Living with your parents as an adult can be a delicate dance, especially when you work for them too! Meet our 26-year-old hero, who lives with his mom and dad while finishing college. He pays rent and helps out at his mom’s business, but things get tense when his mom brings work drama home. After one too many outbursts, he finally snaps and tells her she can yell at him when he’s getting paid for it! Read on to see how this family conflict unfolds…
The Convenient Living Arrangement

Working for Mom’s Business

Mom’s Business Temper

The Mistakes and the Blowups

A Rough Day and a Nap

Son’s Bold Response ️

Drawing the Line ⚠️

Mom’s Reaction

Dad’s Advice

The Edit: Quitting Isn’t Easy

The Reasons to Stay

Caring for Mom ❤️

Son’s Bold Stand: Paid Lectures Only!
Our 26-year-old protagonist finally had enough of his mom’s work-related outbursts invading his personal space. He boldly told her that she can only lecture him about work stuff when he’s on the clock and getting paid for it! Now, mom’s giving him the silent treatment and dad’s suggesting an apology. But was our hero in the right for standing up for himself? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this family feud…
NTA. Quit working for her, get another job.

Commenters sympathize with OP’s situation and suggest moving out.

NTA. ‘Boss at work, Mom at home’ mindset is important

NTA and passive-aggressive mom gets the silent treatment at home.

Asserting boundaries: Son stands up to mom’s invasion of privacy

Blurred lines between work and home life with an AH mom.

Setting boundaries with family at work

NTA. The mom needs to learn how to manage better

Get paid for listening to mom? NTA wins this argument.

Empowering response to mom’s yelling earns NTA judgement
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Yelling is unprofessional and unacceptable. NTA for standing up.

INFO: Two scenarios presented, one must be the a**hole. Move out.

Silence is golden! NTA comment shuts down argument.

Assertive son shuts down mom’s yelling like a boss

Honesty wins! A brilliant solution to a common problem.

Toxic work environment? Consider quitting. NTA

Quit working for mom, it won’t help your resume

Setting boundaries with mom, NTA comment gets support
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Standing up to a yelling boss is never easy

Setting boundaries with family can be tough

Setting boundaries and standing your ground.

Unfair rent and chores? Pay me first, says son

Setting work boundaries with abusive family member. NTA

Son stands up to abusive mom, demands payment

Mom uses son as a scapegoat for bad days
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Don’t work for family! NTA comment sparks moving advice

Enforcing boundaries with family can be tough. Stand your ground!

When silence is golden: a witty response to family drama

Respectful employee-employer relations are key. NTA

Riding out the silent treatment from mom

Advice for OP to leave toxic work and home environment.

Encouraging response to NTA comment about toxic boss

Son’s work ethic questioned by commenter in fiery exchange

Navigating working for family and setting boundaries.
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Separating work and home life is healthy. NTA for sure.

Commenter advises to separate business and personal life for healthy relationship. NTA
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Don’t work for family: micro-management and verbal assault. NTA
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Navigating family business boundaries can be tricky

Get paid for your time, NTA comment wins

Effective management doesn’t involve yelling

Setting boundaries with parents is important for mental health.

Short and sweet: NTA. Quit.
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Son stands up for himself with clever response. #NTA
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Working for family: Navigating boundaries and financial compensation.

Assertive son stands up to yelling mother in work dispute.

Working for family can be a minefield
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Setting boundaries: NTA comment gets approval

Setting boundaries with family can be tough, but necessary.

Navigating family and work roles causing tension and resentment.

Son stands up to mom’s yelling with bold demand

Setting boundaries with family at work. NTA.

NTA for standing up for himself against his mom’s unreasonable behavior.

Leave the job and don’t apologize for speaking your truth

Boundaries at work and home can be tricky. NTA.

Setting boundaries is key to a healthy work-life balance

College-bound son stands up to mom’s demands
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Sarcasm at its finest. ♂️

Setting healthy boundaries with family
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Short and to the point.

Take charge of your career, not worth enduring bad bosses!

Agreement and support. NTA

Setting boundaries with family at work. NTA wins.

Setting boundaries with family can be tough, but necessary.

Bold move: Leaving job applications on the table.

Employee stands up to yelling boss with a clever demand

Advice on setting boundaries with a yelling boss.

Charge your mom for yelling outside of work hours

Family and business don’t always mix. NTA, time to quit.

Navigating the blurred lines of working and living with parents

Standing up to a yelling mom, paying rent, and work

Standing up to a boss who crosses boundaries

Enforcing boundaries at work: NTA stands up to boss

Setting boundaries with momma dukes.
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Home is where the heart is, not the office. #NTA

Son stands up to mom’s yelling, demands payment first!

Son’s loyalty to mom questioned, sparks debate on work-life balance

Establishing boundaries: A win for the son!
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Standing up to family abuse at work

Maintaining boss/Mom separation benefits OP. Stand firm and chill out.

Son stands up to mom’s unfair business demands, earns respect
