We’ve all had our fair share of dating mishaps, but this one might just take the cake! Imagine inviting a guy you’ve been dating to share a shower, only to find him peeing in it! That’s exactly what happened to our story’s heroine. She was appalled and kicked him out, but now she’s wondering if she was too harsh. Let’s dive into the details of this cringe-worthy tale!
First Sleepover Turns Sour

Surprise in the Shower

Pee Lingers, Disgust Grows

Confrontation Begins

Standing Her Ground ♀️

His Shower Privileges Revoked ❌

Clothes On, Time to Go! ⏰

Peeing Etiquette 101

Toilet Only, Please!

Who Raised Him? ♀️

Kindergarten Teacher Mode Activated

Post-Kickout Texts

Second Thoughts?

Who Does That?!

Shower Pee-er Gets the Boot: Too Much or Justified?
So, our heroine found herself in a truly bizarre situation: her date, whom she invited to share a shower, decided it was the perfect time and place to take a leak! She was understandably disgusted and kicked him out, but now she’s questioning if she was too harsh. After all, he went to work unclean and without breakfast because of her actions. But let’s face it, who thinks it’s okay to pee in someone else’s shower, especially when you’re trying to impress them? We’ve gathered the internet’s top opinions on this cringe-worthy tale, so let’s see what they have to say!
NTA for kicking out shower pee-er on your turf.

Unnecessary drama over a common issue. ESH.

Respect boundaries: NTA stops shower peeing in someone else’s shower.

Shower pee-er gets kicked out, but is it justified?

Debate over shower peeing leads to ESH judgement.

Peeing in someone else’s shower? Definitely not okay!

The real question: can you stop mid-stream?

NTA, kicking him out was just right. Gross and entitled.

ESH for not letting him finish the shower, but peeing is gross

Shower pee-er gets kicked out: A-hole or justified?

Respectful NTA comment on shower peeing etiquette.

YTA – Let him finish showering, he didn’t know better.

NTA for kicking out shower pee-er, but overreacted. Plumbing advice included.

Debate on shower peeing: harmless or unclean? Soft YTA.

Don’t pee in the shower when showering with someone else!

Setting boundaries is important, NTA did the right thing.
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YTA overreacted. Could have communicated instead of throwing tantrum.
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Peeing in the shower: harmless or unacceptable?

NTA. Peeing in the shower on first sleepover is disrespectful.

Don’t be too harsh on the shower pee-er, YTA.

Kicking him out for shower peeing is too harsh. Light YTA.

Shower pee-er gets what he deserves, commenter says.

Pregnancy pee is understandable but not in someone else’s shower.

Peeing in the shower is normal, but not in public areas
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YTA for kicking out shower pee-er without warning.

No shower peeing allowed! Agree or disagree?

Gross behavior leads to the end of a relationship.

YTA for kicking him out for peeing in the shower
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YTA thinks peeing in the shower is reasonable, OP overreacted.

Mom defends shower peeing, points out bodily fluid exposure during sex

NTA! Peeing in the shower is gross and he sounds deranged.
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YTA comment defends shower peeing, no replies.
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Married commenter defends shower peeing, condemns rude guest.

Shower pee-er called out for hygiene issue, YTA verdict given.

To pee or not to pee? The shower debate continues.

Respect boundaries. NTA for being grossed out by shower pee-er.

Peeing in someone else’s shower with them there is wrong

Kicking out a shower pee-er with poor drainage? NTA

NTA for kicking out shower pee-er, gross and disrespectful behavior.

Shower pee-er called YTA for being kicked out mid-shower

Landlord is the a**hole. Majority pee in shower. NTA.

Peeing in a girl’s shower on a date? NTA disagrees.

NTA! Gross behavior and good riddance after just 2 dates.

Peeing in the shower: gross or acceptable?

Peeing in the shower is normal, but not in front of dates. NTA

Shower pee-er gets called out for being inappropriate

Hygiene-conscious commenter shares shower routine, disapproves of shower peeing.

Replacing a shower pee-er with manners: NTA wins.

Peeing in the shower: NTA says it’s their house, common practice.

No shower peeing, especially not in someone else’s house. NTA.

No peeing in the guest shower, NTA did the right thing.

Respect boundaries, respect house rules. NTA made the right call.

Peeing in someone else’s shower: acceptable or not?

NTA. Guest pees in shower, argues, and doesn’t apologize. Justified reaction.

Peeing in the shower is okay, peeing on someone’s feet isn’t

Agreed, peeing in the shower is unnecessary and unsanitary.

Shower pee-er lacks manners, NTA for kicking him out.

To pee or not to pee? A shower etiquette dilemma.

Respectful NTA comment sets clear boundaries and calls out arguing.

Peeing in the shower: harmless or gross?

No pee in the shower, please! NTA for kicking out.

Peeing in the shower is NOT okay, and here’s why.

ESH: Peeing in the shower is gross, but kicking out extreme.

Peeing in the shower: NAH or ESH? The verdict explained.

Common habit or unacceptable behavior? Debate on shower peeing.

Defending shower peeing with humor and practicality

Shower-peeing roommate refuses to listen, insults landlord. NTA.

Shower pee-er defends himself and declares NTA.

Spouse’s shower peeing habits cause marital strife

Respectful shower pee-er accepts boundaries and gets kicked out

Cleaning advice for dealing with a shower pee-er.

NTA. Shower peeing is common but not in someone else’s shower. Argumentative behavior and lack of consent is a red flag.

ESH couple overreacts to shower pee-er, but kicking out extreme

Is shower peeing really that big of a deal?

Debate over shower peeing and clogged drains. ESH.

To pee or not to pee? Setting boundaries in shared spaces.
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