Family dinners can be a mixed bag of emotions, especially when it involves a mother-in-law, a son, and his wife. In this tale, we explore a family drama where a son (36M) finds himself in a tricky situation, caught between his mom’s insensitive remarks and his wife’s feelings. The question is, did he handle it right? Let’s dive into the story and find out.
The Family Dynamic: A Mother-Son Duo
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Mom’s Sweet, But…
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Quarantine Baking and Weight Gain
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The Fat Joke Incident
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Mom’s Comment Sparks Tension
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The Russian Whisper
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Dinner Invitation Extended
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Mother’s Comment Crosses the Line
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Mother Refuses to Apologize
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The Exit
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Wife’s Reaction
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Doubts Creep In
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A Family Feud: Son vs. Mother, With Wife in the Middle
In a tale as old as time, a son finds himself in a predicament, torn between his mother and his wife. The mother’s habit of commenting on people’s weight stirs the pot, leading to a heated exchange and an unceremonious exit. The wife, while agreeing that the mother’s comments were out of line, thinks the son might have overreacted by asking her to leave. This leaves our protagonist questioning his actions. Was he too harsh, or did he do the right thing? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA for standing up to rude mother who insulted wife.

“NTA for kicking out disrespectful mother who involved your son.”

Defending spouse: Son kicks mom out for disrespect. NTA!

NTA. Mom’s rude comments in different language, son kicks her out.

“NTA: Son stands up to insensitive mom’s repeated offensive comments.”

Defending wife from rude comments in different language. Good job!

NTA. Standing up for your wife, you’re a great husband!

NTA: Wife’s secret actions exposed, mom gets called out

Supportive spouse defends wife against insensitive comments.

Son stands up to mom’s insensitive comments. NTA!

NTA. Stand up for your wife and show her support!

NTA. Setting boundaries and standing up for your partner.

NTA. Son defends wife against mother’s bullying and shaming behavior.

NTA. Perfect couple goals with homemade meatball lasagna and cookies!

Son stands up to mom’s insensitivity. NTA

Standing up to mom’s insensitive comments: NTA, show consequences!

NTA. Cookies, lasagna, and a good wife? Heaven on earth!

Son defends wife against mom’s rude comments. NTA!

Mom’s true colors exposed: Son stands up for himself.

Defending honor and cookies: NTA wins the day!
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NTA. Standing up to abusive mother for wife and son

NTA for standing up for your wife and calling out your mother. Next time though, maybe explain the situation to your wife in English before you kick your mother out.

Son stands up for wife, sets boundaries with insensitive mother

Engaging debate on language barrier and family dynamics

Son stands up for wife against insensitive mother. NTA!

NTA: Setting boundaries with mom to protect wife. Solid move!

Son kicks mom out for biting the hand that fed her

Son defends wife, calls out rude mother. NTA!

NTA: Stand up for your wife and set boundaries with mom.

NTA: Protecting your wife from fatphobia, you did the right thing!
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NTA, but your mother is.

Son defends his wife against insensitive mother during family meal

Son sets boundaries with rude mother: No AH here!
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Mom’s insensitive comments lead to son’s justified decision.

Son stands up to mom’s insensitive comments. NTA!
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NTA defends child from insensitive comments, sparks discussion on stereotypes

NTA: Protecting the wife’s feelings was the only thing missing!

Mom gets shown the door! NTA.

NTA – Husband defends wife, earns praise for standing up
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NTA, a great husband!

NTA defends wife against mother’s outrageous comments.

NTA: Mother’s insensitive comments crossed the line, wife deserves better.

Son defends wife against mom’s interference, good call!

Mom’s weight comments in foreign language: Not sweet at all!

NTA for asking mom to leave, but TA to wife

NTA. Empowering women to embrace their bodies.

Understanding Russian moms: NTA for showing mom the door

Setting boundaries with mom: NTA, keep it up!

NTA. Supportive husband even behind closed doors.

Son kicks mom out: Cookies > insensitive comments

Speaking Russian to talk behind wife’s back: rude or reflex?
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NTA: Cultural context, extreme move, rift, major line crossed

Setting boundaries with an insensitive Russian mother-in-law. NTA

“Apart from when I have girlfriends” – NTA, no explanation needed!

Russian mom’s unsolicited advice about weight: NTA for kicking her out!

Son defends wife against mother’s hurtful comments. NTA!

NTA sets language boundary, husband respects it, mother needs wake-up

Cultural or not, this mom’s bluntness crosses the line!

NTA. Standing up for your wife against insensitive comments

NTA: Mom insults daughter-in-law, refuses to apologize, son kicks her out.

ESH: Wife thinks he went too far, maybe he did.

NTA: Son defends wife from mom’s hurtful comments in Russian.

Son stands up to mom’s insensitive comments

NTA: Weight joke made wife cry, clearly not harmless

Defending spouse, setting boundaries: Son stands up to insensitive mom!

NTA with Russian inlaws, no surprise there!

A fat joke that went too far, causing tears and tension.
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