Imagine this: You’re a 10-year-old kid, dealing with the loss of your mom, and suddenly, your dad remarries. You’re not ready, you don’t like her, and you express your feelings in a private journal. Fast forward a decade, and the journal resurfaces, causing a whirlwind of emotions. Let’s dive into this emotionally charged saga, where a forgotten journal becomes the epicenter of a family feud.
A Stranger at the School Gate

The Unwanted Stepmom

The Therapy Journal ️

The Unending Comparison

The Unyielding Dislike

The Lingering Resentment

The Unwanted Parent

The Betrayal of Trust

The Resurfacing of the Past

The Confrontation

The Confession

The Argument for Privacy

The Blame Game

The Unyielding Stance ♀️

The Unresolved Conflict

A Decade-Old Drama: Who’s Really to Blame?
A 10-year-old’s therapy journal becomes the catalyst for a family feud a decade later. The journal, filled with raw emotions and resentment towards a stepmother, was supposed to be burned but was kept instead. When the stepmother discovers and reads it, she’s hurt and furious. The now grown-up child argues that the journal was private and the blame should fall on the father for keeping it. The family is divided, with the father and stepmother insisting that it’s the child who’s in the wrong. A tale of heartbreak, betrayal, and unresolved conflict. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this…
NTA. Dad’s betrayal, stepmom’s lack of sympathy, and a decade-old secret.
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NTA at 13, NTA at 23 – reclaim your heartfelt journal!

NTA. Violated and blackmailed by family over personal journal

Stepmom tries to be mom, but OP isn’t feeling it

“A 10-year-old shouldn’t be held liable for what they say. NTA! “
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NTA. Your father is a jerk. Step mom gets a YTA too

NTA. Holding grudges for a child’s grief? How childish!

NTA, stepmom overreacts to decade-old journal. Therapy can’t fix love.

NTA. Heartbreaking betrayal by dad and stepmom, therapy is crucial.

Time to move on, no a**holes here
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Heartbreaking betrayal: Therapist violated trust, shared private journal with step-mother

Privacy violation? Not the a**hole, according to this comment.

Engaging comment about grief and stepmother’s perspective, with advice for resolution

13-year-old’s journal drama: NTA for feelings, AH for apology request.

Stepmother holds decade-old journal entry against 23-year-old. Yikes!

Traumatized child expresses anger through writing, parents react insensitively

NTA. Blaming a kid? Dad’s an a**hole for keeping secrets.

Dad’s evil act, stepmom’s complicity. You’re NTA.

Adults worried about 13-year-old’s private thoughts? Laugh in their faces!

NTA! Invasion of privacy! Did therapist recommend giving journal?

Expressing emotions through writing is healthy and should be respected.

Privacy invasion? NTA! You’re not responsible for their actions

NTA. Blast that shit all over social media and family DMs

NTA. Your feelings are valid. Cut ties with these AHs.

NTA. Wise words: “Never read someone else’s journal unless you want to get hurt.”

Emotional blackmail over grieving child’s therapy journal? Unbelievable!

NTA – Standing up for yourself against past and present injustice
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Writing a private journal is NTA, don’t let her control you!

NTA – Dad prioritized wife over you, therapy for convenience.

Dad and stepmom being petty assholes, holding grudges for 10 years

Dad and stepmom crossed the line by holding your private thoughts. NTA

Heartbreaking loss, misunderstood therapy journal, and trust betrayal.

Dad lied, Step Mom snooped, drama unfolds. Stupid games, prizes.

Therapist supports OP’s right to privacy and condemns dad’s actions.

NTA. Parents violated privacy by reading diary. Huge AHs. JFC

Dad’s therapy journal turned emotional blackmail? That’s messed up!

Privacy invasion? Take action subtly and assertively. NTA

Privacy invasion? NTA for working through childhood trauma

Stand up for yourself and cut toxic ties

NTA: Dad and stepmom punishing you for past therapy writings

A fiery revelation: NTA wanted dad to see the struggle

Upset teen writes diaries, parents read them years later. NTA

Both sound terrible. Condolences for your mom.

“Burn it? Nah, let’s heal the past with compassion “

A grieving child’s private journal was violated. They deserve apologies.

Burning my ex’s diaries to escape the past

A mysterious motive: Why is Dad hurting both of you?

Engage in a logical discussion with her about your writing

NTA. Emotional and private journal exposed, therapy helped cope.

Heartbreaking betrayal by dad. You were right to write it.

NTA. Escaped emotionally stunted dillholes. Create your own supportive tribe!

NTA: Standing up for yourself against manipulative family dynamics!

Grief expressed as rage? Let it flow and move on.

Stepmom isn’t good enough, parents need a wakeup call

Cut out the garbage and embrace NTA and NC!

Marrying again after death of spouse? NTA, but kids suffer

NTA – Safe space for expressing feelings, not required to love step-parent

Privacy violated! Take back your journal and assert your rights!

Stepmom’s betrayal: Shame on her for invading your privacy

NTA whatsoever. Private journal should not be used against you.

NTA for journaling feelings about stepmom. Dad’s obsession is weird.

Reddit stranger empathizes with OP’s difficult situation with family.

NTA: No need to apologize for your past feelings.

Parents invading privacy? Trust breach!

A decade-old drama and you were only 10?

Not the a**hole. Drama unfolds in secret journal.

Absurd! Keeping a journal won’t magically stop mean comments! NTA!

You’re not an a**hole. Keep being awesome!

Validating the trauma: NTA. Family therapy might help them understand.

NTA. Invasion of privacy by family is truly despicable
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Journal reading: a guilty pleasure or a breach of privacy?

NTA. Dad betrayed trust, stepmom and dad are A.H. for ganging up.

NTA. Dad kept your childhood journal to blame you?

Heartbreaking story of a toxic father and a lost mother

NTA! Children’s emotions are not owned by parents

NTA: Stand your ground and keep your peace

Therapy is for coping, not forcing love. NTA, burn it!

Parents remarrying without considering their kids’ feelings

Empathy for a scared child, arguing with unreasonable adults.

NTA keeps decade-old journal, sparks family drama
