Sister Refuses to Eat Food She Didn’t Cut : Is She Right or Just Plain Picky?

Living with a picky eater can be a challenge, but what happens when that person is also your lazy sister? ️ One woman shared her frustrating experience with her 21-year-old sister who not only refuses to learn how to cook but also complains about the food she makes for them. Despite her efforts to accommodate her sister’s taste, things took an ugly turn when she finally snapped and told her sister she could starve if she didn’t want to eat the food she made. Let’s dive into this culinary conflict!

The Picky and Lazy Sister

The Cooking Dilemma

Teaching Attempts

Complaining About the Food ‍♀️

Veggie Drama

Cooking for Her Taste

Making Food for Myself

Extra Annoying Day

Cooking Together?

The Veggie Incident

Couch and Twitter

Cutting the Veggies Myself

The Food Rejection

The Veggie Size Argument

The Breaking Point

The Starvation Ultimatum ️

Cousin’s Intervention

The Sister’s Past

Therapy and Eating Disorder

Helping Her Try New Things

Healthier Weight ️‍♀️

Mom’s Enabling and Eating Issues ‍♀️

Possible Living Arrangements Change

Sister’s Picky Eating Leads to a Culinary Clash

After years of catering to her sister’s picky eating habits, one woman finally reached her breaking point when her sister refused to eat the food she made because the veggies weren’t cut small enough. Despite offering to teach her sister how to cook and making multiple dishes to accommodate her tastes, the woman snapped and told her sister she could starve if she didn’t want to eat the food she made. ️ Now, with their cousin calling her a b**ch and people blaming her for enabling her sister’s behavior, she’s left wondering if she’s in the wrong. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA sister needs to learn to cook for herself ‍

Stop enabling your sister’s picky eating habits. ESH, with a sprinkle of NTA.

Sister refuses to eat uncut food, but is she right? NTA says no, and suggests not enabling her.

Sibling enabling sister’s picky behavior: NTA but an enabler.

NTA. Stop cooking for her. Shop only for yourself. Liberating!

Take charge of your meals and say no to pickiness

Sibling drama in the kitchen : OP enabling sister’s picky behavior.

Stop catering to her, she’s a legal adult. NTA

Commenter calls out the absurdity of a 21-year-old’s behavior

Being picky or practical? Cereal as an alternative, NTA wins.

Enabling or anxiety? Commenter questions sister’s behavior

Sister won’t eat food she didn’t cut . NTA suggests giving up cooking for her.

21 and can’t feed herself? NTA wins this round

NTA. Have a standard response and cook what you want.

Parenting advice given to ESH comment with empathy

Sister’s entitled behavior leads to drastic measures

Sibling food drama: commenter supports sister’s pickiness. ‍♀️

Grown ass adult won’t cut own food #NTA

Sibling entitlement: NTA comment calls for standing up and change.

Sister’s picky eating habits cause conflict with sibling. NTA.

Sister’s food preference sparks debate: autonomy or pickiness?

NTA stands up to entitled sister’s picky behavior.

Sassy reply to a picky eater who refuses to cut food

Commenter suggests treatment for picky eater sister with empathy.

Curious about sister’s situation: student living with commenter, working minimum wage

Lazy sister refuses to cut food, NTA suggests she learns.

Stand up for yourself! Don’t cook for the ungrateful sister. ‍♀️

Enabling behavior causing stress. ESH. Let her starve.

NTA, let her starve and she’ll learn to cook

Living together causing conflict? NTA suggests moving out.

Commenter shares personal anecdote about punctuality and self-reflection.

Commenter sheds light on sister’s eating disorder, urges professional help.

Is the commenter being too harsh on the poster?

Commenter advises to stop enabling sister’s pickiness and independence.

Standing up for yourself doesn’t come without consequences

Enabler and selfish person living their bliss. Get a hobby

Roommate behaving like a child

Sibling conflict over food choices sparks debate on parenting style.

Sister refuses to cut food and eats, cousin called idiot. NTA.

NTA calls out family member’s warped priorities

NTA comment sparks agreement with frustrated cooks

Sibling drama: Should he stop cooking for his picky sister?

Curiosity about sister’s behavior sparks autism question. Answer: not autistic.

NTA, but sister’s extreme pickiness may be ARFID related

Cooking for a toxic sister? NTA, set boundaries

Cooking for picky sister? Stop being a doormat. #NTA

NTA comment shuts down childish behavior in food dispute

️ ‍♀️ NTA refuses sister’s pickiness, stops cooking for her.

Commenter calls sister’s behavior childish

Sibling’s sensory issue may be causing pickiness, NTA for suggesting independence.

Commenter suggests sister’s picky eating may be related to mental health.

Commenter supports sister’s independence in humorous way. NTA

Letting sister starve on campus? NTA, but harsh

Sister might have sensory issues, but still being a brat ‍♀️

Encouraging sister to seek help for food texture disorder. NTA.

Sister’s picky behavior may be linked to an eating disorder. ️

Picky eater calls sister a ‘huge f**king a**hole’, NTA

Curious if sister has special needs for food preparation

Commenter questions sister’s maturity and emotional growth

Commenter has food sensitivity and supports sister’s food choice.

Commenter suggests sister may have autism, offers empathy and advice.

Commenter defends sister’s right to be picky about food.

Don’t be a doormat! NTA stands up for herself

Caring sister struggles with sibling’s untreated mental health problems

Sister’s pickiness reaches new heights, but solution is simple

Commenter calls out OP for complaining and being the a**hole.

NTA – Blunt but fair judgment on sister’s behavior

Commenter calls out sister’s behavior, questions her maturity