Picture this: You’re a student, living in a rental property, and you have a lovely, approved emotional support cat. Your neighbor, who holds a spare key, feeds your feline friend when you’re away. All is well, until one day, your landlady casually mentions some cleaning issues that your neighbor noticed. But wait, why would he know about that? He’s only supposed to feed the cat and leave, right? Well, it seems this kitty caretaker might be a little too curious for comfort.
A Tale of Two Students and Their Cat

The Neighborly Cat Feeder

The Cat’s Dining Arrangements ️

The Litter-ary Situation

The Unexpected Text

The Mysterious Mess

The Unwanted Exploration

The Invasion of Privacy

The Timing of Events ⏰

The Cat Feeder’s Compensation

The Dilemma

The Cat, The Neighbor, and The Privacy Invasion: What’s Next?
So, our tale of feline feeding and unexpected snooping has left us in a bit of a pickle. These students, who value their privacy, are left wondering if they should confront their landlady about their neighbor’s unwelcome explorations. After all, he was only supposed to feed the cat, not inspect the bathrooms! With their contract stating a 72-hour notice for house inspections, they’re within their rights to feel uncomfortable. But, would they be the jerks for bringing it up? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation… ️♀️
NTA. Landlady used loophole to spy on property. Find a friend to help feed your cat.

Landlady’s snooping or genuine concern?
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A diva cat named Tarja who smiles on command!

NTA: Politely confront the landlady, find new cat feeder, install camera

NTA. Landlord tried to shame me for having a guest

Privacy invasion? Neighbour’s concern or just nosy?

Who gave the key? Landlady did! NTA, but curious minds wonder!

NTA – Assert your privacy rights with the landlord

Neighbor offers solution to cat litter issue, suggests Tidy Cat

Clarify before assuming! Communication is key for understanding ️

Floofy baby steals the show! NTA for loving her ❤️

Find a new cat feeder for your furry friend!

Peek into the secret life of your furry friend!

Consider a professional pet sitter to avoid nosy neighbors

Pet sitter defends actions, homeowner finds it creepy.

NTA. Get a nanny cam alarm clock or ARLO security camera!

Secure your home and confront the unwanted intruder!

NTA. Set up cameras if you have to. That’s creepy…
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Neighbor invaded privacy, NTA. Adorable cat adds to story

NTA. Invasion of privacy & lease violation. Ask for catsitter.

NTA. Tell her! ️

Not the a**hole for protecting privacy and property

When strangers enter your house, expect some snooping around ️♂️

NTA – A tale of pets, privacy, and property

NTA. Privacy is everything. ♂️ Confrontation can fix it. Bless you for paying the cat tax.

Secure your home and your furry friend with trusted help!

Adorable cat tax sparks debate on invasion of privacy.

NTA- You have every right to question someone in your apartment.
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NTA. Cute cat. Change the locks.
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NTA! Hire a cat sitter to avoid unwanted intrusions!

Cat feeder crossed boundaries, time to find a new one!

Taking back the key and finding a new cat sitter!

NTA. Privacy expectations reasonable. Aww, what a pretty cat!

Mixed boundaries: Friend or landlord?

YTA, upset free cat sitter looked in your bathroom?

Landlady’s key dilemma: NTA but why give it to him?

Not the a**hole for invading their privacy? Tell me more!

Find a new pet sitter to avoid confrontation with landlady.

Inviting someone into your home? They have the right

NAH, you invited him to take care of your cats

YTA for tattling without talking. Find a new cat feeder.

Find a new cat feeder to avoid snooping ️♂️

Free cat feeding service: You get what you pay for
