Imagine having a sister who’s constantly pushed to bond with her step-sisters, but she’s just not feeling it. She escapes to your apartment to get away from the pressure, and then your mom asks you to take in all three girls while she goes on vacation. What would you do? That’s the dilemma a 20-year-old woman faced when her mom wanted to go on a week-long vacation with her husband. She agreed to take in her sister, but not her step-sisters, causing some serious family drama. Let’s dive into the story to see what happened.
A Sister’s Safe Haven
The Vacation Request
Saying No to Step-Sisters ❌
Mom’s Suggestion ️
Accusations of Favoritism
The Truth Comes Out ️
Mom Blames Her Daughter
A Relationship Shouldn’t Be Forced
Vacation Postponed
Step-Dad’s Family Situation
The Step-Sisters’ Mom
Forced Sharing
Step-Sisters’ Behavior
Mom Thinks She Knows Best ♀️
Vacation During a Pandemic?
The Verdict: Sisterly Love or Unfair Favoritism?
So, is this woman wrong for refusing to take in her step-sisters while her mom goes on vacation? She claims she doesn’t know them well enough and that there isn’t enough space in her apartment. Her mom accuses her of favoritism, but she insists that her sister is her own person with her own feelings. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA for refusing to take in step-sisters for a week
NTA. Sister’s autonomy respected, mom and husband TA for lack of planning
NTA. Your house, your rules. Mom’s being manipulative
Marriage doesn’t make a family. NTA for not taking step-sisters.
NTA. Commenter suggests logical alternatives to entitled stepfamily.
No babysitting for free, especially during a pandemic
Commenter questions the logistics of the situation.
Woman refuses to take in step-sisters, defends sisterly bond
NTA. Step-sisters not her responsibility. Suggests alternative arrangements.
Forced relationships aren’t real relationships
Stand your ground! NTA for refusing to house step-sisters
Age and familiarity play a role in relationships. NTA.
Being an awesome big sister and NTA
Adult step-sister refuses to share apartment with strangers
Commenter questions parents’ decision to leave teens during pandemic vacation.
Commenter calls out family for pandemic insensitivity. NTA.
Parenting comes with responsibilities. NTA for refusing babysitting duty.
Short and sweet. You don’t owe anyone childcare. NTA
Trust issues and pandemic vacations fuel NTA comment thread.
No need to sacrifice your plans for entitled family members. #NTA
Stepdad’s responsibility? Commenter questions favoritism in family dynamics.
Setting boundaries with step-sisters. NTA.
No obligation to treat step-siblings same as sister. #NTA ♀️
Don’t be a babysitter for your step-sisters. NTA
Curious why parents vacation during pandemic? Comment section weighs in
Taking in three minors is not a simple houseguest situation
Taking care of step-sisters’ kids: NTA, parents responsible.
Real sister vs. strangers. NTA for favoritism.
Building a relationship with step family is great, but forcing it?
Mom’s a bully, wants to control your household. NTA
Curious about the mother’s whereabouts and pandemic safety concerns
Refusing to take in step-sisters. NTA, too many responsibilities
NTA. Setting boundaries with family is important.
NTA for not taking in step-sisters during pandemic vacation
Setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care. ♀️
NTA. Valid points about family and boundaries.
NTA calls out questionable vacation plans during pandemic
NTA suggests finding another home for step-sisters. Fair or not?
Commenter supports OP’s decision to move out, calls mother r**e
Strangers as step-sisters? NTA for refusing to take them in
Sibling rivalry or justified boundaries? Commenter prioritizes biological sister.
Step-sisters not welcome: NTA explains the potential problems.
Love can’t be forced. Sister not obligated to bond. #NTA
Not her responsibility. Family needs therapy and parenting class.
Commenter questions step-sister responsibility, doubts own maturity.
Step-sisters left without care due to mom’s poor planning. NTA.
User defends woman’s decision to not take in step-sisters.
Refusing to co-parent step-sisters you barely know? NTA
New stepdad, new sisters, but not my responsibility. NTA
Step-sisters don’t want to stay, commenter says NTA ✌️
Daily check-ins instead of step-sisters at home? NTA.
Step-sisters aren’t sisters. NTA for refusing to babysit.
Taking in sister, not step-sisters. NTA, husband’s family?
Commenter questions vacation during pandemic, supports OP’s decision.
Blending families takes time and can’t be forced. #NTA
Sibling support shines through in step-sister drama ❤️
Choosing family doesn’t always mean blood. NTA
Step-sisters are not my responsibility, NTA
Spoiling mother figure creates unrealistic expectations, NTA.
Offering a way out from ridiculous family. NTA
No kids, no problem! Work for your vacation
Stand by your sister, NTA
Taking in step-sisters for vacation? Not her responsibility.
Standing up to family favoritism with a resounding NTA
Encouraging independence and escape from toxic favoritism
Set boundaries with your irresponsible mother and step-family.
Setting boundaries and protecting yourself during a pandemic
Step-siblings get away with anything, NTA for not taking them in
NTA. Your house, your right to say no. ♀️
Financial independence may lead to sister’s estrangement. #NTA
NTA. Refusing to babysit step-sisters on vacation. Fair or selfish?
Setting boundaries in a blended family is important
Supportive comment applauds standing up against favoritism
Step-sisters left stranded: NTA suggests alternative caretakers
Last Updated on June 14, 2023 by Diply Social Team