Family drama can be intense, especially when it comes to hypothetical questions that can change your life. A woman shared her story about how her sister asked her if she would be a surrogate for her, but it was just a hypothetical question. The woman, who has never had children and doesn’t plan to, answered honestly that she probably wouldn’t. This led to her sister getting offended and accusing her of not loving her. The situation has left the woman wondering if she’s really a bad sister for refusing a hypothetical request. Let’s dive into the story and see what happened.
Sister’s Struggle to Conceive

The Hypothetical Question ❓

Would You Be My Surrogate?

Sister’s Hurt Reaction

Reasons for Refusal

Unspoken Reason

Accusations of Being a Bad Sister

All Because of a Hypothetical Question ❓

Expectations and Reality ♀️

Sister’s Past Behavior

A Situation That Stuck

Is She Really a Bad Sister?
After refusing her sister’s hypothetical surrogacy request, this woman has been left wondering if she’s truly heartless and a bad sister. Her sister, who has had three children and loves being pregnant, couldn’t understand why someone who has never had children and doesn’t want them would refuse. The woman’s reasons for refusal included not wanting to experience pregnancy and its bodily changes, as well as her dislike for her sister’s husband. Despite the hurtful accusations, she still loves her sister, but can’t shake the feeling that she’s being unfairly judged. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotional family dilemma…
Setting boundaries with family over surrogacy request.

Woman refuses sister’s surrogacy request, sparks safety concerns. NTA.

Avoiding hypothetical drama with a smart move

NTA. Carrying a child can be traumatic, especially if unwanted

Surrogacy request sparks family drama, NTA highlights risks and sister’s absurdity

Sister’s cruel behavior justifies OP’s decision to say no

Surrogacy is serious business, NTA for being cautious

Navigating family traps: why honesty is the best policy

NTA for not wanting to be a surrogate, even for family

Valid reasons for declining hypothetical surrogacy request. NTA

Sister’s hypothetical surrogacy request turns into emotional manipulation

Curious commenter asks for missing husband info in family drama.

Setting boundaries with family is important

Sister wants surrogate but commenter says NTA, pregnancy changes body.

Sister’s toxic behavior towards surrogacy request, NTA, bullying, abuse

Uncovering the root of abusive behavior in family dynamics

No harm, no foul: NTA clarifies surrogacy rules and hypothetical situation.

Personal surrogacy request denied due to health concerns. #NTA

Body autonomy defended in hypothetical surrogacy request.

Empowering response to sister’s surrogacy request

Sister’s surrogacy request uncovers family tensions and marital problems

Sister asks for surrogacy, commenter says NTA for refusing.
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Offering to be a surrogate is a personal decision

Body autonomy is important, even with family. NTA
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Polite NTA response suggests taking a break from toxic family drama.
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First-time pregnancy makes surrogacy unlikely. Huge ask, genuine offer?

Sister’s surrogacy request denied, commenter supports OP’s decision.

Experienced surrogate explains why OP is NTA and offers advice

Don’t back down! ♀️ Your body, your decisions, your life.

Sister’s surrogacy request leads to family drama and abuse

Supportive comment encourages standing up against abusive behavior.

Sibling surrogacy drama: NTA, body autonomy is important

Sister’s surrogacy request denied, NTA. Pregnancy can be dangerous.

Supportive comment encourages personal agency in surrogacy decision

Politely declining sister’s surrogacy request deemed NTA by commenter.

User slams family’s surrogacy request as insane and inappropriate

User shuts down surrogacy request with r/childfree loophole

Sister’s hypothetical surrogacy request causes family drama. NTA wins.

Surrogacy refusal is not a**hole behavior, common knowledge right?

Could the hypothetical surrogacy question be a hidden request?

Birthing a baby without having one is a gosh darn horror movie

Surrogacy entitlement and bodily autonomy defended. Childfree community recommended. NTA.

Sister wants non-mother to be surrogacy, commenter says no ♀️
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No ethical practitioner would allow a first-time surrogate. NTA.

Setting boundaries with entitled family members

Sister jokingly declines surrogacy request, gets accused of overreacting

Sister’s entitled request met with justified refusal. #NTA

NTA. Sister’s hypothetical surrogacy request causes family drama
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Sister’s surrogacy request causes family drama, commenter says NTA
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Being honest with family is important , pregnancy is a personal choice.

Respectful decline of hypothetical surrogacy request deemed NTA

Sibling asks for surrogacy, commenter defends and educates.

Infertility and surrogacy can be emotionally complex. NTA for declining.

Setting boundaries with family over surrogacy request.

Sister’s womb is not a communal property
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Rejecting sister’s surrogacy request, NTA highlights legal and bodily autonomy.

Sister demands uterus, but commenter shuts it down.

Politely declining sister’s surrogacy request, citing medical disqualification. NTA

Setting boundaries with family over surrogacy request

Surrogacy is a gift, not an expectation. Sister needs perspective.

NTA stands firm against sister’s petty surrogacy request

Politely declining sister’s surrogacy request is reasonable and justified

Family drama ensues over sister’s hypothetical surrogacy request ♀️
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Empathetic comment supports OP’s decision and offers advice

OP compares sister’s surrogacy request to prostitution

NTA saves husband from sister’s anger, but he’s at fault ♀️

User shares their strong stance on pregnancy and childbirth. NTA.

Family love should not be conditional. NTA for setting boundaries

User shares personal experience and opinion on surrogacy.
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NTA. Surrogacy is a huge deal and not a decision to be made lightly.

Boundaries are important, NTA. Don’t let her guilt-trip you.

Sister expects surrogacy but won’t do it for you? NTA
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Sister’s surrogacy request denied. NTA. Body, your choice

Sister’s surrogacy request denied with a spicy NTA comment

Last Updated on February 23, 2024 by Diply Social Team