Meet Rose, an 8-year-old with a knack for saving money. She’s been earning her $5 weekly allowance by doing chores around the house, and she’s saving up for a new Switch game. But when her 11-year-old cousin discovered her piggy bank, it sparked a family feud that has everyone choosing sides.
Rose, the Little Saver

The $5 Allowance ️

The Cousin’s Discovery

The Demand for Allowance

The Family Feud Begins

The Chore Strike

The Parents Weigh In

The Husband’s Doubts

Caught in the Middle ♀️

The $5 Feud: A Family Divided Over Pocket Money
Caught in a whirlwind of family drama, our protagonist is left questioning her parenting choices. She believes in teaching her daughter, Rose, the value of money and work ethic. But when her nephew stumbles upon Rose’s piggy bank, it triggers a family feud that spirals out of control. Now, she’s under fire from her brother, sister-in-law, and even her own husband. Is she setting a bad example, or is she just trying to teach her child a valuable life lesson? Let’s see how the internet weighs in on this intriguing situation…
NTA. Parenting clash over allowance, sibling wants to change rules.
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“NTA. Just laugh and laugh. What an entitled titty baby “

NTA. Parenting styles differ, but communication is key

Sibling rivalry over allowance turns into a parenting debate

Teaching kids about money can be a tricky subject.
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NTA: Teaching responsibility and patience with allowance. Brother is entitled.

NTA. Your daughter, your rules.

Sibling rivalry at its finest

NTA. Your child’s, your business. Your brother is TA

“NTA You have every right to do what you want with your child. Just as your brother does. I think all kids should have chores they’re expected to do just because. They should pick up after themselves and keep their room clean etc. There are extra things they do for money. But an allowance is a good thing for the reasons you’ve shown. They learn to save and be responsible. What you choose to pay them for is up to you. Tell your brother to stay out of your family business.” – A wise parent stands up for their parenting choices!

NTA. Teaching money management skills

NTA; Teaching kids responsibility and money management
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“NTA What you’re doing has worked for your family, and your daughter. Continue as you have always done. There’s nothing wrong with being rewarded for doing work. Your brother and SIL can deal with their own son however they please. But it’s got nothing to do with you. Their son putting on a ‘strike’ is an attitude that they need to parent. If it was me, I would’ve thought ‘man, my cousin is so lucky.’ But never would I have put an ultimatum to my parents.”
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NTA! Families have different rules. Life isn’t fair, but $5 isn’t a lot

Teaching kids about saving and budgeting NTA for parenting choices.

NTA! Your daughter’s allowance is your business, not theirs.

Teaching kids financial responsibility: NTA parent vs cousin’s allowance

NTA. Stand your ground and shut down the meddlers!

NTA! Teaching kids work ethic and saving is not weird. Tell them to f**k off

NTA. Parenting: Discussing differences with your child

NTA. Teaching your daughter about money and responsibility is important

NTA: Teaching financial responsibility at a young age

Parent defends their parenting choices amidst criticism.

Brother baffled by 8-year-old’s allowance, sparks family feud

NTA. Supportive comment defends parenting decision and offers personal experience.

NTA: Chores as repayment, gratitude. $5 works for you

Parent regrets not teaching about earning and saving money

Teaching work ethic and fairness through allowance.

NTA. Different parenting styles, teaching opportunities, and a tantrum thrown.

NTA. Don’t let others judge your parenting decisions!

Is this *really* a moral dilemma? Let’s discuss

NTA- Different parenting styles, find alternative ways to teach responsibility

Teaching money management and work ethic

Sibling rivalry over parenting choices and money sparks heated debate

Teaching kids money responsibility: NTA vs. brother’s parenting approach

NTA! Teach your kid that every parent is unique

NTA. Teaching kids the value of hard work and saving

Teaching kids about money is crucial for their future!

Teaching financial skills: NTA, but what about nephew’s parents?

YTA- Teaching financial responsibility? How dare you!
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Teaching kids financial responsibility with allowances
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NTA reminisces about childhood allowance, supports $5 for kids now

NTA. Learning money management through allowances and chores

NTA. $5/week for a 5-year-old who saves? Future millionaire!

Teaching kids responsibility through rewards

NTA. Teaching kids financial responsibility is important

NTA. Linking allowance to chores can reduce intrinsic motivation

Teaching kids financial responsibility is crucial. NTA in this situation.

Pocket money: a genius solution for chores and misbehaviour

NTA for teaching personal economics and standing up for yourself

Teaching your child about money management: YTA or NTA?

NTA – Allowances aren’t new, but sibling rivalry never gets old

Fair allowance system, but brother needs to loosen up

Teaching kids responsibility with allowance

NTA at all. Your family is full of bullies.

Family acid trip: Only husband has say-so in allowance war ♂️

Fair allowance: $1 per year, increase with age and responsibilities.

NTA! Your brother needs to worry about his own parenting skills

Nostalgic memories of saving allowance for SpiceGirls CD

Teaching kids value of work and avoiding exploitation

Teaching kids the value of money through weekly allowances

NTA. Raising an entitled brat

Parenting styles vary, but as long as it’s not harmful

Work hard, earn money. Simple life lessons.

NTA: You do you, let your brother handle his own kid.

NTA. Paying their child? Ludicrous!

Teaching financial responsibility and patience pays off in the long run
