You’ve heard of sibling rivalry, but what about sibling surrogacy? This tale of two sisters takes a dramatic turn when a childhood dream of shared motherhood collides with personal boundaries. Our protagonist, a self-proclaimed geeky lesbian, finds herself at odds with her ‘prom queen’ twin sister, J, whose dream of having a family has hit a roadblock. When J asks her sister to step in as a surrogate, the response sparks a family feud that leaves everyone questioning who’s in the right. Let’s dive into this emotionally charged saga.
Childhood Dreams and Adult Realities ➡️ ️

Opposites Attract… Or Do They?

A Dream Deferred

The Surrogate Proposal

The Unwanted Request

Personal Battles and Boundaries ️

The Fallout

A Family Divided ️

The Question of Obligation ♀️

To Be or Not to Be… A Surrogate? The Family’s Verdict ️
Caught in a whirlwind of emotions and accusations, our protagonist is left questioning her decision. With her family divided, some siding with J and P, believing she should help her sister, while others affirming her right to say no, the drama escalates. Even her parents stay neutral, acknowledging her right to refuse, but not reprimanding J for her expectations. The question remains, is she in the wrong for prioritizing her mental health and personal boundaries over her sister’s dream of motherhood? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation… ️♀️
Empathy and choice: the delicate dynamics of surrogacy

Surrogate risks and autonomy concerns. Research needed before confronting sister.
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NTA: Standing up for yourself against a demanding sister

Surrogate drama: NTA wants sister to do it for free?

NTA, sister’s selfish demand for surrogacy sparks heated debate

“NTA. Your sister’s outrageous request crossed all boundaries. “

“NTA. You don’t owe anyone a pregnancy. “
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NTA – Surrogacy requires research and eligibility, sister needs understanding

NTA. Your sister’s selfish demand for surrogacy is abhorrent

Surrogacy: A selfless act or an overwhelming responsibility? ♀️
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Empowering choice: NTA. Your body, your rules.

Surrogate refuses, sister needs to apologize. NTA.

NTA. Sister wants to be surrogate but is unsure.

NTA for prioritizing your health. Show compassion amidst family drama

“NTA. Stand your ground and shut down the drama queen.”

NTA. Stick to your guns and limit contact with hounding fam

NTA. Your body, your choice. Sister and BIL’s AH reactions

Pregnancy struggles: NTA for prioritizing your health and safety

Empowering choice: NTA stands up for bodily autonomy

NTA. Stand up for yourself and say NO to surrogacy!

NTA: Your body, your choice! Don’t let her pressure you

Empathy vs. Selflessness: The Surrogate Dilemma

Plenty of options for surrogacy or adoption

NTA: Surrogate drama raises concerns about consent and boundaries

Sister’s selfish demand for free labor sparks surrogate drama

Saying ‘No’ to a huge demand Family drama ensues

NTA, your body your choice! Pregnancy is a huge thing.

“Pregnancy is not like stuffing a pillow under your shirt” ♀️

Empowering choice: NTA asserts autonomy amidst life-altering demands

Demanding and presumptuous accusation of selfishness. NTA.

“Reenacting Handmaid’s Tale? Pregnancy is hard. Don’t be their vessel!”

Surrogate drama: sister’s unreasonable expectation. NTA for refusing.

NTA and a Handmaid’s Tale-esque drama unfolds

NTA for standing up to manipulative pressure. Adoption is valid.

Surrogacy can be dangerous and cause psychological damage to both mother and child. Adopt or foster instead

Empowering choice: NTA, your body, your decision

Absolutely NTA!

Family manipulation. Stand up for yourself. Your body, your choice.

Risking health for a child? NTA raises valid concerns

Pregnancy struggles: NTA wants compensation for being a surrogate

Your body, your choice

Family entitlement: NTA’s body, NTA’s choice

Defending the surrogate’s choice and body autonomy

Demanding surrogacy makes them the biggest a**holes. You’re not selfish.

No obligation to be a surrogate family.

Saying no to a huge ask doesn’t make you selfish

Fed up with obvious NTA posts? Let’s dive into drama!

NTA: No obligation to repay sister’s help, but seducing her husband?

Your body, your choice. Plenty of surrogates out there.
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Not the a**hole. Let’s hear the juicy details!
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Choosing not to be a surrogate for sister, justified

“Body autonomy matters! Your sister is being selfish and entitled. “
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Sister’s selfish demand for your body? Huge NTA!
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NTA. Emotional manipulation and attack for refusing to be surrogate.

Surrogate request: NTA, pregnancy is a huge thing ♀️

NTA. Pregnancy is a big deal.

NTA. A terrible proposition. You’re entitled to say no.

Defending bodily autonomy against a demanding sister

NTA, your body your choice. Anyone who thinks they have a right to insist you should become pregnant for them is nuts. Next time you’re telling off your mom or any other female family members, try asking them to be the surrogate instead! ♀️

Surrogacy is a gift, not a guilt trip.

Empowering choice: Your body, your decision. NTA!

NTA for not being a surrogate. Research requirements and defend yourself

Sisterly love or selfish demand? No one is owed a baby

“Identical or fraternal twin? Genetic dilemma with surrogacy drama! “

Grandfather agrees, aunt is the a**hole for demanding surrogacy

NTA, your body your choice! Consider donating her eggs ♀️

NTA. Sister’s selfish demand for surrogacy, consider doctor’s note.

NTA. Sister’s lack of research leads to surrogate drama

NTA, better to choose a surrogate with childbirth experience.

NTA: Surrogate drama unfolds as sister demands baby, feelings hurt

NTA. Sister wants a baby? Tell her to pay up

NTA- Sister is being selfish, family should volunteer instead

NTA: Adoption or fostering kids offers alternative paths to parenthood
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Recovering from ED, NTA for not wanting to be pregnant

Empowering choice! NTA for standing up to peer pressure

Family feud: Surrogate drama sparks heated debate

Last Updated on July 24, 2023 by Diply Social Team