Losing a job is never easy, but imagine being called a parasite by your own sister during such a tough time! A 23-year-old woman recently lost her job due to catching COVID-19 and has been staying with her mom, as is customary in their culture. While her mom is understanding, her older sister has been making snide remarks and giving judgmental looks. The tension between the sisters finally exploded over a seemingly trivial matter, leaving the younger sister feeling hurt and betrayed. Let’s dive into the story…
Job Loss and Family Dynamics

Feeling the Pressure

The Hairbrush Incident

The Parasite Comment

Emotional Aftermath

Taking a Stand

Refusing to Give In

Sister’s True Colors?

Mom’s Perspective

Job Loss Timeline ⏳

Cultural Context

Sisterly Bond on the Brink?
The younger sister, already feeling down about her job loss, is now grappling with her older sister’s hurtful words and actions. Despite her mom’s pleas to not let this incident break their bond, the younger sister is standing her ground and refuses to accept anything from her sister. She even plans to pay back every penny spent on her once she’s working again. Will their relationship ever recover, or is this the breaking point? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Standing up to financial abuse and gaslighting

Believe people when they show you who they are. NTA

NTA, sister’s ‘joke’ was a low blow. Ask for genuine apology.

Sister calls her a parasite for not cleaning hairbrush. NTA.

No bond? No problem. Family drama ensues. NTA wins.

Stand your ground and don’t give in to disrespectful behavior.

Calling someone a parasite isn’t a joke

Refusing help restores balance of power. NTA
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Sister calls her a parasite, but commenters say NTA
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No apology from sister, just gaslighting and invalidation. ♀️

Standing up for oneself against family toxicity.

Don’t pay her back It’s a waste of money.

Supportive comment and advice for OP’s financial situation

Encouraging comment supports OP’s decision to leave toxic family

Agreeing with NTA comment, someone suggests revenge with humor

Moving out is a positive move . Sister owes apology .

Demanding a genuine apology from family member ♀️

Sibling support! NTA comment gets backing

Debt drama: To pay or not to pay?

Don’t let anyone bring you down. You’re NTA

Defending against family insults with grace and kindness.

Fight back against unfair termination for COVID quarantine

Savage reply ignites fiery exchange between siblings

NTA sister called her a parasite, commenter advises enforcing boundaries.

Commenter is in the clear, drama ensues

Calculated insult sparks family drama, NTA deserves apology

Empathetic reply offers support and asks about labor laws.

Sibling drama: NTA called a parasite, but would help again ♀️
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Commenter defends against family drama with witty comeback.

Commenter gets sympathy for COVID, praise for pettiness

NTA comment receives no replies, but stands alone as victorious

Encouraging response to NTA comment

When a joke goes wrong, a decent person apologizes.
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Cut out toxic family members. You’re NTA.

Family bond broken, but commenter not at fault. NTA

Financial abuse? NTA should cut off controlling sister

Sister’s abusive behavior sparks support for NTA commenter
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Empathetic comment offers advice for family drama

Defending against family toxicity. NTA for setting boundaries.

Mother should defend you, not let sister insult and damage bond

Supportive comment encourages cutting off toxic family member.

Encouraging words for OP to stand up to mean sister

Supportive comment suggests talking to family about hurtful situation

Agreement and validation for NTA comment

Sister’s victim-blaming sparks family drama, commenter advises not paying back

Stand up for yourself. You’re not a parasite

Stand up to verbal abuse from family. NTA
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Standing up to family toxicity with a clear conscience

Sister calls her a parasite, but she’s the one projecting

NTA. Toxic sister, mom should rein her in

Stand up for yourself and call out toxic behavior!

User suggests taking advantage of sister’s generosity, sparks debate

Supportive comment acknowledges sister’s bad behavior.

Defending against bullies with humor, NTA

Sibling teasing gone too far? NTA comment sparks agreement

Supportive comment receives no replies. OP is not the a**hole.

Sister’s ‘joke’ insults spark family drama, commenter advises moving out.

Encouraging reply suggests temp agencies for job search. Sister criticized.

NTA! Shutting down bullies is always the right move.

Sibling rivalry and parental favoritism fuel family drama

Empathetic NTA comment offers support and advice for sister’s situation

Standing up for oneself against unfair shaming

Breaking the bond of abuse with family can be liberating

Sibling support and family drama over childish behavior

Standing up against verbal abuse from family, NTA

NTA stands up to sister’s bullying, takes back power

No bond, no problem. NTA prevails.

Cutting ties with toxic family member

NTA! Sister needs to grow up and move out

Breaking bonds: NTA comment ends family drama.

Sister insults and hides behind ‘just a joke’ excuse. NTA.

Standing up against cruelty and finding a fresh start

NTA and sister is using this to torture you

Choose love and respect over toxic family relationships. ❤️

Sister insults and shames, commenter advises holding her accountable. NTA

Stand your ground! NTA, sister needs to apologize.

Sibling bullying? Not cool
