We all have that one friend who’s a tad bit eccentric, don’t we? But what happens when their quirks cross the line into the realm of the downright creepy? One man found himself in a rather tricky situation when his 43-year-old friend, fresh out of a divorce, decided to woo a 22-year-old yoga instructor with ‘teacher donations’! ♀️ Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of a story, shall we?
The Love-Struck Friend and His Unusual Tactics
The Yoga Instructor and the ‘Teacher Donations’ ♀️
Living with Parents and Bad with Money
The Persistent Suitor and His Instagram Messages
The Uncomfortable Situation and the Hard Truth
The Reality Check and the Unhappy Friend
The Moral Dilemma and the Open-Ended Question ♂️
The Friend’s Intervention and the Uncertain Outcome ♂️
The Unexpected Twist and the New Perspective
The Tale of the Love Guru: A Friend’s Intervention Sparks Debate! ♂️
So, here we have a middle-aged man, fresh out of a divorce, trying to win the heart of a young yoga instructor with his ‘teacher donations’. Despite her rejections, he continues his pursuit, causing his friend to step in with some hard truths. The friend’s intervention, however, stirs up a debate: Is it okay for older men to give young women money to win their affection? Or is it crossing a line? Let’s see how the online world reacts to this intriguing situation!
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NTA. Men should hold each other accountable for creepy behavior!
NTA your friend is sexually harassing that girl.
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NTA: Friend’s creepy wooing tactics stir up a storm!
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NO MEANS NO! He’s a stalker!
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Your friend’s creepy tactics and harassment are absolutely not okay!
NTA: Woman’s perspective on creepy suitor’s inappropriate behavior
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Beware of entitled suitors who expect something in return!
YTA for not respecting consent and being creepy
Enabling a creepy suitor? Shut him down and protect others!
Friend’s creepy tactics are unwanted. He needs to stop harassing!
NTA. Unwanted advances = sexual harassment. Consent can’t be bought!
Age-inappropriate pursuit: creepy suitor or misunderstood love guru?
Is he a love guru or a creepy suitor? ESH.
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NTA. Friends should help discourage creepy behavior before it escalates!
Age doesn’t excuse harassment. Friend needs a reality check!
Creepy suitor lacks consent, friends need higher standards.
Coercion and harassment? Definitely not the a**hole!
NTA. Harassment and prime /r/niceguys material
NTA: Confront him about sexual harassment and potential consequences!
Respecting boundaries is key! No means no, not ‘keep trying’
Stop enabling your friend’s creepy behavior towards the yoga instructor!
NTA…but your friend’s behavior is unacceptable and needs addressing
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Your friend’s creepy suitor needs a restraining order ASAP!
YTA – Creepy suitor’s actions could lead to legal trouble!
Engage with your friend by gently asking thought-provoking questions.
NTA for speaking up! Consent matters even in non-physical situations.
OP and friend lack understanding of consent, disrespecting women.
NTA. Friend’s creepy wooing tactics are disgusting and inappropriate!
NTA. Friend’s pursuit of younger person is aggressive and problematic.
NTA. Friend needs to back off and stop being creepy!
Creepy delivery guy gives note confessing desire to coworker. NTA.
Creepy suitor repeatedly asks for dates despite rejection. ESH!
Customer’s creepy advances at work make her feel uncomfortable
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“ESH. Consent applies beyond sex. Creepy suitor creates indebtedness.”
NTA. Stand up against sexual harassment!
Nice guy behavior? Not the a**hole.
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NTA. Confront your friend about his terrifying workplace behavior!
NTA, but he needs a reality check on his flirting!
NTA. Woman shares her scary experience with a creepy suitor.
NTA – Friend’s harassment of girl at work sparks concern.
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Friend’s creepy tactics? NTA, she’s being harassed!
Dealing with creepy customers who tip generously – a dilemma
NTA, but friend lacks consent and respect.
Passive language won’t cut it. It’s sexual harassment. NTA!
“Respecting consent? Apparently not.”
“Cringe Alert! Creepy suitor thinks he can buy love! “
YTA for not calling him out, but keep taking his money
Unwanted advances and sugar daddy vibes!
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Age doesn’t buy love, just a few 50’s and mom’s basement
Grateful for NTA’s acknowledgment of sexual harassment in the workplace
Not the a**hole – a friend’s unconventional wooing tactics create controversy!
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NTA. Time to teach him some dating etiquette!
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Everyone sucks here. Drama unfolds in the pursuit of love!
NTA. Creepy friend gets shut down for harassment.
Multiple attempts, declines, and random money make this situation bizarre.
When being a simp goes too far…
Accepting gifts from a suitor? NTA, but she’s the AH!
NTA: Creepy suitor’s misguided attempts at wooing stir up controversy
ESH: Creepy suitor’s persistent advances are clearly sexual harassment
