Thanksgiving Showdown: Hostess vs Pregnant Sister-in-Law. Who’s Right?

Imagine hosting your family’s annual Thanksgiving dinner, a tradition you’ve come to love and cherish. Now, imagine your pregnant sister-in-law sending you a list of demands that would completely change the way you’ve celebrated for years. She can’t handle the smell of poultry or alcohol, wants the meal served early to accommodate her nap time, and prefers quiet conversation over the family’s usual games. How would you react? Let’s dive into this intriguing tale of family drama, tradition, and the challenges of accommodating a pregnant family member.

The Thanksgiving Tradition

The Expectant Couple

The List of Demands

The Rules of Becky

The Hostess’s Dilemma

The Compromise

The Backlash

The Uninvitation

The Aftermath

Thanksgiving Turmoil: A Family Divided Over Dinner ️

Our hostess found herself in a pickle when her pregnant sister-in-law’s demands threatened to overturn their cherished Thanksgiving traditions. Despite her attempts to compromise, the expectant mother’s refusal to budge led to a family fallout, with both her and her husband choosing to skip the festivities. The hostess is left questioning if she was too harsh, while also mourning the absence of her family members. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

“NTA. If Becky wants a Thanksgiving organized to her specifications “

“Pregnant-zilla” demands special treatment. NTA for not indulging her.

Pregnancy isn’t a disability, but OP’s SIL’s demands were unreasonable. NTA.

Pregnant sister-in-law wants everyone to accommodate her, but reasonable compromises offered. NTA

Pregnant sister-in-law’s demands spark debate. NTA for setting boundaries

“Pregnant women think they’re god making tiny humans”

Compromising is key! NTA for accommodating her and the family

NTA. Being pregnant doesn’t mean the world revolves around you.

NTA: You offered a compromise, but they’re being selfish

NTA: Compromise involves compromise, not giving me everything I want.

“In The Olden Days, it was considered terribly impolite to provide demands to your host(s). You’re NTA.”

Pregnant women share their experiences with food aversions during holidays.

Setting boundaries for Thanksgiving. You’re not the a**hole (NTA)

NTA: Becky should consider others and not demand special treatment.

NTA. New mom Becky’s demands vs. a literal nightmare

Unreasonable demands? NTA! Thanksgiving showdown with pregnant sister-in-law.

NTA. Entitled sister-in-law causes Thanksgiving drama. Surprising support.

NTA – Sweet compromises offered, but sister-in-law excluded herself

You’re not the a**hole! You offered alternatives.

Pregnant sister-in-law wants to ruin Thanksgiving. NTA for refusing!

Pregnant woman thinks she’s the only one who matters.

Pregnant sister-in-law tries to dictate Thanksgiving, but OP stands firm. NTA

Thanksgiving dinner was great, but Christmas might be Becky-free!

NTA. Uncomfortable demands, compromise rejected. Selfishness over pregnancy.

NTA: Stick to your guns, it’s your house and your turkey!

Pregnancy hormones can make you out of touch with reality

Pregnancy aversions and fatigue: NTA for setting reasonable boundaries.

NTA. Pregnant sister-in-law’s demanding behavior puts her in Assholleville.

NTA – Cooking showdown with a pregnant sister-in-law. No compromise!

“NTA leaning, demands were ridiculous. Smells can make you puke.”

Absurd demands? Laugh it off! You’re NTA in this showdown.

NTA. Pregnant sister-in-law expects too much. Entitlement is mind blowing.

NTA. Don’t let her unreasonable request ruin your Thanksgiving!

NTA. Becky expected everyone to bend to her rules.

Pregnant sister-in-law oversteps boundaries, NTA handles it gracefully

NTA vs Spoiled Brat: Thanksgiving poultry drama!

Pregnant SIL demands no alcohol at Thanksgiving? NTA, entitled AF!

SIL is entitled AF! You’re NTA!

Pregnant sister-in-law demands vs. OP’s perspective. NTA

Pregzillas demanding special treatment? NTA, make them apologize!

NTA offers reasonable compromises, but sister-in-law insists on her way.

“Hell no!! Why should everyone else suffer because of her.”

NTA: Compromise offered, but pregnant sister-in-law made unreasonable demands.

Pregnant and furious: Thanksgiving without poultry? No presents for baby?

“Pregnant sister-in-law’s demands: no turkey, no alcohol, no games. Seriously?”

NTA: Pregnant sister-in-law’s demands were over the top

Pregnant sister-in-law sacrificed Thanksgiving feast for family.

NTA refuses to compromise, calls pregnant sister-in-law selfish.

NTA: You tried to compromise, she should’ve offered to host.

NTA: Pregnant sister-in-law expects special treatment. No coddling allowed!

NTA: Sensory issue led to separate meals. Respectful compromise.

Christmas chaos: NTA sparks family feud.

NTA vs AH: Thanksgiving showdown between demanding sister-in-law and accommodating brother

NTA. Your house, your rules. Becky was being ridiculous.

Pregnant sister-in-law’s unreasonable demands vs. reasonable compromise. NTA!

Pregnant sister-in-law’s demands: Nightmare or justifiable?

Planning ahead is key! NTA for sticking to your plans.

Reasonable compromise offered, let her host herself

Pregnant sister-in-law’s food aversion vs Thanksgiving traditions. NTA

Pregnant sister-in-law vs. Thanksgiving games: Who’s being entitled?

NTA for not adjusting Thanksgiving plans for pregnant sister-in-law

Becky’s entitlement sparks debate on parenting priorities.

Pregnant lady defends Thanksgiving traditions while acknowledging challenges.

Unreasonable pregnant sister-in-law refuses Thanksgiving compromise. NTA

Pregnant sister-in-law demands everyone cater to her needs. NTA!

NTA. Setting boundaries with entitled sister-in-law. Keep the evidence!

Pregnancy isn’t an excuse to be demanding. NTA

NTA: A fiery comment calling out entitlement and demanding compromise.