Picture this: You’ve just announced your pregnancy and engagement to your family, and everyone’s over the moon. But then, there’s that one person who just can’t help but rain on your parade. Meet Ryan, the sister’s boyfriend, who’s got a knack for turning joyous occasions into a debate on divorce rates and paternity tests.
Meet Ryan: The Cynic
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Ryan’s Unwanted Opinions
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A Joyous Announcement
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The Big Reveal
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Enter Ryan: The Party Pooper
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Ryan’s Unwanted Advice
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The Showdown
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The Final Straw
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The Aftermath
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A Battle of Egos: Who Should Apologize First?
So, here we are, stuck in a classic standoff. Our expectant mother is being asked to apologize to her sister’s cynical boyfriend, Ryan, for calling him ‘f**king exhausting’. Meanwhile, Ryan refuses to apologize for his unsolicited advice and raining on their joyous announcement. The sister, caught in the middle, is pushing for her pregnant sibling to be the ‘bigger person’ and apologize first. But should she really have to? Let’s dive into the internet’s take on this sticky situation… ️♀️
NTA. Ryan sounds *exhausting*. Your sister needs to reevaluate her priorities.

NTA. Don’t let him ruin your special moment!

NTA. Sister’s boyfriend is a narcissist with commitment issues.

NTA. Sister’s boyfriend steals thunder, inserts himself in paternity test. W*F

NTA, Nightmare couple ruins good news. Congrats! Hope it’s not spoiled.

NTA: The guy sounds exhausting

NTA: Rising divorce rates are a sign of progress
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NTA. Savage honesty wins the day!

“NTA! Apologizing to him? Send this epic response instead!”
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NTA: Sister’s boyfriend ruins pregnancy announcement, family moment spoiled.

NTA: Stand up for yourself and don’t apologize!

“Sis, Ryan was a total a**hole, don’t apologize. Cut ties.”
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NTA. You were pretty nice to the guy.

NTA. Sister’s boyfriend is a toxic a**hole. Congrats on engagement and baby!

Politely exclude sister’s boyfriend from the wedding.

NTA. Ryan sounds like a big yikes of a dude. Congrats!

NTA: Hire a ‘Ryan watch’ at your wedding to prevent drama

NTA. Congrats on your news! Hopefully you p****d him off!

Sister’s boyfriend is paranoid, NTA for calling him out!

NTA – Ryan is a real party pooper, and sexist too!

NTA: Celebrate others’ joy even if it’s not your cup of tea

NTA. Shutting down toxic boyfriend and setting boundaries.

Sister’s boyfriend is emotionally abusive and narcissistic. Congratulations on pregnancy!

NTA, Ryan’s exhausting. Brutally honest but can’t handle honesty.

NTA. Ryan sounds ignorant af.

Congrats on engagement and pregnancy! Don’t let him ruin it

Congrats on engagement and pregnancy! NTA

NTA. Ryan needs a lesson in keeping opinions to himself
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NTA. He’s a j**k. Others told him to shut up ️♀️ and he doesn’t care ♀️. Complete a****t .

NTA claps back at party pooper, shades of revenge

Describing him was exhausting

Last Updated on October 22, 2023 by Diply Social Team