased abusive parents. NTA
NTA, you don’t owe your parents anything. ♂️ Your siblings should’ve known better.
Seeking therapy for self-awareness and healing. ♂️
Siblings expect ‘Happy Family’ after witnessing abusive parents. NTA.
“Parents need to earn respect and praise like anyone else.”
Memorials: Letting go of the past or holding on?
Unloved child seeks validation, questions absent parents. They were around.
NTA- Siblings prodded, parents were a**holes. You’re not at fault.
OP explains why they don’t want to celebrate their parents’ death
NTA. Family isn’t always worth forgiving, even in death.
Childhood trauma: ‘NTA’ – surviving a literal h**l ️
NTA. Unloved child refuses to honor disrespectful deceased parents.
NTA. Parents must earn respect. Siblings are clueless
NTA. Dying doesn’t make them good people.
Unloved child takes a stand: ‘They weren’t parents’
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Seeking therapy for a difficult past, NTA comment receives support ✨
Setting boundaries and thriving: Your relationship, your rules.
NTA: No reason to pretend they were great parents in death
Escaping toxicity: A brave move.
Unforgiving stance: Trauma caused by parents doesn’t vanish with death.
Standing up to abusive parents and clueless siblings. ♀️
NTA. No obligation to respect disrespectful parents. Siblings are AHs.
Disowned by dad, but siblings insist they’re still your parents
Curious about the parents’ lack of paternity test? NTA
Sibling betrayal and toxic parents: cutting ties for self-preservation.
Unloved child stands firm: ‘I don’t care our parents are dead’
NTA: Siblings should understand OP’s experience and respect his choice.
Last Updated on October 30, 2023 by Diply Social Team
