Imagine being the keeper of a secret that could potentially shatter your best friend’s heart. A 27-year-old woman finds herself in this exact predicament when she discovers her best friend’s boyfriend’s proposal plans. The twist? The proposal is set to be a family affair, but only for the boyfriend’s side of the family. Knowing her friend’s deep-rooted values and expectations, our heroine is torn between preserving the surprise and preventing a heartbreak.
The Proposal Plot Thickens ️♀️

The Perfect Ring and the Perfect Plan ✨

A Family Affair? Not Quite…

The Exclusion Begins…

The Unwanted Surprise

Confrontation and Deflection ♂️

The Parents in the Dark ️♀️

A Heartbreak on the Horizon?

The Dilemma Deepens… ♀️

The Final Decision

The Secret Keeper’s Verdict
Our secret-keeper decides to hold her tongue, letting the events unfold as they may. She’s done her part, offering the boyfriend a chance to include her friend’s family and friends in the proposal plans. Now, the ball is in his court. Will this proposal be the magical moment her friend dreamed of, or a heartbreaking revelation of mismatched values? Only time will tell. Stay tuned for the aftermath.
“DO NOT TELL HER.” A dilemma of loyalty and intervention.

Let him propose his way and see his true colors

Let him f**k up the proposal and show his true colors

YTA, stay out! Let her decide. It’s her choice.

Let him propose, be there to support her afterwards

Engaging comment about protecting a friend from a tricky situation.

Don’t ruin the proposal, let her learn from her mistakes!

Keep the secret or risk being the bad guy?

Mind your own business, it’s not your place to interfere!

Curious about the secret proposal? Find out the juicy details!

YTA, but your heart is in the right place

Secret proposal plans and the dilemma of involving family

Should I spill the beans or stay out of it?

Encourage open communication to avoid pressure in secret proposal

Let him blow the proposal maybe she’ll see his true colors
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Let it play out, support her, and be there afterwards

OP receives praise for seeking advice and being considerate

Tread carefully! Avoid being the bad guy in this dilemma.

Supportive advice: Stay out of it, be there for your friend

Stay out of it. Who dreams of a staged proposal?

Supportive friend offers advice on proposal situation.

Curious about how the bf messes up their relationship?

Don’t be the relationship spoiler! Let them figure it out.

Don’t spoil the surprise! Let them have their special moment

Curiosity piqued: Any updates on the secret proposal plans?

Agree with NTA, better one moment of hurt than years.

Curious about the outcome? OP, give us an update!
