We’ve all been to those potluck parties where everyone brings a dish, and there’s always that one person who brings the simplest thing. But what happens when the potluck politics spiral out of control? Meet our frustrated friend, the Potluck Protester, who’s had enough of the potluck inequity and decides to stir up a storm with a simple pasta salad. ⚡️
The Potluck Party Routine

The Potluck Protocol

The Potluck Protester’s Contribution

Enter Claire and Her Simple Dishes

The Leftover Looters ️

Mark, the Food Critic

The Potluck Protester’s Petty Plan

The Pasta Salad Standoff

The Potluck Protester’s Final Stand

The Potluck Protester’s Exit

The Aftermath of the Potluck Protest ️

The Potluck Protester’s Final Thoughts

The Potluck Protester’s Potluck Predicament: A Summary
Our friend, the Potluck Protester, is caught in a whirlwind of potluck politics. She’s tired of the unfairness at her friend Mel’s potluck parties, where she puts in effort to cook, while others, like Claire, get away with store-bought dishes and take home leftovers. Adding fuel to the fire is Mark, the food critic, who brings nothing but has a lot to say about everyone else’s food. When the Potluck Protester decides to bring a simple pasta salad, a potluck standoff ensues, leading to her un-RSVPing from the party. Now, she’s being called petty and immature by her friends. But is she really in the wrong for wanting fairness at the potluck? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation… ️
NTA offers fruit tray, but men can’t cook?

“NTA. Acquaintances using you. Ghost these get togethers. Life’s short.”

NTA. Fruit brings drama? They’re just jealous of your skills!

“NTA. They care more about what you bring than your company. “

Potluck etiquette: bring what you want, take your leftovers home!

‘Sorry, I’m busy.’ NTA. How rude and annoying.

NTA. Skip the parties. They’re terrible.
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Mel wants everyone to bring food, but can’t handle cut fruit? ♂️

Skipping the drama-filled potluck with Mark and Claire.

NTA – Lazy critic and freeloaders. You should’ve declined politely.

Time to ditch those pot-luck affairs!
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NTA: Mel’s party expectations are unfair and Claire is not innocent
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You’re not the a**hole for not enjoying this gathering.

Supporting men’s right to bring dishes to potlucks!

NTA. Don’t be friends with sexist hypocrites!

NTA. Friend contradicts herself, you don’t need to feel ashamed.

Men not contributing to potluck angers commenters, hilarious cooking mishaps shared

ESH for the potluck drama: sexist policies, food entitlement, and resentment!

Gender bias in potluck organization sparks outrage and frustration!

“ESH. You for not being able to have a talk about what bothers you, and acting childish so that others would notice your discomfort. Mel for being sexist (this is 2022, wake up Mel!) and refusing the fruit slices. Marc for not bringing anything but criticizing those who do. Claire for feeling that leftovers are hers. What an exhausting group…”

NTA. Enjoy the drama of making and eating disgusting food!

“NTA, but if you don’t speak up, it’s on you!”

NTA – Learn to say no. Set boundaries with Mel!

Don’t go anymore! NTA. No fun at all.

NTA. Upgrade your squad!

Exhausting potluck drama! Saying no is healthier than resentment.

A refreshing take! Love your approach!

NTA: Stand up for fairness and communicate openly in 2022!

NTA – Friend wants you for your high-end home cooking

Setting boundaries is important! Host your own potluck

Yummy bread! Stick to your guns and cut the drama!

ESH for pressuring OP, but don’t be mad about store-bought items. ♂️

“NTA, Mel is sexist AF. If you don’t contribute, skip!”

NTA bails on pasta salad potluck with men eating free!

NTA, be honest with your friends about wanting separate hangouts!

NTA. Potluck drama! Leftovers stolen, friendships tested.

Pasta salad saves the day! It’s all about friendship, not food

NTA. Hang out with your friends and have game night!

NTA. Mixing it up and bringing pastries is a great idea!

Bringing a cheaper dish shouldn’t affect your friendship!

NTA: Don’t let the jerks ruin your pasta salad party!

Honesty is key! ️ Let Mel know you’re not a fan of dinner parties.

Choose your friends wisely and set your own boundaries.

NTA. Gender roles in potlucks? Time for new friends!

Avoid the energy vampires and keep your positive vibes!

Annoyed by the fiasco? You’re definitely not the a**hole!

Honesty is the best policy!

ESH vs. Party Hosts: Cooking skills, leftovers, and friendship drama!

NTA: Not the a**hole, but what’s the drama about?

NTA: Stop going to potlucks if you’re not appreciated!

NTA for declining event. Don’t explain further.

Gender bias at potluck sparks heated debate.

NAH (except for Mark): Claire’s financial struggles and double standards.

Valid concerns about being taken for granted. You’re NTA!

Discover the mystery of porcupine bread!

Potluck drama: Men not contributing, Claire taking leftovers, Mel organizing. ESH!

NTA: Stand up for yourself and say goodbye to potlucks!

Potluck drama: 3 pasta salads cause a friendship crisis! NTA

Claire and Mark are selfish leftovers hoarders! NTA for sure!

ESH — Immature and petty drama over potluck dishes.

NTA – No drama, just a pasta salad friendship crisis!

Don’t go…the drama is just getting started!

Unexpected shrimp surprise turns into a potluck success!

NTA- Friend relies on your cooking, complains instead of asking others.

Fairness matters! Make equal effort for a successful potluck.
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Being treated like a caterer? Not cool! NTA

Stop going to the potlucks and don’t let her guilt you!

Cooking gender roles spark potluck drama. NTA stands up!

“They can’t cook” is a BS excuse. Men can turn on an oven. NTA

Mel and Claire’s potluck drama: outdated food policies and petty judgments!
