Moving in together is a big step in any relationship, but what happens when one partner makes a questionable financial decision? Our story’s heroine (28F) and her boyfriend (31M) have been together for over two years and were finally ready to move in together. They found a perfect place, but just as they were about to sign the lease, she discovered her boyfriend’s shocking purchase: a 42k Corvette! Now, she’s rethinking their future together, and the drama is just beginning.
The Perfect Apartment Opportunity
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A Friend’s Offer
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Credit Check Complete ✅
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A Ridiculous Purchase
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The Shocking Reveal
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Financial Bailouts
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Late Payments ⏰
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The Expensive Corvette ️
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None of Her Business?
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The Truth Comes Out
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Huge Monthly Payments
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Security Deposit Drama
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Calling Off the Lease
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BF’s Lease Ending ⏳
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Yelling and Accusations
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Is She Right to Cancel Their Plans?
Our heroine was ready to take the next step with her boyfriend, but his irresponsible financial decision has her questioning everything. After discovering he bought a 42k Corvette and expected her to cover part of the apartment security deposit, she called off the lease signing. Now, her boyfriend is furious and accuses her of meddling in his business. But with a history of bailing him out on rent, she can’t help but worry about their future together. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this dramatic situation…
NTA for cancelling apartment signing over BF’s expensive car purchase

BF spends irresponsibly, asks for money, and hides purchases. NTA.

NTA: Money incompatibility can break relationships. Good call to cancel.

NTA cancels apartment signing after BF’s expensive car purchase

NTA . Walking away from an unaffordable apartment and car payment.

Dodging a bullet . Standing up for oneself. NTA

NTA. OP made a responsible decision to not sign the lease

Financial compatibility is key in relationships, NTA

Don’t cohabit yet, see if he matures before financial burden.

Don’t let anyone tell you it’s not your business #NTA

NTA comment defends cancelling apartment signing over BF’s car purchase

Financially incompatible couple, bullet dodged. NTA

A silver lining to the boyfriend’s untrustworthiness

Dodged a bullet with a , spelled ex right

Prioritizing financial health over expensive purchases. NTA

Financially irresponsible partner? Walk away and save yourself trouble.

Smart move! Opting out of financial binding with someone irresponsible.

NTA. You made a smart move and should reconsider the relationship

Partner’s financial immaturity can ruin relationships. NTA made right choice

Dating is about shared values and vision. NTA.

Empowering young women to make smart financial decisions

Don’t let him grift on you! Take control!

Financial incompatibility leads to cancelled apartment signing. NTA

Smart move! Don’t attach yourself financially to an irresponsible partner. NTA

Savage comment on BF’s expensive car purchase

Partner’s expensive car purchase causes financial strain and relationship issues.

Avoiding financial incompatibility saved her wallet and good graces.

Wise advice to observe his behavior and consider your future

Sharing financial responsibilities is important in relationships

Financial compatibility is crucial in a long-term relationship.

NTA for cancelling apartment over BF’s poor financial decisions

Red flag alert! Think twice before marrying him.

Mixed judgments on canceling apartment signing due to boyfriend’s irresponsibility.

Financial responsibility in relationships: when to get involved

NTA commenter defends cancelling apartment signing over BF’s car purchase

Partner prioritizes car over rent, NTA for canceling lease

Don’t pay for his toys! You made the right choice.

Sleeping in a racecar bed? ️ ️ NTA’s dream come true

Financial compatibility is key for a successful relationship ❤️

Don’t let him play with your money NTA

Partner’s excessive spending and secrecy will drain your bank account. #NTA

Don’t let him drive you into debt

Break up with the broke man . NTA for canceling.

Don’t let your partner’s financial irresponsibility ruin your future. NTA

Reconsider the relationship, he’s irresponsible with money and manipulative.

NTA. Relationship advice on financial transparency and responsibility.

Priorities matter: BF chooses car over apartment, OP cancels signing

NTA raises important questions about finances and marriage.

Don’t let him drag you down, he’s a money pit

Avoiding financial entanglement with someone with poor spending habits. NTA.

Cutting ties with an expensive and useless partner. NTA

Be cautious of tying yourself financially to him. NTA

Oops, too bad, so sad! ♀️ NTA strikes again.

Smart move. Don’t let him drain your finances.

Dump him. NTA

Don’t let anyone take advantage of your hard-earned money!

NTA cancels apartment signing over BF’s expensive car purchase

Think twice before marrying someone with selfish spending habits

NTA. Commenter points out short-sightedness of BF’s expensive car purchase.

NTA. Supportive and straightforward response to a toxic relationship.
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NTA. It’s your money too, prioritize apartment over car

Doubts on BF’s car payments and trade-in. NTA.

NTA comment suggests dodging a bullet with a French saying

Financially-savvy commenter advises against expensive car purchase. #NTA

Financially irresponsible boyfriend gets dumped before moving in together.

Avoiding financial trouble with a car purchase. NTA decision.

Sarcastic reply to NTA comment on honeymoon bankruptcy trend

Clueless boyfriend’s expensive car purchase leads to canceled apartment

Partner buys Corvette after needing deposit, NTA for cancelling.

Cut your losses now and dump this irresponsible spender

Covering his share, her business. Can’t make rent, bye car

Don’t move in with someone financially irresponsible. NTA

Prioritizing an expensive car over bills? Definitely NTA

NTA advises ending relationship over BF’s financial irresponsibility.

Financial transparency is key in moving in together. NTA.

Financially irresponsible BF gets dumped over expensive car purchase

Prioritizing a Corvette over savings? NTA for cancelling apartment.

NTA commenter warns about impracticality of expensive car purchase

NTA cancels apartment over BF’s expensive car purchase

Don’t be a bank with benefits . Smart move!

Red flag alert! Commenter advises to run for the hills
