Picture this: you’re invited to your sister’s lavish engagement party, but there’s a catch – you can’t bring your wife because you’re in a same-sex relationship. What would you do? This is exactly what happened to one woman, who found herself in the middle of a family drama that ended in a cancelled wedding. Let’s delve into her story…
A High Brow Engagement Party
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The Unusual Request ♀️
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The Decision to Support…But At What Cost?
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The Closeted Party ️
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The Unwanted Proposal ♀️
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The Truth Comes Out ️ ️
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The Fallout
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The Final Confrontation ️
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A Wedding Cancelled, A Family Divided: Who’s Really to Blame? ♀️
In a world where acceptance should be the norm, one woman found herself caught in a web of family drama and societal expectations. She was asked to hide her true self for the sake of her sister’s wedding, but when the truth came out, it led to a cancelled wedding and a family in turmoil. But who’s really at fault here? The woman who refused to hide her identity, or the family who couldn’t accept her for who she is? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Sister wants OP to hide being gay, but wedding gets cancelled

NTA, NTA, NTA!! You stood up to your homophobic sister

NTA: Sister’s wedding cancelled due to bigoted fiancé’s family. Dodged bullet.

NTA: Honest answer about being homosexual, sister’s expectations were absurd.

“NTA- Sister wants to hide you from new family. “

NTA: They cancelled the wedding because they’re bigots.

NTA, but sister’s poor judgment jeopardizes family bond.

NTA. Family drama and bigotry at its finest.

Fiancé’s family stopped supporting wedding, he broke up with sister. NTA.

NTA. Sister’s offensive request ruins wedding. Bigoted family complicates matters.

NTA. Sister’s wedding cancelled over family secret. She was complicit.

NTA, awful people. Sister dodged a bullet. Fiancé’s role unclear. ♀️

NTA: Family cancels wedding due to bigotry, red flag for sister

Op, you’re not the a**hole. You handled it gracefully. NTA. ✨

NTA! Stand up for yourself and support your sister!

NTA: Trash people causing sister’s cancelled wedding.

NTA, but why attend? ♀️

Chosen family > last relative. NTA for exposing bigots.

NTA for not lying about being gay at sister’s wedding. ♀️

Family members cancel wedding, groom follows their orders.

“NTA: Stand up for yourself and be proud of who you are! “

NTA for refusing to hide your sexuality, sister dodged bullet

Calling out bigotry and prioritizing relationships. ♀️

Respecting her marriage while disrespecting yours? Not the a**hole!

NTA: What if they found out at the wedding?

NTA. Don’t take the blame for their mess.
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NTA. Sister’s wedding cancelled over family secret; insensitive and cruel.

NTA: Hypocrisy at its finest. Excluding your wife is unfair.

NTA: Exposing a garbage family and doing her a favor!

Commenter faces sexual harassment and bigotry from relatives at wedding.

Sister’s wedding cancelled over family secret: Sister is TA

Standing up against homophobia at your sister’s cancelled wedding.

NTA for not wanting to date a pushy guy.

NTA: Standing up against bigotry, even within your own family.

Homophobia cancels wedding, leaving future uncertain. NTA takes stand.

NTA – Sister’s wedding cancelled over homophobia. Dodged a bullet!

Sister’s wedding cancelled over a family secret: NTA stands up!

Sister’s cancelled wedding: NTA for setting boundaries with intolerant family ♀️

Dodging a bullet: helping your sister cancel her wedding. NTA

Commenter defends OP, questions if boyfriend had issue with OP’s sexuality. ♀️
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Homophobia in 2021? Not cool. Cut ties, no regrets.

Rescuing sister from a bullet, NTA!

Escaping a controlling family: NTA for cancelling the wedding

♀️ NTA. Standing up against bigotry and doing everyone a favor.

NTA You did her a service, f**k that whole family.

NTA : Unveiling the family secret without ruining the wedding ♀️

NTA. Better now than after she’s married.

Sister’s wedding cancelled over family secret: NTA saves the day!

NTA: You didn’t tell her who’s right for her.

NTA: Sister’s wedding cancelled over family secret. Stand up for yourself!

Sister’s wedding cancelled: Is she really at fault?

NTA. The truth always finds a way. Secrets never last.

Fiancé’s family causing divide? NTA for cancelling sister’s wedding!

NTA: Stand up for love and find someone more supportive. ❤️

Cutting off toxic family members is necessary for self-care.
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Commenter thinks cancelling the wedding was a favor.

You saved her from a toxic, abusive marriage.

Embrace your true self and let the rainbow flag fly!

NTA. Family’s attitude caused wedding cancellation.

Sister’s wedding cancelled due to groom’s family: Whose fault? ♀️

Family secret revealed: Timing doesn’t matter, NTA for sharing.

You did everything you could to respect your sister’s wishes

Commenter saves sister from terrible marriage, NTA

NTA. Your sacrifice for your sister’s wedding is commendable.

NTA. Stay true to yourself and let ignorance be their problem.

Commenter calls out creepy relative for pressuring young woman.

NTA: Sister’s wedding cancelled due to homophobic fiance.

Wedding cancelled over family secret? Blame game and excuses.

NTA: Sister dodged a bullet! You’re her hero!

NTA. Unbelievable! Your sister wanted you to hide your true self?

Cut ties with your sister! NTA, she sucks

NTA. Secrets, pressure, and a cancelled wedding. Drama at its finest!

NTA: Family secret exposed, sister’s wedding cancelled. Was hiding necessary?

“Conservative” = bigoted pricks? Let’s discuss!

Sister’s secret exposed, homophobia ruins wedding. NTA stands up against hate.
