Meet our heroine, a 28-year-old woman fiercely protective of her younger sister, ‘Noel’. Noel, 19, has a genetic hormonal disorder that gives her an unusual appearance and some physical disabilities. After a particularly nasty experience with a now ex-boyfriend who made offensive jokes about Noel, our heroine has taken a unique approach to dating. She now quizzes potential partners about their feelings towards her sister and her condition. But is she crossing a line? Let’s dive into her story. ️♀️
A Sister’s Burden

The Unfortunate Encounter

The Breakup

The Sisterly Pact

The Dating Quiz

The Valentine’s Day Fallout

The Accusation

The Self-Doubt

A Protective Sister’s Dilemma: Is She Right or Wrong?
Our heroine, a devoted sister, has found herself in a quandary. After a painful experience with an ex-boyfriend who made offensive remarks about her sister’s condition, she’s taken to quizzing potential partners about their feelings towards her sister. This approach has sparked controversy, with a recent date accusing her of being a ‘miserable a**hole’ for her interrogation. He claimed she was showing a lack of trust in him and reminded her that he was dating her, not her sister. This has left our heroine questioning her actions. Is she being overly protective or is she right to ensure her sister’s well-being? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA for wanting to vet people, but may be too aggressive.

YTA for being overbearing, but NTA for wanting a package deal

“Quiz or Conversation? NTA, but approach it better.”

Gently YTA – Overprotective sister needs to find balance and trust.

“YTA. Instead of a conversation, you choose to berate him.”

Overprotective sibling sets unrealistic expectations for sister’s potential partners

INFO: Overprotective sister quizzes potential dates to protect her sister

YTA’s dating quiz sparks heated debate about sisterly dynamics.

Friends know you best! Let them judge your dating quiz!
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Engaging comment about quizzing potential partners and judging their reaction

“NTA. Asking about transgender stance early on shows sisterly love! “

Mixed opinions on the importance of discussing past experiences with men.

Curious about the interview? Find out if she’s being too aggressive!

Overprotective sister ruins chances of finding love. YTA.

Are you asking the right dating questions? Find out!

NTA: Balancing love and responsibility
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Stand up for your family! NTA
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Importance of communication and setting expectations in dating

YTA. Overprotective sister needs to learn better communication skills

INFO: Approach with caution, not like a grill master

NTA. Protecting your sister and setting boundaries after a bad experience

Being protective of your sister doesn’t mean you’re overbearing

Give a heads up to potential partners about being siblings.

Overprotective sister may be too aggressive and accusatory. YTA.

Engaging caption: Balancing sisterly love and personal happiness

Assuming evil intentions from everyone? YTA, time to reflect
