Thanksgiving is a time for family to come together, but sometimes, even the smallest things can ignite a family feud. A 27-year-old woman found herself in the middle of a heated argument with her brother over a simple sleeping arrangement. She offered her apartment to her brother and his girlfriend while she stayed with her own significant other, but things took a turn for the worse when her brother refused to sleep in her bed, calling it ‘disgusting’. The drama didn’t end there, as the siblings clashed over an air mattress purchase. So, who’s in the wrong? Let’s dive into the story.
Thanksgiving Plans

The Offer

The Assumption ️

Preparing the Apartment

Brother’s Outrage

The Argument

Couch Troubles

Standing Her Ground

Parents Get Involved ♀️

Brother’s Ultimatum

Seeking Outside Opinions ️

Family’s Uptight Nature

Boyfriend’s Advice ♂️

Friends’ Opinions

The Great Air Mattress Debate: Who’s in the Wrong? ♀️
In a whirlwind of family drama, a woman finds herself at odds with her brother and parents over a sleeping arrangement. After offering her apartment to her brother and his girlfriend, she assumed they would sleep in her queen-sized bed. However, her brother was outraged, calling the offer ‘disgusting’ and opting for the couch instead. When the couch proved impossible to sleep on, he demanded reimbursement for an air mattress. The woman, feeling that her offer was reasonable, refused. Now, with her family and friends siding against her, she’s left wondering if she’s truly in the wrong. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Sibling feud over air mattress and hotel bed cleanliness. NTA wins.

Man refuses to sleep on sibling’s air mattress, gets roasted.

Sibling’s guest demands air mattress, calls OP’s bed dirty. NTA.

Offered apartment, brother still complains about air mattress.

Don’t cave in, you’re NTA. Boyfriend needs to support you

Sibling drama over air mattress ownership. NTA wins.

Sibling feud over air mattress turns petty. NTA prevails.

Siblings refuse to share air mattress, NTA suggests getting hotel

Sibling demands reimbursement for uncomfortable $55 air mattress. NTA

NTA thinks siblings are being unreasonable, reply is sarcastic.
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Clean sheets on the bed, entitled siblings, and enabling parents.

Sibling conflict over air mattress purchase, NTA wins with clever comeback

Sibling drama over air mattress, but NTA and family’s toxic

Sibling rivalry over an air mattress – commenter says NTA

Concerns raised about possible emotional abuse in brother’s relationship

Sibling rivalry over air mattress leads to NTA judgement

Curious commenter questions bed’s weirdness but finds none

Defending OP’s free hospitality, calling out brother’s bad behavior.

Miscommunication leads to air mattress war

Generous sibling offers hospitality, but ungrateful brother causes conflict

Clean sheets, free bed, no problem. NTA wins this round.

NTA comment calls out weird family, reply makes joke.

Curiosity leads to a bizarre and uncomfortable revelation

Offered a place to stay, changed sheets, NTA. No reimbursement.

Paying back for an air mattress – enabling or fair?

Generous sibling lends apartment, gets criticized for used air mattress

Sibling rivalry over air mattress leads to ungrateful demands. NTA.

Sibling conflict over air mattress usage, gaslighting and NTA verdict

Sharing an air mattress vs sharing other personal items.

Sibling stays over, doesn’t pay bills. NTA, send the bill

Let your siblings sleep in your bed? NTA says commenter

Brother finds sister’s air mattress disgusting, expects luxury hotel treatment.

NTA thinks the siblings are too uptight

Sibling drama over air mattress leads to insulting and shameful behavior. #NTA

Commenter defends NTA against snobby, entitled siblings.

Sibling drama over air mattress, but NTA wins this round

Fresh sheets provided. Brother’s hotel habits questioned. NTA wins.

Generous offer turned r**e assumption. NTA wins this round.

Battling siblings over air mattress sparks heated discussion.

Sibling drama over air mattress, commenter says NTA and suggests blow-up bed
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NTA for not providing an air mattress to ungrateful guests

Brother expects free hotel-like stay, sister offers free air mattress. NTA

Sibling drama over air mattress, commenters side with OP.

Offering a bed to family shouldn’t be this complicated

Commenter sympathizes with NTA and insults uptight siblings

Sibling given entire apartment for free, still called NTA

Sibling demands payment for air mattress, commenter says book a hotel ️
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Sharing expenses? Or just sibling rivalry?

A heartwarming NTA comment about sisterly love ❤️

Brother’s imagination is disgusting. You’re not the a**hole.

Brother’s behavior questioned, NTA receives support

Commenter defends OP’s decision, calls siblings insane.

Hotel etiquette 101: Use the provided bed, NTA wins
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Sibling rivalry over air mattress leads to responsibility debate.

Sibling rivalry over air mattress leads to tough love.

Commenter finds sibling’s air mattress dispute ridiculous and suggests hotel.

Brother refuses to sleep on air mattress due to hotel hygiene

A fabulous bed from a strange and awkward family.

Traveling in comfort with an air mattress ️

Brother’s baffling reaction to air mattress purchase. NTA wins!

Curious about the brother’s sleeping arrangements

Sibling’s ungrateful behavior deserves an a**hole tax

NTA suggests a clever way to avoid hosting siblings again.

Sleeping in a “used” bed is normal. NTA

Sibling rivalry over air mattress turns into cleanliness debate.

Last Updated on June 14, 2023 by Diply Social Team