We’ve all heard about family drama, but this one takes the cake! A 26-year-old woman was asked by her 19-year-old sister to send her $300 for her 3-year-old daughter’s clothes. The older sister thought it was a bit excessive and decided to send her gift cards instead. What happened next? Let’s dive into the story!
The Sister’s Struggles

Financial Support

The $300 Request

Offering to Shop Together ️

Gift Cards to the Rescue!

No Need for Expensive Clothes

A Simple Wardrobe

Sister’s Reaction

Trust Issues?

Parents’ Opinion

Sister’s Silent Treatment

Gift Cards vs. Cash: Who’s in the Right?
In a whirlwind of family drama, a woman is left wondering if she did the right thing by sending her sister gift cards instead of cash for her niece’s clothes. The sister, who has a history of spending money meant for her daughter on herself, is furious and accuses her of not trusting her. With their parents siding with the gift-giver, the sister has now cut off contact and won’t let her see her niece. What do you think? Was the gift card decision justified? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this situation!
Supportive comment encourages checking up on niece’s well-being.

Gift cards expose sister’s true intentions, NTA wins.

Gift card is a nice gesture, NTA. Ungrateful sister’s problem

Setting a precedent and strict rules lead to gift cards

Gift cards were a perfect solution for the $300 request

Generous response to sister’s manipulative request for money. NTA

Helping addicts: pay rent, buy gift cards, not cash. NTA.

Generous gift met with ungrateful reaction. NTA wins.
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NTA – Parenting rules should be respected. Sister is untrustworthy

NTA shuts down sister’s greediness with a dose of reality

Saving tips for toddler clothes, commenter calls out OP’s sister
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Generous gift or enabling bad behavior? Reddit weighs in.

Gift cards instead of cash for toddler clothes. NTA wins.

Gift cards are a great solution for frivolous spenders

Gratitude vs trust: a delicate balance in family relationships.

Sister wants cash for toddler clothes, but gift cards offered

Gift cards instead of cash for niece’s clothes. NTA wins.

Family member’s request for cash instead of gift cards raises suspicion

Suggests thrift shops for toddler clothes, saves money. NTA.

Targeted gift cards are a better option for struggling families

Sister’s true intentions revealed, NTA suggests gift cards instead of cash

Heartfelt concern for Evie’s well-being amidst unfortunate circumstances.

Gift cards can be sold for cash, paying bills directly better.

Concerned commenter warns of possible drug addiction and neglect.

Sibling agrees NTA, but $100 doesn’t go far for clothes

Gift cards for toddler’s clothes instead of cash? NTA wins!

Generosity met with entitlement. NTA for giving gift cards instead.

Setting boundaries with a young sister who may grow up

Aunt’s sweet gesture backfires, sister called out for being ungrateful

Family drama over $100 gift for niece
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Concerned commenter suggests involving CPS due to sister’s drug addiction
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Gift cards are better than cash for clothes. NTA strategy shared.

Sassy response to entitled sister’s gift card tantrum

Generous gift for toddler’s clothes causes sister’s anger

Gift cards as an alternative to cash? NTA wins!
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Department stores might have been a better option, but NTA

Gift cards are money, save for Evie’s future instead. NTA.

Concerned commenter questions sister’s ability to care for child.

Sister upset she can’t spend gift cards on herself
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Buying clothes for the child would have been a better option
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Gift cards offered instead of cash, sister tries to manipulate. NTA.

Gift cards are a reasonable alternative. NTA for not giving cash.
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Spending $300 on toddler clothes not necessary, alternatives suggested

Suggesting practical gift cards for a toddler’s necessities

Giving gift cards instead of cash to ensure kid benefits

Gift cards given instead of cash due to sister’s poor choices

NTA. Enabling her behavior won’t help. She needs to prioritize necessities

Buying gift cards was a brilliant move to thwart her plan
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Setting boundaries with family’s financial requests using gift cards

Sibling money drama, niece caught in the middle ♀️

Great tip for affordable children’s clothing! #NTA
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Gift cards are a great alternative to cash for clothes

Gift cards not ideal, suggest sending actual clothes instead. NTA.

Trust issues over $300 toddler clothes lead to NTA judgment.

Compassionate approach to helping child of an addict

Gift cards over cash? Commenter calls out sister’s partying habits.

Buying gift cards instead of cash was a great compromise

NTA suggests reporting sister to CPS for misusing child support

Gift cards are a brilliant way to help untrustworthy family

Red flags raised as sister asks for money for toddler’s clothes

Red flags raised when sister uses daughter to manipulate for money

NTA. Sister intended to use money for herself. Good advice given.

Don’t enable her, keep an eye on her for Evie’s sake

NTA. Taking away money management was a good call

NTA. Supportive comment on reasonable house rules and priorities.

Don’t fall for the ‘give me money’ trick . Gift cards are great

Gift cards are perfect for clothes, OP is NTA

Generous sibling buys clothes for nephew, sister wants money instead

User suspects sister is an addict using daughter for money
