Sister Expects College Student to Drop Everything for Her Baby

Imagine being a college student, trying to balance school and work during a pandemic, only to have your sister expect you to drop everything to take care of her baby. That’s exactly what happened to one young woman who recently moved back in with her mom. As she tries to get her life back on track, her pregnant sister drops a bombshell, expecting her to become a full-time babysitter. Let’s dive into this family drama and see how it all unfolds.

The Unexpected Pregnancy

College Student’s Struggles

Renovations and Demands

Sister’s Expectations

Accusations of Selfishness

Financial Struggles

Sister’s Suggestion

Update: Job Hunt

Interviews Lined Up

Future Plans

Standing Her Ground

In the midst of this family drama, our college student remains firm on her plans to continue her education and work towards her goals. Despite her sister’s accusations of selfishness, she’s determined to find a balance between helping her family and pursuing her dreams. With the support of her granddad, she’s making progress in her job hunt and is hopeful to move out soon. But what do people think about this sticky situation? Let’s check out some top responses…

Don’t sacrifice your life for someone else’s baby

NTA. Set boundaries with your sister and prioritize your education

NTA. Commenter questions baby’s father and expenses, suggests independence.

NTA for not sacrificing your job to watch her baby

NTA suggests child care assistance program for entitled sister

Prioritizing education over sister’s baby doesn’t make you an a**hole

No obligation to drop everything for her baby. NTA

NTA stands firm against sister’s lack of planning

Sister expects too much, commenter advises to get out ASAP

College student refuses to drop school for sister’s baby

Sibling expects student to prioritize her baby over education

Supportive comment encourages OP to prioritize education and career goals.

Sister expects free babysitting, clever solution proposed by commenter

Sister demands help with baby, commenter suggests legal options. NTA

Valid point. Where is the dad in all this?

Sister accuses college student of being selfish for living life

No obligation to put life on hold for sister’s demands

NTA stands up for boundaries with a baby-crazy sister

Sibling boundaries and safe sex advice in one comment

Choosing to have a baby doesn’t mean others must cater.

Being forced to be a third parent? NTA!

NTA. ‘My body, my choice’ also means ‘my consequences’

Sister wants college student to be live-in babysitter, NTA

Don’t let your sister’s poor choices ruin your future

Don’t let your sister’s poor planning become your problem

Don’t sacrifice your future for your sister’s convenience. #NTA

Don’t let your sister’s immaturity ruin your future plans

Setting boundaries with family is important for your own wellbeing

Sister expects college student to babysit for free

Having a baby is your responsibility, not anyone else’s.

NTA stands up for herself and refuses to be a babysitter

User calls out sister for expecting too much. NTA.

Set boundaries or move out to avoid being stuck with baby

Don’t sacrifice your education for your sister’s unplanned baby

Don’t let her guilt-trip you into sacrificing your future

No sympathy for entitled sister expecting free childcare

Setting boundaries with family over childcare responsibilities.

College student refuses to drop out for sister’s baby, NTA

Don’t change your life around to adjust to someone else’s

Prioritize school and limit time at home to avoid conflict

Sister expects too much from college student. Not your problem.

Suggests community college and grants for sister’s financial struggles

OP’s sister expects them to be a free babysitter. NTA.

Education over babysitting. NTA for prioritizing your future

NTA. Don’t sacrifice your future for your sister’s poor planning

NTA for not dropping everything for sister’s baby. Where’s father?

Supportive response to sister’s unreasonable request.

Sister expects too much from college student. NTA for prioritizing.

Don’t have a kid if you can’t take care of them

User suggests adoption/abortion, not sister’s responsibility

Don’t let them saddle you with childcare NTA

Set boundaries with sister and let father take responsibility. NTA

NTA for not dropping everything for sister’s baby. Where’s father?

Don’t let anyone guilt you into sacrificing your future

No baby duty for you! NTA, sis needs to step up

NTA. OP’s sister expects too much and needs a reality check

NTA commenter advises to run from sister’s entitled behavior

Don’t let your sister guilt-trip you into taking care of her baby. NTA

NTA: Blunt comment on parenting in half-assed environments

Encouraging response to NTA comment, advising to prioritize own life

College student not responsible for sister’s baby. NTA

Single mom suggests state help for entitled sister’s childcare demands

Father needs to step up and pay child support. NTA.

Sister expects college student to drop everything for her baby . Commenter says it’s not her responsibility.

Refusing to babysit, NTA shuts down entitled sister and mom

NTA. Commenter suggests better sex education and contraceptive access.

Sister wants college student to drop everything for her baby. NTA suggests short training programs and apprenticeships.

Set boundaries and run. Don’t let anyone take advantage.

Choosing a baby doesn’t mean sister can force responsibility. NTA

Setting boundaries with family about childcare.

Sister expects student to drop college for her baby. NTA sets her straight.

NTA. It’s not your responsibility to take care of her baby