Imagine planning a long-awaited family visit to your hometown, only to find out that your sister has booked a romantic getaway with her boyfriend during your stay. And to top it off, she expects you to babysit her three kids while she’s away! That’s exactly what happened to our protagonist, who is now left wondering if she’s in the wrong for refusing to babysit. Let’s dive into the story and see what led to this family drama.
The Family Visit Plan

Sister’s Surprise Getaway ️

The Babysitting Assumption

Hotel Confusion

The Babysitting Reveal

Six Kids, Two Nights

Reasons for Refusal

Husband’s Burden

Family Visit, Not Babysitting ♀️

Painful Timing

Sister’s Relationship Status

Discipline Issues

Babysitting Battle: Who’s in the Wrong?
So, our protagonist is faced with a dilemma: should she give in to her sister’s demands and babysit her three kids during their family visit, or stand her ground and refuse? With her disability and the fact that they’re visiting to spend time with family, not to babysit, it’s easy to see why she’s frustrated. And let’s not forget that her sister’s kids aren’t exactly angels. What do you think? Is our protagonist justified in saying no, or should she help her sister out? Let’s see what people have to say about this sticky situation…
Sister demands babysitting, but OP not the a**hole. Cancel trip?

Sister demands babysitting during family visit, commenter suggests nuclear option
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Vacation is for relaxing, not babysitting. NTA

Sister demands free babysitting, but OP stands up for themselves.

Avoiding sister like the plague

NTA commenter expresses concern for children’s safety and parenting choices.

Sibling entitlement at its finest. NTA and set boundaries

Asserting boundaries and saying no is not being an a**hole

Sister demands babysitting, commenter says stick to decision.

Sister demands babysitting, commenter says no is a complete sentence.

NTA. Babysitting 6 kids for 2 days is asking too much

Cancel plans and travel elsewhere with family
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Stand your ground and don’t let her bully you

Sister planned trip around OP’s visit, demands free babysitting. NTA.

400 mile visit for family, not babysitting. Shut down nonsense!

Suggests changing hotel to avoid unwanted babysitting,

Sister demands babysitting for 6 kids, including special needs child

Impressed by sister’s audacity, commenter supports OP’s decision.

Setting boundaries with family. NTA stands firm with sister.

Sister demands babysitting without asking, commenter says NTA

Polite and firm response to entitled sister’s babysitting demand.

Vacation or babysitting? Not the a-hole for wanting relaxation.

Stand your ground and protect your boundaries.

Sassy NTA comment calls out sister’s ridiculous request and sketchy boyfriend.
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User hilariously reacts to sister’s audacity, advises OP to stand firm. NTA

Don’t apologize for setting boundaries, NTA!

Impressive audacity assumed babysitting plans. Hard ‘NO’ required.

Sister assumes disabled sibling will babysit. NTA sets boundaries.

NTA calls out entitled sister’s questionable decision-making skills.

NTA. Demanding babysitting during family visit? No way

Sister demands babysitting, but commenters think she’s entitled
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NTA for refusing to babysit during a family visit

No justification needed for saying no to unreasonable demands

Sister demands babysitting, commenter says she sucks as sister

Politely declining family favors, NTA

Sister prioritizes new boyfriend over family time. Commenter NTA.

Sibling drama! NTA stands up to entitled sister

Uncle Stranger and Aunt I-Don’t-Know-Her vs Don’t-Like-Him, Don’t-Want-Her-Here, and I-Hate-Babies! #Trainwreck

Sister demands babysitting but commenter advises to set boundaries

Setting boundaries without being TA, according to commenter

Sister demands free babysitting without asking, NTA stands up.

Setting boundaries with family is important. NTA for saying no

Sister demands free babysitting, commenter says she’s a**hole

Sassy response to sister’s presumptive babysitting request.

Sister demands babysitting, but NTA says ‘No is a complete sentence’

Don’t let her dictate, set boundaries. You’re NTA

NTA, visiting family doesn’t mean free babysitting

Unwilling babysitter stands up to entitled sister.

Stand your ground and threaten to call CPS. NTA

Don’t enable entitled behavior. Stand your ground.

Sister demands babysitting, commenter advises firm no and boundaries.

Stand your ground and don’t let your entitled sister manipulate you

Sister assumed babysitting for 2 nights without asking?! NTA
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Avoid babysitting drama by changing hotels without telling sister

Vacation is for relaxation, not babysitting. Set boundaries. NTA

Setting boundaries is not being an a**hole

Set boundaries with family without being the a**hole

NTA. Setting boundaries and protecting your vacation.

NTA all day, every day, 24/7. Enjoy your drama-free vacation

Setting boundaries with family can be tough

Sibling demands babysitting, commenter calls out pretentiousness.

Family members booking vacation during your visit? NTA for refusing babysitting.

Setting boundaries with family about babysitting

Standing up to entitled family members

Sister demands free babysitting during family vacation. Not cool.

Suggests avoiding entitled sister during family visit

Sister demands babysitting without asking. NTA stands up.

Sister demands babysitting during family visit. Commenter says NTA

Delay visit to avoid drama, offer to take kids briefly

Sibling demands babysitting, commenter says NTA for refusing.
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Driving 400 miles just to babysit? NTA, sister is a user
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Sister demands free babysitting during family visit, commenter advises cancelling.
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Vacation is for you, not babysitting your sister’s kids. NTA

Standing up to toxic family members is important for self-care

Sister demands babysitting, doesn’t even ask. NTA confirmed

Don’t let your sister take advantage of you!

OP is NTA for not wanting to babysit. Sister is TA for assuming and being disrespectful
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Supportive commenters sympathize with OP’s terrible sister situation
