We’ve all had our little quirks and preferences, right? ♀️ But what happens when a Friday night movie ritual between a young couple turns into a cold war over the air conditioner? Our 22-year-old hero, let’s call him ‘Frosty’, and his girlfriend, ‘Snowflake’, found themselves in a frosty situation. Let’s dive into this icy tale… ❄️
The Chilled-Out Ritual

The Morning After: A Sweaty Surprise ️

The AC Confession ️

The Cold War Begins ❄️

Frosty Stands His Ground ❄️

The Frosty Fallout ❄️

Frosty’s Clarification ️❄️

A Cold Conclusion

The Final Freeze ❄️

The Icy Aftermath

Frosty’s Final Thoughts ❄️

Frosty vs Snowflake: A Love Story on Thin Ice ❄️
Our hero ‘Frosty’ found himself in a frosty situation when his girlfriend, ‘Snowflake’, turned down the AC at his place. Despite his sweaty discomfort, Snowflake defended her actions, sparking a cold war between the two. Frosty stood his ground, leading to a chilly fallout. He clarified his intentions weren’t to belittle Snowflake’s feelings, but to establish boundaries in his space. As the icy aftermath unfolds, Frosty is left questioning if he’s the villain in this tale. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this frosty fiasco… ❄️
“ESH but you suck a little more for sounding so childish”

YTA: Your unwillingness to compromise makes you a difficult roommate

“YTA for not realizing it.” Get your next GF another blanket ahead of time!

“YTA. You already went to sleep and she was cold. Turning down the AC was a normal solution to arrive at. Or did you want her to wake you up and ask for permission? You gf was too cold to sleep and your response was ‘it doesn’t matter, it’s my way or the high way’ when you could’ve suggested other solutions such as ‘let’s buy a warmer blanket for you’.”
Minor conflict over AC turns into major relationship chill.
YTA for not caring about her comfort and unwillingness to compromise.

“YTA. You could have empathized instead of being rude about it.”

YTA. You prioritized your comfort over your girlfriend’s needs

YTA: You prioritized your comfort over her feelings.

Is his stubbornness pushing her away?

YTA. Overreacted to girlfriend’s attempt to stay warm at night.

Don’t mess with the AC or you’re the a**hole!

YTA for not compromising on A/C temperature, vs

“YTA. Your responses are making you look like a HUGE a**hole.”

YTA. Chill out and stop sweating the small stuff.

OP can’t handle the truth! YTA

“NTA to ESH to YTA” – Lack of communication leads to conflict

❤️ YTA for your comments, ESH was a close call

YTA. You don’t even like your girlfriend, she deserves better.

“YTA. Your behavior towards your girlfriend is unacceptable. “

YTA gets called out for being insensitive and defensive.

YTA: The villain of the comment section

“Your needs don’t matter” – A fiery comment section begins.
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YTA: A chilly argument with a shitty host and cold blankets. ❄️

“YTA, but you apologized. Time for some soul searching. “

Curious about the temperature difference? Let’s find out!

Don’t let your AC ruin your love story!

A selfish boyfriend leaves his girlfriend freezing.

YTA denies using AC, suggests partner be a cold-blooded lizard

Selfishness and lack of empathy: a recipe for relationship disaster

Embrace the feedback, apologize with a gift basket and wine

Hesitant about moving in? Let’s find out why!

Wow, you are TA big time! What do you suggest she should have done?

The horror of taking a shower and losing a houseguest

“Compromising on AC preferences: blankets vs. untouched AC. YTA.”

Is your AC causing a chilly rift in your relationship? ❄️

YTA: The comment section is not on your side

YTA. Lack empathy for your (ex?) girlfriend?

Find a compromise and keep the peace!

Omg, you’re the a**hole? Tell me more!
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“YTA. Your behavior is self-centered, aggressive, and nasty. “

Commenter calls out entitled person for overreacting to a mistake.

“He called me a selfish a**hole for not caring about the way his gf feels while sleeping at his place.” – She is right there. YTA – But it’s not a big deal if you discuss and solve it in a way that makes it comfortable for both of you.

You came to the wrong sub to ‘win’ the AC war

OP seeks validation, disregards partner’s comfort. YTA, massive red flag.

“YTA. Compromise is key. It’s not just about you. “

Reddit delivers a harsh reality check to a narcissistic poster

Surviving the shower ordeal: No more houseguests, no more problem!

YTA: No tact, seeking validation, not a true verdict

YTA: A cold-hearted partner who leaves no room for compromise.

Confusion over AC settings sparks regional debate

“YTA. Negotiating is what adults do in relationships.”
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“YTA for posting without being ready to see yourself that way”

Communication breakdown leads to thermostat war. Learn from it

YTA: Communication is key. You just added another obstacle.

Blanket troubles: Cold vs. sweaty sleep – the eternal struggle

You’re still the a**hole, even after your explanation.

Don’t mess with the editor’s edit…

“YTA. Bad host and inconsiderate partner. Consider her body temperature.”
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Commenter calls out OP for seeking validation and complaining.

No more sticky, gross Friday nights!

“YTA. Sleep like a baby while she suffers? Get a fan!”

YTA: That edit is a clear sign of your hypocrisy

YTA. Douche move. Get a comforter or something.

The joys and challenges of being an only child

“YTA. Waking up sweating shouldn’t make you so angry”
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First-time AC mishap leads to a selfish flip-out. YTA

YTA turned it down a bit? Definitely the a**hole!

“YTA. You were a bad host. Consider your guest’s comfort. “

YTA: Don’t let the AC ruin your love story

YTA. A big inconsiderate one.

Cold guests? YTA for not adjusting the temperature! ❄️

YTA. Communicate better next time

“YTA. If you sound like an a**hole, maybe you are.”

“I” vs “His” – A Battle of Pronouns! ❄️

YTA dude. Compromise on temperature and save your relationship

Upgrade the blanket and keep the girl cozy

Learn some hospitality! YTA for being a bad host

Selfishness reigns as OP ignores partner’s comfort for their own.
