A concerned guardian, who has custody of her 13-year-old niece, allowed her to create social media profiles on her birthday, with the condition that the accounts remain private and she only accepts requests from people she knows. However, after discovering her niece had changed her account settings to public and shared personal information, the guardian insisted she take an internet safety course. When the niece failed to take the course seriously, the guardian deactivated her social media accounts, leading to a conflict with her own mother.
Birthday Social Media
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Privacy Conditions
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Public Profile Alert ⚠️
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Personal Info Exposed
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Safety Course or Deactivation
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Course Completed?
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Profile Unchanged
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Deactivating Social Media
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Grandmother’s Outrage
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Safety First
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Unreasonable?
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Trust Issues
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Guardian vs Grandmother: The Social Media Showdown
The guardian’s decision to deactivate her niece’s social media accounts after she failed to take an internet safety course seriously has led to a conflict with her own mother. The grandmother believes the guardian is being paranoid and controlling, and that the niece should be allowed to make her own choices about her personal safety. The guardian insists that her niece must first demonstrate an understanding of online safety before regaining access to her social media profiles. Whose side are you on? Share your thoughts and reactions.
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Last Updated on April 29, 2023 by Diply Social Team