Imagine a family gathering where everyone is enjoying dinner, and then comes the big announcement: a new baby is on the way! But instead of celebrating, one family member bursts into tears. That’s exactly what happened when 17-year-old ‘Jane’ couldn’t hold back her emotions after her older sister, ‘Beth’, revealed she was pregnant with her second child. The reason? Jane’s fear of reliving the nightmare of her sister’s postpartum depression and having to care for the baby again. Let’s dive into the story…
The Backstory: Beth’s Struggles

Jane’s Burden

Taking Care of Baby Leo

The Worst Year of Jane’s Life

Beth’s Recovery

A New Beginning?

A Happy Home

The Big Announcement

Tears at the Table

Jane’s Emotional Breakdown

Family Tension

Beth’s Anger

The Aftermath ️

Parents’ Disapproval

Jane’s Fear

A Family Divided: Support or Selfishness?
So, there you have it – a family torn apart by a pregnancy announcement that brought back painful memories for Jane. Instead of celebrating, she’s left in tears, fearing that she’ll have to relive the nightmare of taking care of a baby while her sister battles postpartum depression. Her parents think she’s overreacting and should have been more supportive, but is it fair to expect a teenager to shoulder such a burden again? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotional rollercoaster…
NTA – OP deserves therapy and to refuse future childcare responsibilities

NTA! Forced to raise nephew due to parentification and neglectful adults.

NTA at 15, taking care of a mentally ill woman and newborn. Trauma and PTSD likely. Seek therapy. #support

Don’t let yourself be parentified. You’re not the a**hole (NTA)

NTA had a legitimate and uncontrollable reaction to the news . Baby’s father is the biggest a**hole .

Encouraging words for a young girl processing sadness
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Commenter calls out clueless parents in NTA response.

NTA commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests setting boundaries.
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Commenter blames family for not supporting OP during postpartum period

Compassionate commenter supports sister struggling with trauma and depression

Toxic family? Get out!

Mother-in-law’s help saved me from postpartum depression. Can’t risk again. Concerned about sister’s depression and safety.

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s difficult situation and recommends counseling.

NTA. Commenter empathizes with OP’s mental health concerns and advises to remove themselves from the situation. Replies suggest counseling and validate OP’s feelings.

Compassionate comment acknowledges trauma and mental illness struggles

NTA for feeling stressed and not apologizing. ESH for others.

Empathetic comment validates OP’s reaction to sister’s pregnancy announcement

NTA, but please get help to heal and move on.

Don’t feel guilty, prioritize your own mental health and well-being

Prioritizing mental health and seeking help is important.
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Family’s double standards: Outsourcing baby care vs. one emotional outburst

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s concern over family’s actions

Offering support and advice to a sister in distress

Setting boundaries with family can be tough

Commenter and replies acknowledge abuse of parentification.

Struggling with PPD, traumatized by experience. NTA for crying

NTA. Sister’s history of postpartum psychosis raises valid concerns.

Supportive comment shows empathy for trauma and offers hope

Commenter suggests PTSD and condemns parents, NTA x5

Empathetic comment acknowledges past situation and supports OP’s reaction.

Standing up for yourself, even if it makes others uncomfortable

Parenting advice and support for traumatized teen.
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NTA stands their ground against unsupportive family members
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Take care of yourself first. Have a plan and get therapy
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Validating emotions and seeking therapy for unresolved issues

Empathetic comment receives agreement from others.

Commenter offers support and advice on parentification and triggers. ❤️

Calling out the expectation of extreme happiness at pregnancy news

Supportive comment to a scared teen who became a parent young

NTA. Being forced to care for someone else’s baby is wrong

Discussion on postpartum depression and having more children

Heartfelt comment offers support to mistreated teenager

Sibling’s pregnancy triggers past trauma, family needs awareness

Commenter empathizes with OP, encourages seeking professional help ❤️

Validating response to teen’s pregnancy announcement and suggesting therapy.

Commenter shows empathy for someone who experienced abuse

Supportive comment acknowledges potential mental health struggle

Commenter sympathizes with teen, slams absent father

Commenter offers support and advice to overwhelmed teenager
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Seek therapy and set boundaries to recover from family trauma.

Commenter shows empathy for teen’s struggles with PTSD and PPD
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NTA, but ‘adults’ need to acknowledge OP’s hard work

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s tough past and suggests therapy.

NTA. Parents forced role, guilted and berated when cried. Don’t suffer again.

Supportive NTA suggests avoiding childcare responsibilities

Supportive comment validates OP’s feelings and offers advice.

NTA. Don’t care for the child. Call CPS if necessary.

Parenting concerns raised over sister’s pregnancy announcement

Supportive comment encourages speaking up about past trauma and self-care

Setting boundaries with new baby. NTA.

Commenter defends sister against entitled parent.
