Names hold power and identity, and 14-year-old Alexandra knows this all too well. She has always been adamant about being called by her full name, refusing any nicknames or alterations. Her family respects her choice, and she’s become quite skilled at advocating for herself. However, her high school Spanish teacher seems to have other ideas, insisting on calling her by the Spanish version of her name, Alejandra. Alexandra’s mom, who usually doesn’t intervene, felt compelled to step in and fight for her daughter’s right to her own name.
Alexandra’s Name Preference

Middle School Spanish Class

Teacher Respects Her Wishes

High School Spanish Class

Teacher Ignores Alexandra’s Request

Mom Steps In ♀️

Teacher’s Argument ️

Mom’s Counterpoint

Mom’s Persistence Pays Off

Victory for Alexandra

Dad’s Opinion

Name Battle: Mom vs. Teacher
In a world where names carry so much weight, Alexandra’s mom wasn’t about to let a stubborn teacher force a name change on her daughter. After some back-and-forth, the teacher finally caved and agreed to call Alexandra by her proper name. While Dad thinks Mom might have gone a bit overboard, many would argue that standing up for your child’s identity is worth the fight. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA: Standing up for your daughter’s name, despite disagreements.

“John can be John in any country, no one would call him Hans, Juan or Giovanni against his will, just because there is a local version of his name.”

NTA – Teacher’s reasoning off. Respect names in foreign countries

YTA: Taking names too seriously in Spanish class? Lighten up!

Using Spanish versions of names in class: cute or intrusive?

YTA and so is your daughter. It’s Spanish class ffs

YTA and daughter upset over Spanish name translation, childish behavior

YTA. A foreign language class tradition, don’t be overprotective mom

A soft YTA. It’s pretty common in language classes

Parent criticized for undermining teacher’s authority in name dispute

Name controversy: NTA defends cousin’s identity, not a big deal

YTA. Embrace diversity and respect names in language learning

YTA – Immersion is important, but is the drama necessary?

Teaching self-advocacy: Mom’s involvement in high school battles mortifying

Teacher vs. Parent Drama: Entitlement and Frustration Clash
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Teacher insists on Spanish name translation, commenter says it’s false. NTA

Language courses address students by their names in that language. Soft YTA

YTA vs NTA: A clash of perspectives on cultural sensitivity

Controversial comment sparks heated debate about cultural sensitivity.
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Teens learn valuable lessons about flexibility and picking battles

Choosing a different name in language class: NTA, just fun!
