Picture this: You’re a 16-year-old girl, smack in the middle of your high-stress exam season, and your parents drop a bombshell – they’re expecting another baby! But instead of the joyous reaction they expected, they’re met with a less than enthusiastic response. The teenager, let’s call her ‘Exam Stress Ellie’, is not thrilled about the new addition. She’s worried about the noise, the responsibilities, and the impact on her studies. But when she voices her concerns, the family drama escalates. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster!
The Unexpected Announcement
The Delayed Reveal ️
Initial Reaction: Congrats, Parents!
The Growing Concern
The Babysitter Expectation
The Unwanted Responsibility
The Honest Conversation
The Big Sister vs Babysitter Debate
The Guilt Trip
The Family Backlash
The Peer Support
A Family Feud or a Valid Concern?
Exam Stress Ellie’s world has been turned upside down with the news of a new baby brother. The joyous announcement has turned into a family feud, with Ellie feeling more like a babysitter than a big sister. She’s worried about her studies, her future, and the unexpected responsibilities that are being thrust upon her. The family’s reaction? Accusations of disrespect and immaturity. But Ellie’s friends stand by her, making us wonder – is she being selfish, or is this a valid concern? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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NTA – Valid feelings. Parents should’ve been honest. Don’t be babysitter.
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Teen feels guilty for self-centered response to parents’ pregnancy announcement
Don’t let them treat you like a live-in nanny!
