We’ve all heard of wedding drama, but this one takes the cake! A woman decided to have a ‘redo wedding’ after her original celebration was downsized due to the pandemic. However, her brother, who lives far away and has young children, is refusing to attend. This has led to a family feud and a whole lot of tension. Let’s dive into the story and see what’s going on.
The Downscaled Wedding

A Fun, Intimate Celebration

The ‘Redo Wedding’ Plan

Respectfully Declining the Invite ♂️

Vacation Priorities ️

Standing Their Ground

Dad’s Opinion ♂️

Wife’s Stance ♀️

To Attend or Not to Attend?
So, our conflicted brother and his wife are stuck in a tricky situation. They don’t want to spend their time and money on a ‘redo wedding’ they’ve already attended, but the sister is insistent and upset. With the family divided, emotions are running high. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation and whether they can find a solution that satisfies everyone. ️
Sibling declines sister’s ‘redo wedding’ invite, deemed NTA ♀️

Realistic commenter advises against redo wedding drama.

NTA OP, bringing toddlers to a long, uncomfortable ceremony? No thanks

Traveling again for a ‘redo wedding’? NTA, stand your ground

Sister’s ‘redo wedding’ gets backlash from guests. NTA.

Vow renewal on 10th anniversary is a better idea

Redo wedding causes PTO burnout and family drama. NTA.

Curiosity about a ‘redo wedding’ and potential family drama

Skipping brother’s wedding was worth it. NTA

Wedding redo or new life goals? Money better spent elsewhere

NTA stands up to sister’s redo wedding, internet cheers

Wedding redo shut down by guests who paid for original

NTA advises to send a gift and hope for forgiveness

Sibling drama over ‘redo wedding’ is childish and unreasonable.

Delaying the wedding could have been a better option

Politely declining a redo wedding invitation with a sassy tone

2020 bride regrets not having a full wedding celebration

NAH verdict with a warning about relationship damage

Bridezilla wants a ‘redo wedding’, commenter says NTA

Sister’s wedding, sister’s choice. Mind your own business. ♀️

Sometimes we do annoying and expensive things for loved ones
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Politely declining sister’s ‘redo wedding’ due to travel and toddlers.

Wedding redo drama averted, time for a family vacation!
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Friend lost over similar issue, offering to pay not enough

Choosing not to attend sister’s wedding is causing family drama

Sister wants a redo wedding, but is she crossing the line?

Sibling offers perspective on ‘Redo Wedding’ family drama. ESH.

Compromise suggested to avoid costly family drama

Wedding guest questions sister’s ‘redo wedding’ double standard

Wedding redo = gift grab? Wait for anniversary party instead.

Skeptical comment about redo wedding and its potential chaos.

Family comes first, attend your sister’s wedding and make memories

Redo weddings and anniversary parties are common now due to COVID.

Wedding disappointment leads to family drama. ESH.

Sibling loyalty wins over logic in ‘Redo Wedding’ drama

NAH comment: Sister deserves a COVID-free wedding, understandable budget concerns.

Sibling offers grace but cautions sister’s wedding redo expectations.

Sibling shares experience of attending two weddings due to COVID-19.

Family drama over sister’s redo wedding, how important are they?

Sister’s pandemic wedding was short-changed, don’t make it worse

Respectful decline of sister’s ‘redo wedding’ could strain relationship

Declining is fair, but reacting rudely makes you the AH

Attending family events alone can be cheaper and easier.

Wedding redo causing family drama and financial burden.

Wedding redo? NTA. Wait for your dream wedding. ♀️

Attending sister’s redo wedding is a once in a lifetime thing
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NAH sister wants redo wedding after pandemic, commenter defends her choice.

Empathetic comment defends sister’s emotional reaction, suggests tactful approach. NAH ❤️

Redo wedding causing family drama, commenter advises sucking it up.

Redo wedding drama: Commenter calls out YTA’s rude behavior

NTA thinks sister wants big wedding for gifts. Suggests PTO hack.

Wedding redo obsession may indicate marriage problems. NTA.

Bridezilla sister called out for hypocrisy and selfishness

Weddings can have long-term effects on family relationships.

NTA for not going, but YTA for your attitude

Wedding drama: Don’t let your sister’s tantrum ruin your life

Wedding redo? NTA says bride’s sister is not the a-hole

Sister wants a ‘redo wedding’ but commenter thinks it’s unnecessary.

NTA declining sister’s ‘redo wedding’, concerns over bridezilla behavior

Don’t let family dictate how you spend your money and PTO

Wedding invite drama: NTA for declining, it’s not mandatory

Valid reasons for skipping sister’s ‘redo wedding’, NTA

NTA for not attending sister’s redo wedding due to travel and vacation constraints. Raises valid points about the concept of redo weddings and expenses.

Suggests tactful response to sister’s ‘Redo Wedding’ invitation.

A compromise for attending the wedding without family drama

Money shouldn’t be the reason for missing family events

Sibling drama over redo wedding, commenter says NTA

Skipping sister’s ‘redo wedding’ for being gift grabber. NTA.

Free mini holiday or not, NTA for not attending.

Savage response to entitled sister’s ‘redo wedding’ request.

Saving PTO for sick kids: a reasonable NTA suggestion

Wedding regrets and family drama, but no assholes here

NTA for not going, but AH for being judgy

Respect your sister’s wishes, declining politely is an option

Attending the original wedding means no obligation to attend redo

Single mom teacher regrets missing Greece wedding

NTA suggests family pay for redo wedding and PTO concerns.

NTA suggests redo wedding bride needs to understand family priorities.

Sibling wedding drama due to unrealistic expectations and COVID complications.
