Picture this: you have an older sister, Sofia, who has struggled with anxiety and depression for years. She became overly protective of her kids and pushed everyone away. After a long custody battle, her ex-husband wins full custody of their twins. Fast forward a few years, and Sofia is trying to rebuild her relationship with her kids, but they still don’t want to live with her. One day, she breaks down in front of you, asking why her children won’t choose her. You can’t help but laugh at the absurdity of the situation. But what happens next has everyone pointing fingers at you. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story…
Sister Sofia’s Struggles

Berlin Culture Shock ️

Sofia’s Anxiety and Depression

Life After Marriage

Skyrocketing Anxiety

Babysitting Ban

Refusing Professional Help

Overprotective Parenting

No Unsupervised Visits ♂️

Custody Battle ⚖️

Father Wins Custody

Returning Home

Sister’s Emotional Breakdown

Twins’ Custody Decision

Uncontrollable Laughter

Harsh Truths

Overdose and Blame

Laughter Leads to Tragedy
Our protagonist’s sister, Sofia, has been battling anxiety and depression for years, leading her to become overprotective of her kids and alienating her family. After her ex-husband, Gabriel, wins full custody of their twins, Sofia tries to rebuild her relationship with them. However, the twins still don’t want to live with her. During a family visit, Sofia breaks down in tears, asking why her children won’t choose her. Unable to contain himself, our protagonist bursts into laughter, telling her that if she were his mother, he’d want a restraining order against her. Just hours later, Sofia attempts to overdose on medication, landing her in the ICU. Now, everyone but Gabriel is blaming our protagonist for the situation. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation…
Taking responsibility for mental illness to protect innocent children.

Father rightfully gains custody of endangered children. NTA commentator.

A heartbreaking story of an abusive mother who refused help.

Setting boundaries with mentally ill family member

Medical professional’s condescending words during sister’s mental health crisis

Sibling laughter turns sour as family dysfunction takes a toll

User calls out refusal to seek help, says NTA

Empathy urged for troubled family member in custody battle

Confusion over a name in a tense custody battle �onfused

NTA, but YTA for the way you said it

Mental illness doesn’t equate to lack of empathy and logic

Advice on empathy and compassion for a medical professional in training ⚕️

Mental illness doesn’t excuse abusive parenting. ESH here. ♀️

Defending the mentally ill mother, harshly criticized by commenter.

Doctor accused of lying about sister’s custody battle.

Cruelty or Tough Love? YTA Comment Sparks Intense Debate

Medical professional criticized for callous response to mental illness.

Medical professional criticized for being cruel to vulnerable patient.

Being right doesn’t justify being cruel

Religious fanatic helicopter parent struggles lead to dramatic custody battle

Doctor belittles sister’s postpartum depression, called out for lack of empathy

A scathing comment calls out a doctor for being cruel and unsupportive towards their mentally ill sister’s custody struggle.

Med school graduate gets called out for mocking mentally ill sister

Insensitive laughter ruined a chance to be heard

Being cruel to a sister with mental illness? YTA

Parental abuse and reconciliation in custody battles. NTA wins.

Supportive commenters defend OP from blame in sister’s custody battle

Empathy and understanding can go a long way

Calling out a ‘perpetual victim’ mother who weaponizes her mental disorders. #NTA

Serious concerns raised for the well-being of the sister

Sister’s suicide attempt doesn’t make OP responsible for custody.

Standing up for the kids NTA’s courageous response

User criticizes commenter’s behavior towards mentally ill sister. NAH.

Cruel behavior towards mentally ill sister, lack of empathy.

Laughing at an entitled person’s karma. NTA

Responsibility for harm, but punching down mentally ill is wrong

Swiss law listens to children’s wishes in custody battles

User calls out sister’s mental instability and unfit parenting.

Doctor’s reaction to sister’s self-harm sparks debate ⚕️

NTA’s understanding of mental illness and social pressure in Switzerland.

Sister’s incapability to care for teenage children questioned. NTA.

Insensitive initial reaction, but NTA. Sister needs therapy.

A person shares their experience with bipolar and condemns laughing at someone’s suicide attempt.

Being blunt with an unstable sister: YTA, but proceed with caution.

User calls out commenter for lack of empathy towards mentally ill sister

A commenter defends the sister and criticizes the lack of context

Supportive response to a sister’s custody struggle due to mental illness.

Taking responsibility for one’s actions is crucial

Taking responsibility for one’s own actions. NTA wins.

Medical professional criticized for lack of empathy towards mental health

Responsibly managing mental health before having kids. NTA

Effort to change matters, downing medication crosses line. NTA

Speaking truthfully: NTA or ESH in this custody struggle?

Brutal honesty? Or AH behavior? Parenting takes a toll

Being honest with mentally ill sister about custody was necessary

Being honest without being harsh: the NTA’s dilemma

Therapy might help her understand why kids don’t want her.

NTA, commenter defends OP’s decision to keep traumatized children away.

Mental illness should not be mocked, but treated with compassion.

Showing empathy in difficult situations can go a long way

Demanding compassion for an abusive mother? Let’s discuss.

A judgmental but justified NTA verdict.

Retired RN defends OP’s NTA verdict due to sister’s behavior

A plea to see the person behind the illness

User praises OP’s decision to protect nephews from dangerous sister.

Compassionate response to a difficult mental health situation

User observes concerning behavior and suggests mental health support

Speculation about the sister’s past, followed by criticism for lack of empathy. YTA.

The sad truth about suicide, even love may not be enough

ESH, but her behavior with SH is not your fault.

Insensitive behavior towards sister with mental illness deserves backlash

Supporting mental health treatment without coddling irresponsible actions. NTA.

Sensible comment suggests facility for struggling mother.

Reader calls out author’s overuse of twin trope

Laughter in the face of ridiculousness. NTA and children’s safety first

User calls out commenter for being unsupportive and judgmental.

Doctor receives YTA judgement for cruel behavior towards patient
