Living with a picky eater can be a challenge, but what happens when that person is also your lazy sister? ️ One woman shared her frustrating experience with her 21-year-old sister who not only refuses to learn how to cook but also complains about the food she makes for them. Despite her efforts to accommodate her sister’s taste, things took an ugly turn when she finally snapped and told her sister she could starve if she didn’t want to eat the food she made. Let’s dive into this culinary conflict!
The Picky and Lazy Sister
The Cooking Dilemma
Teaching Attempts
Complaining About the Food ♀️
Veggie Drama
Cooking for Her Taste
Making Food for Myself
Extra Annoying Day
Cooking Together?
The Veggie Incident
Couch and Twitter
Cutting the Veggies Myself
The Food Rejection
The Veggie Size Argument
The Breaking Point
The Starvation Ultimatum ️
Cousin’s Intervention
The Sister’s Past
Therapy and Eating Disorder
Helping Her Try New Things
Healthier Weight ️♀️
Mom’s Enabling and Eating Issues ♀️
Possible Living Arrangements Change
Sister’s Picky Eating Leads to a Culinary Clash
After years of catering to her sister’s picky eating habits, one woman finally reached her breaking point when her sister refused to eat the food she made because the veggies weren’t cut small enough. Despite offering to teach her sister how to cook and making multiple dishes to accommodate her tastes, the woman snapped and told her sister she could starve if she didn’t want to eat the food she made. ️ Now, with their cousin calling her a b**ch and people blaming her for enabling her sister’s behavior, she’s left wondering if she’s in the wrong. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA sister needs to learn to cook for herself
Stop enabling your sister’s picky eating habits. ESH, with a sprinkle of NTA.
Sister refuses to eat uncut food, but is she right? NTA says no, and suggests not enabling her.
Sibling enabling sister’s picky behavior: NTA but an enabler.
NTA. Stop cooking for her. Shop only for yourself. Liberating!
Take charge of your meals and say no to pickiness
Sibling drama in the kitchen : OP enabling sister’s picky behavior.
Stop catering to her, she’s a legal adult. NTA
Commenter calls out the absurdity of a 21-year-old’s behavior
Being picky or practical? Cereal as an alternative, NTA wins.
Enabling or anxiety? Commenter questions sister’s behavior
Sister won’t eat food she didn’t cut . NTA suggests giving up cooking for her.
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21 and can’t feed herself? NTA wins this round
NTA. Have a standard response and cook what you want.
Parenting advice given to ESH comment with empathy
Sister’s entitled behavior leads to drastic measures
Sibling food drama: commenter supports sister’s pickiness. ♀️
Grown a*s adult won’t cut own food #NTA
Sibling entitlement: NTA comment calls for standing up and change.
Sister’s picky eating habits cause conflict with sibling. NTA.
Sister’s food preference sparks debate: autonomy or pickiness?
NTA stands up to entitled sister’s picky behavior.
Sassy reply to a picky eater who refuses to cut food
Commenter suggests treatment for picky eater sister with empathy.
Curious about sister’s situation: student living with commenter, working minimum wage
Lazy sister refuses to cut food, NTA suggests she learns.
Stand up for yourself! Don’t cook for the ungrateful sister. ♀️
Enabling behavior causing stress. ESH. Let her starve.
NTA, let her starve and she’ll learn to cook
Living together causing conflict? NTA suggests moving out.
Commenter shares personal anecdote about punctuality and self-reflection.
Commenter sheds light on sister’s eating disorder, urges professional help.
Is the commenter being too harsh on the poster?
Commenter advises to stop enabling sister’s pickiness and independence.
Standing up for yourself doesn’t come without consequences
Enabler and selfish person living their bliss. Get a hobby
Roommate behaving like a child
Sibling conflict over food choices sparks debate on parenting style.
Sister refuses to cut food and eats, cousin called idiot. NTA.
NTA calls out family member’s warped priorities
NTA comment sparks agreement with frustrated cooks
Sibling drama: Should he stop cooking for his picky sister?
Curiosity about sister’s behavior sparks autism question. Answer: not autistic.
NTA, but sister’s extreme pickiness may be ARFID related
Cooking for a toxic sister? NTA, set boundaries
Cooking for picky sister? Stop being a doormat. #NTA
NTA comment shuts down childish behavior in food dispute
️ ♀️ NTA refuses sister’s pickiness, stops cooking for her.
Commenter calls sister’s behavior childish
Sibling’s sensory issue may be causing pickiness, NTA for suggesting independence.
Commenter suggests sister’s picky eating may be related to mental health.
Commenter supports sister’s independence in humorous way. NTA
Letting sister starve on campus? NTA, but harsh
Sister might have sensory issues, but still being a brat ♀️
Encouraging sister to seek help for food texture disorder. NTA.
Sister’s picky behavior may be linked to an eating disorder. ️
Picky eater calls sister a ‘huge f**king a**hole’, NTA
Curious if sister has special needs for food preparation
Commenter questions sister’s maturity and emotional growth
Commenter has food sensitivity and supports sister’s food choice.
Commenter suggests sister may have autism, offers empathy and advice.
Commenter defends sister’s right to be picky about food.
Don’t be a doormat! NTA stands up for herself
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Caring sister struggles with sibling’s untreated mental health problems
Sister’s pickiness reaches new heights, but solution is simple
Commenter calls out OP for complaining and being the a**hole.
NTA – Blunt but fair judgment on sister’s behavior
Commenter calls out sister’s behavior, questions her maturity
Last Updated on June 5, 2023 by Diply Social Team
