Imagine this: You’re a 16-year-old girl, babysitting for a family with a lively fourth-grader. You’re prepared for the usual challenges – tantrums, snack time negotiations, and maybe a bedtime story or two. But what you’re not prepared for is an unexpected encounter with a full-grown man in the house. This is the chilling experience of one teenage babysitter, who found herself in a classic ‘GET OUT OF THERE’ situation. Let’s dive into her story…
Just Another Babysitting Gig? Think Again!

The Assignment: One Unruly Fourth-Grader

The Unexpected Housemate

A Heart-Stopping Encounter

Fear Takes Over

Stuck in a Nightmare

A Second Encounter

The Aftermath

Taking Action

Friend’s Verdict: Unfair Move?

A Babysitter’s Dilemma: To Report or Not to Report?
After enduring a babysitting session filled with fear and uncertainty, our young babysitter took the bold step of reporting the family for not disclosing the presence of an adult son in the house. Her friends, however, weren’t entirely on board with her decision. They argued that the man was harmless, and by reporting the family, she was denying the child future babysitting services. With her friends’ words echoing in her mind, she found herself questioning her actions. Was she right to report the family, or had she overreacted? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Teen babysitter encounters hidden housemate, sparks concern and fear.

NTA exposes hidden danger, sparks consequences for irresponsible family

Parents’ negligence puts teen babysitter in potential danger

NTA. Sketchy situation, violated rules, communication and consent are key.

NTA. Scary surprise housemate! You did the responsible thing!

NTA. Waiting for accurate rating after doing the job.

NTA!! Every sitter’s worst nightmare Gothic horror vibes
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NTA: Family’s lack of transparency deserves them getting booted

Mixed opinions on whether the babysitter overreacted or not
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Not cool! Dangerous situation, breaking the agreed terms. #NTA

Should the hiring person disclose other occupants in the house?

Feeling unsafe as a babysitter due to undisclosed family members.

Babysitter prioritizes review over personal safety. YTA.

ESH, but babysitter needs to set boundaries and communicate better

NTA: Communication is key for a safe babysitting experience!

Babysitter didn’t know the intruder was the kid’s brother?

NTA. Creepy encounter with unannounced housemate/home invader. You did the right thing!

Mixed feelings on unannounced housemate, but reporting was sly

YTA accused of assuming male is potential rapist, sparks debate

ESH for not communicating and causing unnecessary drama.

NTA! You deserve to know who you’re working with.

Parents’ inconsideration gave teen babysitter a chilling fright. NTA

Babysitter’s terrifying encounter: Unannounced housemate or home invader? Stay strong!

Let’s talk instead of punish! Understanding is key ️

You’re not the a**hole! Good on you, to be honest.

YTA – You did the job, adapt and move forward.

“YTA. That’s his house. He doesn’t have to disclose…”

Babysitter’s concern turns into sketchy review, communication is key

NTA. Unexpected housemate? That’s a babysitter’s worst nightmare!

Parents hide mystery housemate, babysitter reports. NTA, safety concerns.

NTA: Parents lied about housemate, lucky you didn’t panic and call police

Babysitter’s shocking encounter raises questions about hidden motives and safety

Creepy encounter with unannounced housemate, report it for safety!

Everyone sucks here
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Commenter calls out justification for unannounced housemate, defends babysitter.

Being uncomfortable alone with a stranger? Trust your instincts!

NTA: App’s safety measures protect babysitters and parents. Self-preservation justified.

Curious about the app’s housemate listing. Was it an oversight?

Unexpected encounter with a stranger in a vulnerable state NTA

NTA: Babysitter left alone with stranger, creepy encounter, report them.

NTA: Sketchy situation! Know who’s in the house. Report it!

NTA. Scary situation when unannounced housemate turns out to be invader.

NTA. Babysitting is a process of trust, they breached it.
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NTA: Shocking situation with no warning. They should’ve communicated better.

NTA. Don’t blame yourself for their creepy and dangerous behavior.

Babysitter’s terrifying encounter: Unannounced housemate or home invader?

Terrifying encounter with unannounced housemate, but OP did nothing wrong.

NTA. Creepy surprise housemate? I’d be freaked out too!

NTA. Bravo for leaving a review!

NTA. Unannounced housemate is uncomfortable and potentially dangerous for young babysitter.
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NTA – Sketchy AF ️♂️

NTA, reporting discomfort at work is essential for everyone’s safety

NTA. Unannounced housemate hiding raises serious concerns for babysitter’s safety.

NTA for not wanting to be alone with an unknown man

NTA. Safety concerns for babysitters and gender bias in childcare.

NTA: They should have given a clear explanation, something feels off.

NTA: Basic courtesy and safety should be a priority for everyone
