Imagine getting engaged and finding out your soon-to-be sister-in-law posted your precious engagement ring in a ‘ring shaming’ Facebook group for thousands to mock. That’s exactly what happened to one woman, whose fiancé decided to uninvite his sister from their Christmas dinner after the incident. The sister claimed it was ‘all in good fun,’ but the damage was done. The family is now divided, with the mother urging her son to reconsider and not ‘upset the grandparents.’ Let’s dive into this family drama!
The Joyful Proposal

A Shocking Discovery

Caught Red-Handed

Confronting the Sister

‘Just for Laughs’?

Harm Done, Regardless

A Small Gathering

Mother’s Disappointment

Apology Not Enough?

Standing His Ground

The Ring in Question

Sister’s Cruel Comments

A Change of Heart?

Family Torn Apart Over Ring Shaming Incident
After discovering his sister posted his fiancée’s engagement ring in a ‘ring shaming’ Facebook group, one man decided to uninvite her from their Christmas dinner. The sister claims it was all ‘in good fun,’ but the damage has been done. The mother is urging her son to reconsider, fearing the grandparents will be upset if all their grandchildren aren’t present. The ring, a 3.5 round solitaire with a pave band, was mocked by the sister, who called it gaudy and questioned its authenticity. Now, let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Don’t let ‘it’s all in good fun’ be an excuse for bullying

Poster is justified in uninviting sister after ring shaming incident.

NTA comment explains sister’s true intentions and advises OP to handle situation carefully.

Stand your ground and set boundaries. NTA
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NTA calls out sister’s immature behavior and dark humor excuse

Sibling rivalry gets serious: uninvited from Christmas dinner
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Sister’s apology was insincere, commenter calls her a brat
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NTA. Commenter sympathizes with the fiancé and criticizes the sister’s behavior.
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Forgiveness is a process, not an obligation. NTA

Supportive comment, encouraging couple to enjoy Christmas together ❤️
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Supportive comment validates OP’s decision to uninvite sister from dinner

Defending OP’s decision to uninvite sister from Christmas dinner.

Uninviting a sour and unpleasant person from your joyous wedding. #NTA

Stand up to toxic family members. NTA wins the day.

Sister’s malicious intent leads to uninvited Christmas dinner

Posting pictures of others without consent is a bullying move. NTA.
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Defending the OP’s right to be upset about ring shaming.

NTA comment calls out sister’s insincere apology for ring shaming.

Don’t be a ring shamer, it’s trashy. NTA wins!

Curiosity about ring shaming sparks inquiring minds

Joining a ring shaming group on Facebook is never lighthearted
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Cutting toxic family members out of your life is necessary

Ring shaming group is ruthless and meant to be hurtful

Supportive comment defends poster’s actions, calls out sister’s behavior.

Sister gets uninvited from dinner for shaming fiancée’s ring

NTA, sister refuses to take down shaming post, stay strong OP

Sister shames fiancé’s ring, gets uninvited from Christmas dinner. NTA.

Defending fiancé from ring shaming, setting boundaries with family. #NTA

Empathetic comment suggests sharing ring pic to boost confidence

Sister’s attention-seeking behavior backfires, Reddit users criticize her ring-shaming post.

Choosing honesty over tradition during the holidays.

Sister gets uninvited from Christmas dinner for ring shaming fiancee
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Don’t be a Grinch this Christmas, keep the laughs anonymous
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Sassy commenter wants to research the terrible people and ring

Invite sister to Christmas, read post aloud, NTA

When sister-in-law shaming goes too far ♀️

Shaming groups are cruel and often turn into bigotry. NTA.

Suggests inviting mother to Christmas dinner, with a twist

Sister shames fiancé’s ring, uninvited from Christmas dinner. NTA comments.

A ring shaming group? Your sister sounds like TA, NTA OP

NTA for uninviting sister who shamed fiancée’s ring on Facebook

Group rules: shame all rings. NTA for consenting post.

NTA comment sympathizes with the sister and suggests uninviting her.

Sister shames fiancée’s ring, gets uninvited from dinner. NTA.

Defending the fiancée and calling out bullying behavior.

NTA stands up for fiancé, suggests serious consequences for sister’s behavior.

Jealousy or not, publicly shaming a family member’s ring is vile

Curious commenter questions ring shaming group’s income-shaming activities.

Jeweler confirms: never bash someone’s luxury item, taste is subjective.
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“I loathe family members trying to guilt others into sweeping significant insults or abuse under the rug because ‘Oh no! You’ll ruin Christmas!'”
NTA
Sister shames fiancé’s ring on Facebook, gets uninvited from dinner

NTA commenter supports uninviting sister for shaming fiancée’s ring.

Don’t be a Grinch! Being mean has consequences
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NTA comment defends sister’s actions in ring shaming incident.

NTA comment defends fiancé and predicts uninvited wedding guest.

Sister publicly shamed engagement ring, uninvited from Christmas dinner. NTA.

Sis shames fiancé’s ring, gets uninvited from Christmas dinner

Petty revenge suggestion for shamed fiancée’s sister. ️

Standing up for yourself has consequences, but it’s worth it

Stand your ground! NTA. Sister needs a lesson

Ring shaming group is ruthless, NTA for standing up.
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NTA defends fiancée from sister’s cruel ring shaming on Facebook.

NTA defends the sentiment behind rings, calls out ring-shaming group.

Posting someone’s ring and refusing to remove it is bullying

Sister mocks ring online, gets uninvited from Christmas dinner

Sister’s ring shaming post backfires, causing family drama

Supportive comment about toxic online group shaming engagement rings.

Sharing engagement ring photos can lead to unwanted criticism and damage.

NTA calls out sister’s bullying behavior, advises to stand up.

Insult groups have limits, sister crossed the line for likes. NTA

Suggests hosting another Christmas dinner to include sister and grandparents. NTA

Supportive comment condemns materialistic mentality and mean girl behavior.

NTA’s sister shames fiancé’s ring on Facebook, gets uninvited from Christmas dinner
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NTA. Stand your ground and don’t allow toxic behavior.

Savage reply to sister’s shaming, with dark humor. NTA.

Poster sympathizes with OP and suggests revenge with a wink
