Being a new parent is a challenging experience, and it can be even harder when one partner feels like they’re shouldering more of the work. That’s what happened to one couple, who found themselves at odds over who was responsible for getting up with their baby at night. When the wife started faking sleep to make her husband take on more of the nighttime care, things quickly escalated. Now the husband and his mother are accusing the wife of neglecting their son, but is that really the case? Read on to find out more about this contentious situation and decide for yourself who’s in the wrong.
Mom fakes sleep to get dad to take care of baby

Mom fakes sleep to make dad take care of baby

Wife fakes sleep to make hubby handle crying baby

Tired mom fakes sleep to make husband take care of baby

Husband belittles wife for taking care of their child

Father refuses to help with baby, wife fakes sleep

Mom fakes sleep, now dad refuses to help with baby

Avoiding a mother-in-law’s wrath while faking sleep

Working mom fakes sleep to make hubby care for baby. AITA?

Wife fakes sleep to make husband take care of baby
When it comes to parenting, sharing responsibilities is essential. But what happens when one partner refuses to do their fair share of the work, leaving the other exhausted and overwhelmed? In this case, a wife decided to take matters into her own hands and faked sleep to get her husband to take care of their baby. Despite her efforts, her husband found out and accused her of neglecting their child. Even his mother got involved, criticizing the wife for being petty and unreasonable. The argument has escalated, and now the husband has washed his hands of nightly child care, leaving everything to the wife. But is this fair? Who is really to blame? Read on to find out and share your thoughts in the comments below.
NTA for faking sleep to make husband take care of baby. Husband’s immature behavior and disrespect towards OP’s parenting work is concerning

Sharing parenting responsibilities is key. NTA for faking sleep.

Commenter stands up to mother-in-law interference, NTA

Husband and MIL are AHs, NTA. Boundaries needed ASAP.

Wife fakes sleep to make husband take care of baby. NTA.

Mom suggests leaving husband and gets support from commenters

Demanding help from ‘mummy dearest’ is not the solution. NTA.

Stay-at-home mom questions husband’s energy for friends and Xbox.

Compromise and communication are key to solving this childish behavior

Avoiding confrontation, wife fakes sleep to care for baby. ESH.

Stand firm, share responsibility, and confront sexism.

Moms can relate: Faking sleep to get some rest. #NTA

Single mom or not, she deserves respect and support

Marriage in trouble: commenter advises counseling for selfish spouse

Parents share tactics for taking care of baby, NTA if partner doesn’t help.

Couple needs to communicate and create a schedule for baby
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Commenter sympathizes with the wife’s struggles with a lazy partner

Partnership requires communication, not fake sleeping or getting moms involved

Splitting baby duties causes conflict. Sleep-deprived parents need solutions.

Passive aggressive sleep-faking results in toxic family involvement. ESH

NTA, but SO needs to grow up

Call out bad behavior and reclaim your power!
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Sleep training tips for a well-rested family. NTA.
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Childcare should never be a game. ESH in this situation

MIL trouble? NTA needs to stand up to mama’s boy.

Maybe it’s time to grow up before having kids

Husband acts entitled and childish, seeks mom’s help. NTA.

Both parents need to communicate and seek counseling to resolve issues

Deception in marriage is wrong, but therapy could resolve conflicts.

Equal parenting is not an option, it’s a responsibility

Equal parenting responsibilities and no mommy interference, NTA.

Wife fakes sleep to make husband take care of baby

Husband not just a neglectful parent, but also spouse. NTA

Parenting and co-parenting can be an exhausting job

Commenter suggests divorce as a solution.

Commenter expresses disgust towards partner’s actions in child rearing.

Empowering response to difficult relationship dynamics. You go, girl! ✌️

Husband complains to mommy about taking care of his own child
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Don’t let your husband shirk his parental duties! NTA

Commenter supports wife’s decision to make husband take care of baby

Supportive comment on MIL and husband’s parenting attitude.

Set boundaries with your MIL and split night feedings fairly

Commenter calls out man’s lack of responsibility.
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Mom deserves a break Dad needs to step up
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Stand your ground and prioritize your family. NTA

Empathetic reply to a frustrated comment on gender roles.

Husband gets parenting wake-up call, wife wins MVP

Commenter calls out immature partner in parenting fail.

New mom is NTA for faking sleep to get rest
