Picture this: A group of college friends, a casual gathering, and a beer-fueled confession that sends shockwaves through the room. Our story revolves around two 18-year-old girls, ‘S’ and our storyteller, who find themselves at odds after ‘S’ reveals she’s pregnant by a man who’s already engaged. And her plan? She doesn’t intend to keep it.
The Unlikely Friendship
Enter the Older Man
A Secret Affair Unfolds
The Unveiling of a Betrayal ️♀️
The Unplanned Pregnancy Reveal
The Contraceptive Confession
The Controversial Comment ️
An Offer of Support Despite the Heat
A Lingering Connection?
A Brewing Storm: Friendship, Betrayal, and an Unplanned Pregnancy ️
In a whirlwind of events, ‘S’ finds herself pregnant by an engaged man, causing a rift in her friendship. Despite the harsh words and heated debate, our storyteller offers to support her friend in her time of need. But as ‘S’ contemplates reconnecting with the man who put her in this predicament, the question remains: Is she stepping into a trap or seeking closure? Let’s delve into what the internet has to say about this tangled web of love, betrayal, and friendship.
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NTA for questioning the lack of responsibility, risks, and cheating.
NTA, friend’s immature choices lead to unwanted pregnancy.
NTA. Understand her concerns about the age difference and STIs
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NTA – Fair question, but let’s not jump to conclusions
NTA. Naive teenager faces consequences. Others call out immaturity.
“Oh, honey… NTA. She’s naive, he’s TA for cheating.”
“YTA. Supporting a friend in a tough situation “
NTA. Biology 101: No drama, just simple facts
Supportive comment advises caution in helping friend through crisis.
NTA: A legit question sparks debate.
Commenter supports and advises caution for friend’s unexpected pregnancy.
Commenter expresses concern for pregnant teen’s behavior and seeks advice.
ESH for cheating, lack of birth control, and judgmental comments
Sassy commenter suggests Christmas stocking solution for unexpected pregnancies!
ESH. Time and place. Read the room. Like, your friend obviously made some very poor decisions but don’t think it was the time to have that conversation with her. Sure, having unprotected sex with an engaged man 10 years older than her involves a lot of bad decisions, but since when were 18 y/o generally known for making consistently good decisions? Maybe she was naive enough to believe it wouldn’t happen (it’s basic biology but I know a few of these people myself), and believe he would leave his partner. This should be a pretty big lesson for her for the future, but sounds like what she needed was some support, and give her the harder truth later when she isn’t in such a fragile position. You don’t have to agree with her choices but she’s still a human being, and deserves some empathy and support. She shagged someone in a committed relationship, she didn’t commit f**king murder. In sum; your friend is TA for her naive and hurtful decisions, and not taking contraception seriously, and you’re TA for your poor timing. Also, this guy is a massive a**hole for pursuing an 18 y/o with a fiancée at home. Some redemption by offering her somewhere to crash, but I feel like some damage is already done.
No free pass for stupidity? Drama unfolds in unexpected pregnancy.
NTA: Support her through the abortion, but give her a lecture
OP advises caution and distance due to friend’s risky behavior.
NTA, but stating the obvious about being unfit as parent.
NTA – Teen’s pregnancy drama: money for abortion or gold digging?
Debate over abortion as contraception sparks fiery discussion.
