Imagine working a full-time job and looking forward to a family dinner, only to find out that you’re the only one eating alone. This is the reality for a 20-year-old woman whose family seems to prioritize her sister’s schedule over hers. Despite her attempts to find a solution, her mother refuses to budge, leaving her feeling isolated and frustrated. Let’s dive into this family drama and see if we can figure out why her sister’s schedule is always the top priority. ️
The Scheduling Conflict
Sister’s Schedule Takes Precedence
Dinner Time Dilemma ️
Grandma’s Birthday Party
Seeking a Solution
Mom’s Mysterious Reasoning
Grandma’s Support
Laying Down the Law ⚖️
Mom’s Harsh Response
The Only Schedules to Consider ️
Weekend Dinners Not an Option
Family Dinners: Not a Daily Occurrence
Sister’s Living Situation
Divorced Parents
Contributing to the Dinners
Is It Too Much to Ask for a Fair Schedule? ️
A 20-year-old woman is left feeling frustrated and isolated as her family continues to prioritize her sister’s schedule over hers for family dinners. Despite trying to find a fair solution, her mother refuses to budge, leaving her to eat alone at every gathering. Even her grandmother, who supports her, is unable to sway the family’s decision. With no other options, she’s considering skipping out on family dinners altogether. So, who’s really being unreasonable here? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this family conflict…
Skipping family dinner for sister’s schedule? NTA, say commenters.
Sibling favoritism sparks dinner drama
Family dinner schedule excludes OP, NTA for feeling unwelcome
Hosting family meals at your place could give you the time you want with them
Bond with your grandma over dinner, NTA commenter suggests
Weekday family events: odd or practical? Grandma works by choice
NTA, but it’s time to create distance from your family
Mom’s blatant favoritism sparks sibling rivalry
NTA. Expressing feelings to mom, but reply suggests compromise.
Playing favorites with family schedules NTA takes a stand
Mom’s favoritism causing family dinner drama. NTA suggests alternating.
Skipping family dinners for grandma, NTA wins this round
Demanding an explanation for favoritism in a polite way
Commenter suggests dysfunctional family dynamics, leaving OP eating alone
NTA for missing dinner, but early dinner time is ridiculous
Weekend dinners not an option for working grandmother
Sibling favoritism s***s, take your granny out for lunch
NTA with a relatable experience, sister should deal with consequence
Fair compromise suggested for family dinner scheduling
NTA. The problem is not about you vs. your sister. It’s about who’s eating first. Props to your grandmother for waiting to eat with you on her birthday.
“I’m no longer participating in family events.” – Setting boundaries
Stand up for yourself and spend time with those who care
Commenter asks for more information on dinner prep situation
NTA comment could have been worded better for family harmony
Sibling dinner drama: sister’s schedule reigns supreme
Eating dinner at 4 pm? NTA, unless you’re over 80
Late lunch or early dinner? The debate continues
Sister rushes family dinners for her own convenience
Commenter calls out mom and sister as a**holes.
Fairness in family dinners: NTA suggests alternating schedules
Debate over early dinner time sparks hilarious comment thread
Don’t let your sister’s schedule control your family dinners
Skipping dinner when you’re already eating alone?
Commenter’s ‘scraped goat’ analogy gets a laugh
Cooking for one person first is harder. Don’t take it personally.
Sibling dinner drama: Asking to alternate makes you an a**hole?
Sibling rivalry at its finest.
Mom shows blatant favoritism, NTA for questioning it.
Family dinner exclusion, NTA suggests compromise for inclusion
Sarcastic NTA comment shuts down family favoritism debate
Prioritize yourself and your grandmother. Don’t chase after neglectful family.
Commenter questions OP’s situation and offers perspective on sister’s schedule.
Standing up for yourself at family dinners NTA
Family dinners without you? NTA, spend time with grandma
Standing up to family favoritism. NTA
Favoritism stinks! NTA for wanting fair treatment
Being an only child has its perks
Skipping family dinners, NTA suggests a working schedule for all
Stand up for yourself! Ask why sister gets priority.
Suggests taking grandma out for lunch or surprising her at work
Family prioritizes sister’s schedule over OP, NTA for skipping dinner
NTA commenter suggests family doesn’t understand WFH responsibilities
Family dinners without family? NTA for feeling left out ♀️
Family dinners without family? Not cool. NTA stands strong.
Standing up for oneself during family dinners is reasonable.
Stick to your schedule
Eating alone defeats the purpose of a family dinner ♀️
Take control of the dinner table and show your sister who’s boss
Polite request for compromise deemed ‘ah’ by unreasonable family. NTA
Sibling rivalry at the dinner table
Working full-time and left alone at family dinners. Relatable
Sibling favoritism? Not cool. NTA calls out the behavior.
Skipping family dinner? NTA. Pack a plate and go home
Take control of your life & show up for what matters
Avoid family drama by having dinner with dad instead
Skip family dinners without making a fuss
Sister’s schedule causing family dinners dilemma? NTA suggests work excuse.
Mom’s favoritism is clear, but defensive instead of apologetic. NTA
Skipping family dinner for leftovers? NTA strikes again!
Mom’s playing favorites, stop going. Plan dinners with grandma
Mother’s motives questioned in prioritizing sister’s schedule over fairness.
Take control of your dinners and invite Grandma for company!
Mature response to family dinner conflict
Eating alone at ‘family dinners’? Definitely NTA here
Commenter is not the a**hole, no replies.
Last Updated on June 19, 2023 by Diply Social Team