Family drama alert! A woman recently shared her frustration after her sister bought her 14-year-old daughter a food scale. The daughter, who’s a bit chubby like her mother, has been unhappy with her body for a while. The concerned mother is trying to teach her daughter to love herself for who she is, but her sister seems to have other plans. Let’s dive into this story and find out what happened.
Family Background: Not Naturally Thin ️♀️

Sister’s Struggle to Stay Slim

Daughter’s Body Image Issues

Seeking Aunt’s Advice

Exercising and Food Complaints ♀️

The Food Scale Gift

Aunt’s Justification ️

Confronting the Sister

Sister’s Counter-Argument

Taking It to Facebook

The Fallout

Clarification: Not Obese

Healthy Activities ♀️

A Battle of Perspectives: Self-Love vs. Weight Loss
So, here’s the situation: A mother is trying to teach her daughter self-love and acceptance, while her sister pushes for a healthier lifestyle and weight loss. The gift of a food scale has ignited a fiery debate between the two sisters, with the mother accusing the aunt of promoting body shaming. The internet is divided on who’s in the right. Let’s see what people have to say about this controversial situation…
OP is called out for unhealthy habits and unsupportive behavior. YTA.
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Mother criticized for body shaming daughter trying to improve health. YTA

Comment section debates what it means to be healthy.

Debate over weight loss and body shaming, with accusations of bitterness

YTA for not supporting daughter’s healthy lifestyle. Scale gift controversial.

Supportive comments defend daughter’s healthy weight loss goals against negative mother.
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Commenter calls out parent for body shaming daughter, suggests sister’s help.

Parent’s harmful habits leading to potential eating disorder in daughter.

Parent criticized for body shaming daughter by commenters. YTA.

Breaking the cycle of unhealthy habits is important.

Commenter calls out potential troll and gets agreement in replies

Commenter calls out parent’s harmful behavior towards child’s health.

Mom criticized for shaming sister’s gift of food scale

Commenter accuses parent of pushing unhealthy lifestyle on daughter.

Commenter shares personal experience and calls out OP for unhealthy lifestyle.
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Daughter asked for a food scale, YTA for projecting insecurities

Let her try veggies! YTA for forcing your lifestyle on her

Commenter calls out OP for discouraging daughter’s healthy lifestyle

Commenter body shames and calls out unhealthy habits.

Commenter calls out OP for unhealthy diet and exercise habits.

Commenter calls out OP for justifying poor eating habits

Harsh judgment from commenter, no replies yet.

Daughter seeks help, mom posts on Facebook. YTA in denial. ♀️

Commenter defends daughter’s food scale while advocating for veggies

Body acceptance advocate calls out OP for shaming niece.

Commenter calls out parent for unhealthy habits and parenting. Yikes.

Commenter calls out OP for being oblivious to their behavior.

Teaching healthy eating habits or body shaming? YTA receives backlash.

Sister sends food scale to help niece be healthier, mom outraged

Commenter calls out OP for not supporting daughter’s health journey

Commenter accuses OP of promoting unhealthy lifestyle.

Promoting healthy lifestyle or body shaming? YTA receives backlash.

Controversial comment promotes food scale for portion control

Commenter calls out OP for ‘crabs in a bucket’ mentality.
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Parent criticized for not providing healthy meals for child.

Parent criticized for not feeding vegetables to their child.

Commenter disapproves of naturally chubby niece and lack of veggies

Skeptical comment calls for healthy eating in sarcastic tone.

Support your daughter’s healthy habits. Let her have the food scale.

Engaging in healthy habits isn’t a lack of self-love

A comment calling out unhealthy eating habits and encouraging change.

One-word verdict: Yikes.

Support your daughter’s healthy habits, don’t shame her aunt.

Commenter accuses OP of jealousy and body shaming daughter. YTA.

Commenter suggests hiring a dietician to settle food debate.

Struggling with weight? A food scale can be an awesome tool

Controlling and public shaming? YTA for sure

Last Updated on May 8, 2023 by Diply Social Team