Imagine this: you’re a 22-year-old man, your mother is terminally ill, and your family is in turmoil over her last will and testament. Now, add to this already emotional powder keg the fact that you’re bisexual, a truth your family has chosen to ignore. Your older brother, who is gay, has been written out of your mother’s will due to her strict Catholic beliefs. He’s asking you to come out again, in solidarity with him, potentially risking your own place in your mother’s heart and her will. What would you do?
The Grim News
A Wedding Rush and a Will
The Will’s Unexpected Twist
A Fractured Relationship
The Bisexual Brother’s Dilemma
Cian’s Plea for Solidarity
A Difficult Decision ♂️
A Question of Privilege
Money or Love?
A Family’s Stance ️
A Family Divided
In the Crossfire of Love, Loyalty, and Legacy
In this heart-wrenching tale, a young bisexual man finds himself in the middle of a family feud ignited by his mother’s terminal illness and last will. His gay brother, written out of the will, is demanding solidarity, asking him to come out again to their mother. He’s torn between standing with his brother and risking his relationship with his dying mother. Meanwhile, accusations of privilege, greed, and betrayal add more fuel to the fire. The question remains: Should he risk it all for his brother’s sake? Let’s delve into the internet’s top responses to this complex situation…
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“Your mother is the AH here. She cut her son out of the will and won’t mend the relationship as she nears death. I don’t think that you should ‘come out’ again as an act of solidarity, but you and your other two siblings should split the inheritance equally. Otherwise, you are benefiting from your mother’s bigotry and it’s the three of you who are ‘monetarily driven.'”
“NTA. Don’t ruin your relationship with your dying mother “
NTA. Brother’s biphobia + sexism = awful family dynamics
NTA: Jealous sibling wants you cut from the will
“YNTA
Only a**hole here is Catholicism.” Split inheritance fairly to avoid family feud.
Family feud over sexuality and inheritance. ESH, including OP.
NTA. Supportive comment and reply about a dying mother’s behavior ❤️
Encourage your brother to talk to your mother about it
ESH. No one is helping mend the relationship, including OP.
“YTA My brother isn’t gay but if he was and our mum disowned him I’d cut her out of my life. Honestly would make me sick to be all cosy with my mum if my brother was left out in the cold like that. In fact I’d let her die alone without any kids in that case if she did something heinous like that.”
NTA. Upholding your relationship with your mother while supporting each other.
NTA. Homophobic mom disowns child, brother is biphobic golddigger. Shitty situation.
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Engaging caption: Is it worth supporting a homophobic mother for inheritance?
Share the love and inheritance with your supportive brother!
Sibling rivalry and inheritance drama – who’s the real a**hole?
Engaging in a family feud: Greed, bigotry, and emotional incapability.
Unapologetically staying true to yourself and your mother’s love
Financial motives and bigotry cause rifts in dying mother’s family.
Choosing family over inheritance? A divisive comment sparks a debate.
Sibling rivalry and inheritance: Will they share or fight?
Monetary gain from homophobia? YTA, explain yourself!
Sibling rivalry and a dying mother’s wish. NTA, but tensions rise.
NTA for wanting to preserve relationships and inheritance.
Claim your inheritance and forget about the hateful dead person!
Your sexuality, your choice. Make the most of your time ❤️
Inheritance drama: Splitting money, morals, and family bonds
Brother’s hypocrisy and mother’s conditional love sparks family feud
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Sibling rivalry and a dying mother’s prejudice create a heartbreaking conflict
“YTA.” – Straight to the point, no sugarcoating here!
Family feud: Homophobia, sexism, and disownment.
Fair inheritance? Split equally or be the a**hole!
NTA, but your mother’s hypocrisy is hard to ignore
Revealing your true colors: why calling yourself an ally backfired
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Sibling dynamics, favoritism, and strained relationships before coming out.
Supporting your gay sibling and confronting homophobia is important
Bi-erasure, grief, and inheritance: A family feud with hidden wounds
“Strict Catholic mom’s hypocrisy and its impact on family dynamics.”
NTA, brother pressuring OP to come out, condolences for loss ♥️
Heartbreaking erasure and privilege battle. NTA for choosing happiness
Sibling solidarity needed to change mom’s unfair will.
Commenter disagrees with someone’s identity, declares NTA.
Fairness without obligation? NTA, but still share the wealth!
Don’t blame yourself for bi-erasure! You’re not the a**hole! ✨
Brother’s biphobia and misogyny sparks heated debate. Stand your ground!
NTA commenter exposes skeezy motives of cash-hungry family member
Standing up against homophobia and biphobia.
NTA: Overcoming homophobia and embracing your true identity
NTA. Bro’s homophobia and sexism caused his own downfall
Stand your ground! You don’t owe anyone anything.
Biphobic brother and dying mother’s last wish – NTA
Standing up against bi-phobia, you’re not at fault! ✊
NTA – Family’s biphobia sucks, don’t let it ruin your relationship
Supportive comment advises against attacking dying mother’s beliefs
