Picture this: you’re in a loving relationship, and everything seems to be going well. You’ve met your partner’s family, and they’ve met you too. Everyone gets along, except for one person – your partner’s sister, Jess. She’s been a thorn in your side since day one, but you’ve tried your best to make peace. So when she offers to house-sit during your 3-day trip, you hesitantly agree. But what happens when you return to find your apartment in shambles?
The Strained Relationship

Trying to Make Peace ️

A Glimmer of Hope? ✨

The House-Sitting Offer

Hesitation and Assurance

The Unanswered Calls

The Shocking Discovery

Apartment in Ruins ️

Jess’ Apology and Excuse

Demanding Reimbursement

Tears and Accusations

Family Members Chime In ️

Standing Firm

Apartment Trashed, But Who’s Really to Blame?
After returning from a trip to find their apartment in ruins, our protagonist holds Jess, the boyfriend’s sister, responsible for the damages. Despite her tears and accusations, our protagonist stands firm, demanding reimbursement. But now, family members are flooding in with messages, accusing our protagonist of being too harsh and unforgiving. Will our protagonist stand their ground, or will they give in to the pressure? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation… ️
NTA suggests taking pictures for evidence, receives support from commenters.

NTA, forgiveness is not release from consequences. Reimbursement is reasonable.

Flying monkeys and a guilty sister-in-law. NTA wins.

Reimbursement doesn’t equal forgiveness. Sister-in-law broke OP’s trust

Take pictures! It’s important for future reference and insurance.

Take dozens of photos and videos, send them to family members.

Commenter and reply agree: sister-in-law is sabotaging OP’s relationship.

Concerns for dogs’ safety overshadow NTA’s apartment predicament

NTA sets consequences for sister-in-law’s reckless behavior

College kids wreck apartment, but sister-in-law blames OP. NTA

BF needs to handle his sister’s disrespectful behavior.

Jess wrecks apartment, but who pays? NTA suggests consequences.

No doubt about it, you’re NTA

Sister-in-law wrecks apartment, NTA for holding her accountable.

Take pictures as proof in case of escalation. NTA

Forgiveness with consequences and memory is key. #NTA

Friend overstepped boundaries, relationship with brat is beyond repair.

Hold her accountable! NTA comment calls for responsibility

NTA stands up to destructive sister-in-law’s emotional blackmail

Commenter defends OP against sister-in-law’s blame-shifting.

Stand your ground! NTA won’t budge on consequences.

NTA stands up to destructive sister-in-law’s emotional blackmail

NTA stands their ground against destructive sister-in-law.

NTA. Sister-in-law trashes apartment, should clean and pay for damages.

Don’t trust her a** for a second! Hold her responsible

Fight back! Take her to small claims court! #NTA

Sister-in-law trashes apartment, commenter advises getting a job to make amends.

Commenter suggests taking responsibility for family’s actions to avoid blame.

NTA stands up for themselves against hypocritical commenters

Breaking it means buying it. Avoid toxic relationships.

Hold her friends accountable for the damage

Experienced emotional terrorist wrecks apartment, NTA for calling cops.

Get the full story from family members before judging.

Boyfriend needs to take responsibility and confront his sister.

Jesse’s age questioned, but it’s revealed she’s 19

NTA, but where’s the wine and cake?

Commenter suggests cleaning option, but agrees on responsibility.

Don’t forgive too easily, put them in your shoes #NTA

Don’t forgive and forget, send pics and stand your ground!

Protect yourself and your property. NTA wins this round.

NTA but grow a spine. Send pics of damage.

Clear-cut case of NTA, sister-in-law responsible for damages

Demand reimbursement from family to see their true opinion.

Defending sister-in-law’s mess? Here’s a picture for you.

Change the locks and set a compromise with SO

Stand your ground and make them pay for the damages!

20-year-old sister-in-law wrecks apartment, intentional or not?
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Take pictures as proof! NTA needs to reply with evidence.

NTA for not letting sister-in-law get away with party damage

Forgiveness ≠ Financial Responsibility. NTA sets boundaries.
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Take photos to show family the damage caused by sister-in-law.

Commenter warns of potential theft after rowdy apartment wrecking.

Demanding reimbursement for damages after sister-in-law wrecks apartment.

Taking responsibility is key. Don’t let others off the hook

Document the damage, tough lesson for sister-in-law to learn.

Respect for others’ belongings is common decency

Documenting the damage: NTA takes precautions against gaslighting

Solid advice for any renter dealing with damages!

Commenter gets mixed verdict for punctuation and reaction.

Sister-in-law’s apartment party disaster: NTA demands payment

Taking responsibility for inviting guests doesn’t excuse property damage.
