Ever felt like you’re the only one putting in effort in your friendships? That’s what our protagonist here is going through. They’re surrounded by friends who constantly post about their depression on social media, urging others to ‘check in on’ them. But when it comes to our protagonist’s own mental health struggles, these friends seem to be MIA. ♀️ It’s a one-sided relationship that’s taking a toll on their mental health, and they’re starting to wonder if they’re the a**hole for not wanting to give attention to their friends’ depression anymore. Let’s dive into their story…
Mental Health Struggles

Depressed Friends’ Social Media Posts

Listening for Hours ️

Impact on My Mental Health

Feeling Drained

My Own Struggles

Changing the Subject

Formality Questions

No Positive or Interesting Topics

Can’t Take It Anymore

Holding on to Good Feelings

Dying Plant Metaphor

Not Someone Who Can Be Squeezed

Angry at Their Posts

Can’t Give Attention Anymore

One-Sided Friendships: A Mental Health Nightmare
Our protagonist is struggling with their own mental health, but their friends seem to only care about their own problems. These friends constantly post about their depression on social media, asking others to check in on them, but never reciprocate the support. ♀️ Our protagonist is tired of listening to hours of negativity without any improvement, and it’s affecting their own mental health. They feel like a dying plant, with their friends trying to squeeze out the last drops of water for themselves. Now, they’re questioning if they’re the a**hole for not wanting to give attention to their friends’ depression anymore. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Being a friend doesn’t mean being a therapist. #SelfCare

Self-care is important. You’re NTA for setting boundaries

Self-care matters, even for emotional support.

Protect your mental health, unfollow toxic friends. NTA

Depression is real, but attention-seekers shouldn’t harm your mental health. NTA

Cutting off toxic friendships for mental health

Don’t let others drain you! Take care of yourself first.

Healthy friendships require mutual support. These ‘friends’ are selfish

It’s okay to prioritize your mental health first

Self-care is important. Encourage friends to seek professional help.

Stop being an ’emotional dumping ground’ for depressed ‘friends’
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Encouraging professional help for depressed friends is important
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Being there for friends is important, but prioritize your own mental health

Don’t be an ’emotional dumping ground’ for draining friends. NTA.

Prioritizing mental health doesn’t make you the a**hole

Prioritizing self-care in mental health field. Not the a**hole.

Take a mental health break from Facebook and prioritize self-care

Cut off toxic friends who drain you emotionally. NTA

Setting boundaries with friends who use you as a therapist

Protect your mental health, consider cutting off toxic friends.

Prioritizing self-care and setting boundaries is important for mental health

Taking responsibility for own mental health, not obligated to listen.
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Setting boundaries with draining friends. NTA

Setting boundaries is important, prioritize your own mental health

Setting boundaries in friendships is important for mental health

Friends using mental health as an excuse for attention-seeking behavior. NTA.
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Protect your energy, say no to energy vampires. You’re NTA

True friends check on each other during tough times

Set boundaries with depressed friends who demand constant attention.

Setting boundaries can be tough, but necessary for self-care

Setting boundaries with friends can be tough but necessary

Being a supportive friend doesn’t mean being an emotional punching bag

Setting boundaries is okay! NTA for prioritizing mental health

Toxic friendships draining you? Let them go!

Misunderstandings in mental health can be harmful

Set boundaries and prioritize your mental health. NTA
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Set boundaries and prioritize mental health. NTA

Prioritizing oneself in mental health is important. Good metaphorical tips!

Setting boundaries with friends for better mental health

Setting boundaries with depressed friends: balancing support and self-care

Breaking free from toxic friendships. NTA for setting boundaries!

Stepping back from negative friends is important for mental health

Self-care comes first! NTA for distancing from emotional vampires.

Normalizing mental illness struggles and supporting NTA’s stance
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Taking charge of your own mental health is crucial. NTA!

Put yourself first. Quick check-ins are better than long talks.

Self-care is important. NTA for prioritizing mental health

Setting boundaries with toxic people is self-care
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Setting boundaries is important for mental health
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Cut out emotional vampires who only take and never give

Setting boundaries with friends struggling with mental health

Mute and move on for a happier, healthier you
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Take care of yourself first, not an emotional dumping ground

Putting yourself first is not selfish, it’s self-care!

Take care of your mental health first, seek professional help ♀️

Setting boundaries with friends who use you as emotional support.

Setting boundaries for mental health is important for self-care ✌

Putting your mental health first is always the right choice

Set boundaries and prioritize your own mental health. Good luck!

Don’t be an emotional dumping ground for your friends

Protect your mental health. You’re not their therapist. NTA

Don’t be an emotional dumping ground. Find supportive friends

Don’t be an emotional dumping ground, it can strain friendships.

Don’t set yourself on fire to keep others warm

Setting boundaries is important for self-care and mental health

Helping depressed friends can be exhausting, NTA for walking away.

No more emotional baggage! NTA drops toxic friends

Setting boundaries with friends is important for mental health.

Cutting off leeches: why being an emotional dumping ground sucks

Put yourself first , cut off toxic friendships , prioritize mental health

Being a good listener doesn’t mean you’re an emotional punching bag

Set boundaries and prioritize your own mental health

Setting healthy boundaries with manipulative friends. Not the a**hole

Take care of yourself first. Limited contact is a healthy boundary

NTA. It’s important to check on friends, but not everyone can handle a crisis. Offering help we’re not equipped to give can harm more than help.

Self-care is important. Encourage therapy for both parties

Take care of yourself first . You don’t owe anyone your mental health.
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Find friends who care about you, not just your shoulder
