Imagine opening your home to your husband’s sister and her three kids after she’s been in an accident, only to face constant complaints about your cooking. That’s exactly what happened to one woman who tried her best to accommodate her sister-in-law’s preferences and her own children’s allergies. But when the sister-in-law started ordering takeout behind her back, causing food to go to waste, the host decided enough was enough. ♀️ Let’s dive into this drama-filled story and see if our protagonist was justified in her actions.
Sister-in-law moves in after accident

Meal planning struggles

Complaints and wasted food ️

Confrontation and apology ️

Birthday dinner drama

Host puts her foot down

Out of money, sister-in-law asks for help

Accusations and arguments

Standing her ground

Parents step in with money transfer

Sister-in-law’s verdict

Was she wrong to refuse cooking for her sister-in-law? ♀️
After weeks of trying to accommodate her sister-in-law’s preferences and dealing with wasted food due to last-minute takeout orders, our protagonist had enough. She refused to cook for her sister-in-law after she ran out of money, leading to a heated argument. ️ Now, with her sister-in-law and parents accusing her of being a bad host, she’s left wondering if she’s in the wrong. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation… ️♀️
SIL insults OP’s cooking, complains to parents, and orders takeout

SIL insults host’s cooking, orders takeout behind their back

NTA sets timeline for sister-in-law, reply suggests sending her away ♀️

NTA: Ungrateful sister-in-law complains about free meals and lodging ️

NTA: Let her husband cook for once! ️
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NTA. Stand up for yourself and kick her out!

NTA: Sister-in-law’s entitled behavior and disrespect is unacceptable
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NTA. Impressive feat of awful behavior by sister-in-law

NTA and YAY for being assertive! Bravo!

“Great, so shall I tell SIL you’ll be expecting her at 6?”

Transfer her ungrateful a** to the in-laws and call it a day NTA

NTA for not wasting food, but why let it go to waste?

NTA. Sister-in-law’s entitled behavior and insults are unacceptable
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NTA: Set a deadline for her to leave

“NTA. In-laws should’ve taken SIL in, not expected you to.”

SIL demands home-cooked meals, orders takeout behind host’s back ️

ESH. Kids going hungry out of spite? Unbelievable entitlement! ️

NTA: Sister-in-law disrespectfully orders takeout after promising not to ️
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NTA. Sister-in-law insults host; disability no excuse for rudeness.

“NTA. Family needs to shut up and realize you’re not the host. Beggars can’t be choosers!”

NTA for cutting her out, but don’t neglect the kids

NTA, don’t cook for her but feed the innocent kids

Nah, she’s the a**hole!

NTA, ship her to her parents ️

NTA. Sister-in-law is a mooch and you’re a sucker for not setting boundaries.

NTA: Sister-in-law is not an invited guest, but a charity case
