A 16-year-old’s weight loss journey becomes the center of a family conflict when their uncle’s fiancée, Olivia, gives an ultimatum: lose weight or be excluded from the wedding party. The teen, who had already been losing weight, is later confronted by Olivia, who tries to take credit for their progress. Feeling uncomfortable and bullied, the teen decides to not only refuse participation in the wedding party but also to skip the wedding altogether. The situation escalates, leading to a family divide and unexpected solidarity.
The Wedding Party Ultimatum

Already on a Weight Loss Journey ♂️

Olivia Checks In

Taking Credit for Weight Loss?

Politely Declining the Offer ♂️

Olivia’s Response ️

Deciding to Skip the Wedding

Uncle Barry’s Reaction

Sharing the Details

Asking for Forgiveness

A Family Fight Erupts

Family Taking Sides

Mom’s Disapproval

Family Divided Over Wedding Drama
The teen’s decision to skip their uncle’s wedding due to feeling uncomfortable and bullied by the future aunt leads to a family divide. With cousins showing solidarity and refusing to participate in the wedding, the situation escalates. The teen’s mother sides with Olivia, accusing the teen of being dramatic and ruining the wedding. As the family drama unfolds, the question remains: who is truly at fault in this emotional conflict? Share your thoughts and reactions.
NTA. Congrats on your health journey. Future aunt is awful

Support for OP’s decision and criticism towards mother’s behavior

Teen stands up to weight loss ultimatum from future aunt

Teen refuses to attend uncle’s wedding after weight loss ultimatum. NTA.

Family support and kudos to the uncle for being understanding

Supportive comment encourages standing up for oneself at family events.

NTA. Olivia’s weight ultimatum and desire for perfect wedding pictures is unacceptable.

NTA. Olivia’s ultimatum was harmful and presumptuous. Don’t let her ruin the wedding.

NTA for refusing to attend uncle’s wedding after weight ultimatum

Supportive commenters rally behind OP after future aunt’s weight loss ultimatum

Commenter praises OP for standing up against weight loss ultimatum.

Receipts or it didn’t happen!

Stand your ground! Don’t apologize for calling out bad behavior

Teen stands up to weight loss ultimatum, uncle’s wedding in jeopardy

Family feud over weight loss ultimatum. NTA stands firm.

Skip the wedding party, apologize to uncle, and dodge Bridezilla.

NTA stands up to weight loss ultimatum for uncle’s wedding

Cutting out toxic people: NTA takes a stand

Weight loss ultimatum at a wedding? NTA, skip it.

Teen refuses to attend uncle’s wedding after future aunt’s ultimatum

Family tensions rise as weight loss ultimatum causes division

You go, girl! No need to apologize for standing up.

Supportive comment receives no replies, but deserves a

Congrats on weight loss, NTA for standing up to bully!

Supportive commenters agree: NTA, mom and Olivia are AHs

Sassy response to weight loss ultimatum wins the day

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries (NTA)

Commenter supports OP and insults their mom with anger

Empowering response to a weight loss ultimatum by a teenager.

Standing up for oneself against weight loss ultimatums. #NTA

“Normal” person wouldn’t take abuse, be a doormat. NTA

Teen stands up to weight loss ultimatum, internet applauds

Teen refuses to attend uncle’s wedding after ultimatum from future aunt. NTA.

Supportive comment reminds teen to consider uncle’s feelings too

Self-worth is important. NTA for refusing wedding participation

Supportive comment applauds OP for standing up against fatphobia and bullying.

Supportive cousins outweigh mother’s bullying in wedding ultimatum dispute.

Family sucks, you’re NTA, glad cousins support you

Teen refuses to attend uncle’s wedding due to ultimatum. NTA.

Uncle’s bridezilla ultimatum met with justified NTA response

Stand your ground! NTA for not attending the wedding

Support for standing up to fatphobia at family event

Body-shaming bride disqualifies bridesmaid based on size

Sassy response shuts down weight loss ultimatum at family wedding

Avoiding toxic people is always a good choice

Body-shaming bridezilla caught in the act

Stand up for yourself, you’re not the a**hole here!

Teen stands up against bullying future aunt. Family supports her.

Stand up for yourself, don’t let bullies win

Ignoring mean girls is always the best idea

Teen stands up to weight loss ultimatum, commenters support NTA.

Stand your ground! No need to apologize to a bully

Teen stands up to weight loss ultimatum from future aunt

Supportive comment calling out mistreatment and encouraging standing up for oneself.

NTA! Olivia is ruining the wedding with her ultimatum

Supportive comment section with NTA and AH acronyms.
Stand your ground!

Standing up for yourself and being true to who you are

This teen is a total rockstar for standing up for themselves!
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Supportive comment calls out future aunt’s behavior as horrible
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Teen stands up to weight loss ultimatum, praised for maturity

Stand your ground, you deserve better than their toxic behavior

Congrats on your hard work! Don’t apologize to a narcissist. NTA

Body-shaming is never okay. NTA for standing up for yourself!

Stand up for yourself and don’t apologize for being bullied

Empathetic commenter supports OP and offers advice for inclusive weddings

Standing up to toxic behavior.

Supportive comment calls out bully, encourages self-care and boundaries.

Commenter calls out future aunt’s lies and supports OP

Body shaming a teenager? Not cool. NTA for setting boundaries.

Body-shaming a teenager for photos is AH move. NTA.

Mom should defend you, not Olivia. Shaming is not motivating

NTA for refusing to attend uncle’s wedding due to weight ultimatum

Stand your ground and skip the wedding. NTA

Standing up for yourself against lies and ultimatums
